I know I shouldn't be on this forum but
the woman are not helping mw so can
someone please help me?I need help trying
to please my boyfriend. He is hard to
satisify because he always wants me to
ride him and I don't know how please help
someone???!!!! He always wants to me to
let him get me up my butt which is big but
I really don't like it. He is always
horny for me to suck his thing. I hate it
especially when he cums in my mouth. I am
an unexperienced person in having sex with
people like him. He has a very big thing
and it hurts when it goes in all the time.
I need someone to help with how to ride
this dude. He getts mad if I do it wrong
and getts out of the mood whick sucks for
me. Help please.
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raverbaby
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 55 Location: P.A
Posted: 11-18-03 10:45am
I
say that you should just let him take
over. Ask him if he could show you a few
things. That was to much to let us peeps
know but more power to you. Just watch
all that cum you could get sick. To me
thats just nasty in the butt. But hey I
wouldn't knocked it. Do you. Just know
what you want from him. Just keep it
real.
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philasheo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Nov 2003 Posts: 12 Location: vbva
Sex Tips From Guys Posted: 11-22-03 16:06pm
Sounds like yr guy is all about himself.
When ya say big what does that mean? Big
for some is 6 while big for others is 8.
As far as him doing whatever he wants to
that is yr choice. But I would make sure
he understands yr needs too. Whn the grl
is on top riding the dude she has more
control as to how much she can take. Try
to get yr dude to let you control until yr
comfortable taking all of him. As far as
anal sex make sure you are redy for it and
make sure you lubricate yrslf good. Also
dont let your guy go fm anal to frontend
without washing himself first. Guys like
bjs and they like cumming in the mouth.
It is just the way most of us are. Its a
guy thing to feel ourselves going off in a
mouth. Hope this helps somewhat.
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saturn24
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2003 Posts: 206 Location: Pittsburgh, Pa
Posted: 11-25-03 01:41am
Talk to him about the whole thing, and
tell him that he has to be understanding.
If he is too pushy, than you need to
leave him.
Last edited by saturn24 on 11-30-03 04:45am; edited 1 time in total
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sammy_0701
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2003 Posts: 1
Posted: 11-25-03 02:03am
Ok, first of all, you seem timid about sex
which is somthing that you should feel
comfortable enough to discuss with your
partner openly. You should be able to
ask him what he likes and doesn't like but
in return, you have to be able to tell him
what you like and don't like. Anal sex
seems to be somthing that is a hit or
miss, no pun intended. Either you like,
or at least can stand it, or you hate it.
(i fit into that category) let him know,
don't be talked into things that you don't
feel comfortable doing. As for oral sex,
cumming in the mouth has nothing to do
with self respect!! It has to do with
what you enjoy and what feels good. If
you don't like him to cum in your mouth,
then you have to be strong enough to tell
him that, trust me, a guy will get off
either way, I don't think they care that
much where they cum. Offer up some place
else like on your breast or somthing like
that. I hope this has helped a bit,
basically I think youshould be more open
and honest with yourself and with your
b/f.
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minerwater
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2003 Posts: 153 Location: Canada
What a Jerk! Posted: 12-09-03 16:53pm
Firstly there is not room in sex to be
pissed off.
Who the hell is he?
- he needs an attitude check and you need
to find somone who respects you and wont
make you feel bad.
As far as finding out how to do things,
check the net, books..But really, riding
is either grinding your pelvis or going up
and down. This you just do with your
body. It'll take some time getting use to
it since it's not a natural movement for
your body.
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fahad
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Dec 2003 Posts: 6 Location: Pakistan
Try to Solve the Prob Posted: 12-10-03 05:26am
Hey!!! I feel sorry for u. Talk to
him n try to solve the prob by
negotiating, if it doesn't work then I
think u should leave him...
Last edited by fahad on 12-11-03 23:20pm; edited 1 time in total
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allusivepond
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 452
Ne Ne Take Control Posted: 12-11-03 01:21am
I just read your post and while it may be
a bit late I am going to write it anyway.
Take control let him know whos boss if he
wants you to grind and he dont like the
way you do it. Tell him to shut up as
its what he wanted and if he explained
stuff to you a bit more it might be a bit
more pleasureable for the both of ya.
As for getting angry wot an ass. He
obviously doesnt really care about you or
he would care how this sort of treatment
makes you feel. It also sounds like
because of the way he is treating you and
making you upset he kinda gets off on this
submissive stuff whether you realise it or
not.
And lastly if you dont want to go down on
him then dont, we all know it dont have
the greatest taste but if you are doing it
to make him happy you shouldnt be doing it
and if he is cumming in your mouth and u
dont want him to when you think he is
about to finish or is close take him out
of your mouth and finish him by hand if he
trys to put himself back in your mouth you
can do one of two things.
(a) just pull away and leave him hanging
or
(b) many years ago I was seeing this guy
who was not good for me but thats another
story anyway his then girlfriend didnt
want him to come in her mouth but he did
this one day and she took it and didnt let
him know that she 'hadnt disposed of it'
and then she kissed him and spat it into
his mouth. All he could do was swallow
his own semen.
While this story may seem gross and all
the guys out there are going he had
choices well let me tell you so do you, I
betcha he wont like it so y should you put
up with it.
Let me know how you go
from someone who cant wait to have a jelly
bean all of their own
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jerseygirl1979
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Dec 2003 Posts: 12
Be More Confident Posted: 12-11-03 09:19am
The whole on top thing is pretty fun
in my opinion. I always thought that I
would be bad at it at first but once you
start doing you get better and more
confident do different things ask him if
he likes it as far as the whole blow job
thing in my opinion its sometimes better
to give then recieve unless your not
receivig at all then you tell him to go
scratch if you have body issues its
obvious he dosnt care if your too fat too
skinny to flaby because he wouldnt be with
you if he did anal sex is something you
have to be comfortable with I tell my
boyfriend that when he marries me then he
can stick it in because then my ass will
belong to him until then its mine
communiction is good tell him what your
feeling tell him what you want and ask him
what he wants try different things youll
be surprised you might like most of them
but..... If he cant respect your choices
and he cant respect your feelings and
needs then givethis dude the boot and tell
him to go pound sand
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understood
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Nov 2003 Posts: 13
Manners In the Bedroom Posted: 12-11-03 10:10am
Hey,,maybe I am to late and you figured it
out for yourself. Your guy sounds like
someone who doesn't care for you,,should
be considerate of your feelings, and you
sound like you have a lack in self
confidence.
Be proud of your body,and who you
are,,don't let this guy with a big penis
dicate you sex life. He probably thinks
you should be lucky and worshiping him
because he has a big one.
Wrong,,,,while size matters, size is not
everything. I should know,,i also have a
huge one but would never impose it on my
girlfriend or demand anything of her that
she wasn't willng to do. And no<
no< I wouldn't abuse her butt ,,the
p<<<is so much better.
Hope you send this guy on his way.
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khalil
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Dec 2003 Posts: 2
Re: Sex Tips From Guys Posted: 12-17-03 11:02am
ne-ne
wrote:
i know I shouldn't be on
this forum but the woman are not helping
mw so can someone please help me?I need
help trying to please my boyfriend. He
is hard to satisify because he always
wants me to ride him and I don't know how
please help someone???!!!! He always
wants to me to let him get me up my butt
which is big but I really don't like it.
He is always horny for me to suck his
thing. I hate it especially when he cums
in my mouth. I am an unexperienced
person in having sex with people like him.
He has a very big thing and it hurts
when it goes in all the time. I need
someone to help with how to ride this
dude. He getts mad if I do it wrong and
getts out of the mood whick sucks for me.
Help please.
get nother guy.
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fizal
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2003 Posts: 1 Location: kuala lumpur
Think About Yourself Posted: 12-24-03 02:45am
If u like 2 eat cum than do it, if u can
stay longer bj than do it,
this is a tip 4 u.....
1.Always bj him everytime he need sex and
never let him ride u
2.Shows ur unhappy woman mood every time
he finished cause u didnt
as a man they need woman 2 ride, he will
miss u then , but if he still dont
change.........Just leave him.
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saturn24
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2003 Posts: 206 Location: Pittsburgh, Pa
Posted: 12-24-03 05:09am
What? Give him a bj every time he wants
sex! He is a jerk, he doesn't deserve
it! And she said she didin't like the cum
thing.
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Diablo69
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jan 2004 Posts: 12
Posted: 01-09-04 18:12pm
First of all I think this is just some guy
fooling around, but if you want my
advice.
If, you want to please him that's simple -
do everything he says.
But, your dude sounds like he's just in it
to hit it - if I were you i'd find someone
who has the same idea about sex as you do.
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ilovemybaby4life
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jan 2004 Posts: 23 Location: pennsylvania
Posted: 01-20-04 09:50am
Your boyfriend sounds like an problem to
me u shouldnt have to put up with that
dump hos ass and find someone more on ur
level
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I
say that you should just let him take
over. Ask him if he could show you a few
things. That was to much to let us peeps
know but more power to you. Just watch
all that cum you could get sick. To me
thats just nasty in the butt. But hey I
wouldn't knocked it. Do you. Just know
what you want from him. Just keep it
real.
in my opinion. I always thought that I
would be bad at it at first but once you
start doing you get better and more
confident do different things ask him if
he likes it as far as the whole blow job
thing in my opinion its sometimes better
to give then recieve unless your not
receivig at all then you tell him to go
scratch if you have body issues its
obvious he dosnt care if your too fat too
skinny to flaby because he wouldnt be with
you if he did anal sex is something you
have to be comfortable with I tell my
boyfriend that when he marries me then he
can stick it in because then my ass will
belong to him until then its mine
communiction is good tell him what your
feeling tell him what you want and ask him
what he wants try different things youll
be surprised you might like most of them
but..... If he cant respect your choices
and he cant respect your feelings and
needs then givethis dude the boot and tell
him to go pound sand