Hi, me and my gf had sex for the first
time the other day and we used a condom
and evrything and I never even came. She
is having pains in her abdomen and feels
bloated, and her breast are sore also. I
am wondering if this could be because she
is about to be on her period on the 9th.
(or so im hoping) im hoping she isnt
pregnant. I was jsut wondering if it is
normal for girls to experience pains down
there after the first time. She also
threw up the yesterday morning too.. Jsut
freakin out..
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-08-05 11:29am
Im pretty sure that you have nothing to
worry about.. Her periods due in two days
and it sounds like thats why she feels
that way. Have her get on birth control
and continue using condoms if you want to
be even safer.
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broadcastedlife
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Joined: 15 Aug 2003 Posts: 183 Location: babenhausen, Germany
Re: Sex After 1st Time Posted: 07-08-05 16:10pm
helpme88
wrote:
hi, me and my gf had sex for
the first time the other day and we used a
condom and evrything and I never even
came. She is having pains in her abdomen
and feels bloated, and her breast are sore
also. I am wondering if this could be
because she is about to be on her period
on the 9th. (or so im hoping) im hoping
she isnt pregnant. I was jsut wondering
if it is normal for girls to experience
pains down there after the first time.
She also threw up the yesterday morning
too.. Jsut freakin
out..
get her to start birth control. I know it
will be hard but she should think about
telling her mother she is sexually active.
You'd rather he be safe than sorry.
Remember birth control isn't really
effective untill a month after taking it,
and if she doesnt take it at the same
time everyday it won't keep her protected.
Continue to wear condoms. After having
sex the first time its normal for his to
be uncomfortable. Shes probably bloating
because shes getting ready to start her
period. She might be puking from stress.
(i.E. Thinking she might be preg.) be
smart kiddo, and protect both of you.
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Helpme88
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jul 2005 Posts: 3
Posted: 07-09-05 14:21pm
Thanks for the advice, she just had her
period and its all ok... Im talking to
her about birth control too and I think we
are gonna go through with it to be safe.
Thanks again
