Joined: 10 Jul 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Kansas City
Why Am I So Loose? Posted: 07-10-05 18:52pm
My boyfriend and I have been having sex
for about a year. On average, we have sex
maybe once every 2 weeks. My question is
that lately, when we're having sex, after
a while I can't feel him inside me unless
he's literally banging against my cervix.
If he just moves in and out without
pounding me, I can't feel him thrusting in
and out. I do kegals all the time, so I
don't know why I feel so...Open. I'm kind
of embarrassed to talk to him about it
without some input from you guys first.
Does anyone know what else I can do or if
there's something I can take so I won't be
so loose?
Also, he's the first and only guy i've
ever had sex with and he's pretty big
length and thickness-wise. (just for
background purposes)
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c_o
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Joined: 26 Sep 2005 Posts: 10 Location: Warrensburg, MO
Re: Why Am I So Loose? Posted: 09-26-05 01:30am
I can't give u an answer but I will tell
you that you aren't alone in your problem!
My boyfriend is big too and I used to
think I could barely "handle" him but now
it's...Um well...Things have loosened up.
I did hear though something on a show that
had dr drew on it and there is a surgery
that basically re-virginizes you all over
again.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-26-05 20:29pm
That would be painful, since it would
involve stitching up the length of the
vagina to make it tighter. Also, it makes
me twitchy because it sounds a lot like
some of the procedures used in female
circumscision.
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lovemad
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Joined: 22 Sep 2005 Posts: 6 Location: Oxon Hill, MD
You Know What Posted: 10-06-05 16:01pm
Your body gets use to his penis.....If you
ever had kids your vagina is not the same
as when you gave birth.... Take a nice
hot bath and soak in some hot water....
And if your vagina gets to wet while
having intercourse you wont feel it....
And dont take all them blame your
boyfriends penis may be loosing his
erection while having intercourse.....
Try that
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ummyea
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Joined: 06 Oct 2005 Posts: 17
Posted: 10-07-05 01:19am
Well, I know a lot of the times if I can't
feel my man it's b/c i'm too lose or b/c
he's "softened" a little bit. I was told
to work my kegal muscles to help tighten
things up, not too mention if you use them
while having sex it increases pleasure on
both sides.
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steph7985
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Joined: 17 Aug 2008 Posts: 45 Location: ,
Posted: 08-17-08 01:25am
Yes I am the same way...even before I got
pregnant.
Lovemad is right, your body DOES get used
to the size of his penis. I'm having the
same issue, and my husband is big.
