Pains,first Time Havign Sex Posted: 07-09-05 18:00pm
My boyfriend and I had sex for the first
time yesturday. It was the first time for
both of us and on my part, it was very
unexpected.I can say, it wasnt really
enjoyable for me and I didnt get much
pleasure out of it.Im quite paranoid and a
worry wart so I got him to stop after
awhile.He even wore two condoms. Its
quite embarassing but he doesnt know if he
put it on the right way or not >.<
he thinks he put the condom on inside
out.Does that prevent it from
protecting?He didnt cum but im aware of
precum.Now im just a worried. Today I
expereiced sharp cramps and im so
tired.All this comes along with sex doesnt
it?My period is suppose to start in 6
days.
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Sarah89
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Posted: 07-10-05 14:46pm
Honey since your boyfriend used two
condoms and pulled out before he
ejeculated im sure you aren't pregnant you
are just paranoid. My first time having
sex wasn't that pleasurable either, it
hurt. The more you do it the better it
gets, but if you are planning on having
sex alot I would reccomend getting on the
pill and using a condom to prevent an
unwanted pregnancy! As for the part about
him putting on the condom inside out I
really doubt he did that because that
would be really hard to do, but if he did
im sure it still worked and since he used
two he had twice the protection. If you
were pregnant (which I doubt you are) you
wouldn't be having symptoms the next day.
Just try to not worry about being pregnant
because you aren't and it you worry it can
make you period late or even make you skip
it! Good luck!
You shouldn't use 2 condoms at a time, the
friction between the condoms makes it more
likely to tear.
I thought you should know that if you are
sexually active.
As for being pregnant I highly doubt you
are.
Take care, and be safe :d
kimmie
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Gothette
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Posted: 07-13-05 03:15am
I agree with ^ 2 condoms will cause
tearing, and some condoms come with
directions. The condom has this stuff ( I
forget what its called) but it kills the
sperm. I dont know if anyone ever heard
about how some girls want to get pregnant
they turn the condom inside out when no
ones looking and *finger* themselves with
it. Well its impossible to get pregnant
that way because of the stuff on it. But
anywho, my first time wasnt pleasurable
but it didnt hurt also about an hour later
I had my second time which was more
pleasurable in a way. :)
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justacanadiangirl
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Posted: 07-13-05 11:52am
That's only for condoms that have
spermicide on them. Regular condoms don't
have that.
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xo_ash
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Posted: 07-16-05 13:28pm
Im becoming increasingly paranoid. I was
actually somewhat relaxed and calm about
up to the point when my period did not
come when it was suppose to come.3-4 days
late now since I was early last
month.Normally, I should have ovulated
already when I had sex 6 days before my
period was suppose to come shouldnt I
have? But now im late and scared.At this
point, sex the first time around wasnt so
great so im not all that tempted to do it
again for a very long time and all this
stress is soo not worth it.
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bt12
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Posted: 07-18-05 22:18pm
It sounds like yall are a lil too young to
be having sex, im guessing yall are 13 or
14? Im assuming this because yalls lack
of knowledge...I mean puttin not one but 2
condoms on.....Let alone him thinking they
were inside out. Now thats classic, I
mean if he doesnt know how to put a condom
on, he shouldnt be allowed around the
female race...It sounds like yall need to
wait about 6 or 7...I
dunno...Years...Before yall try that
again...Watch some porn in the mean time,
it will help...Seriously...Try it...Oh
yea, by the way, condoms come with
directions, I always thought that they
were pointless.............No offense to
either one of you but im speakin to you
like I would my own children...
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Condom Information Posted: 07-27-05 21:50pm
Hey
congrats to all you who are pregnant. I
am not pregnant but I did have a recent
scare so I started to look into this fourm
adn I noticed some of you say that your
boyfriend used like 2 comdoms or multiple
condoms but I learnt from my doctor that
using multiple condomsat once actully
increases the risk of those condoms
breaking becuase there is friction becuase
remeber it only latex. Hope I gave you
some good info by the way what are your
favorite types of condoms I personally
like durex ribbed.
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