Joined: 12 Sep 2004 Posts: 77 Location: California
What's Wrong With Me? Posted: 07-11-05 17:29pm
I don't know ... I've ben ttc for about 6
or 7 months now ... And we had sex all on
my ovulation days and still no nothing .
I'm starting to get sad because is it me??
I don't know what to do anymore ... I
just want to give up sometimes . What
should I do ??
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 07-11-05 17:42pm
It could take at least a year to get
preggers. It took my bf and I like 3
yrs. We weren't trying hard though.
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 07-11-05 17:53pm
Stress can stop you from getting preggars,
have you both gotten checked out. Six or
seven months is not that long in ttc.
Good luck!
Sincerely,
sandy
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jbugg412
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Jul 2004 Posts: 34 Location: NY
Posted: 07-11-05 18:18pm
I had been trying for like 7 months, then
when we weren't trying it happened. So
just relax, don't "try" to got prego. It
works trust me, it happend to me.
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Ally
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Sep 2004 Posts: 77 Location: California
Posted: 07-11-05 22:16pm
Thanks you guys for all the comments .
Maybe I should just relax and let things
flow naturally .
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El
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 476 Location: Melbourne, Australia
Nothing Wrong Posted: 07-12-05 01:13am
You know what?
I think you're trying too hard. If you
only have sex on your "expected" ovulation
days, you might be missing your real
ovulation days.
We put a big effort into trying for the
first month, counting days, "saving up"
sex for that magical day 14 or whatever,
and nothing. The next month, I was over
thinking about it all the time, and not
having sex on the wrong days, and then
having to have sex on the right days
whether we really fancied it or not, and
then all the time.... Was that the one?
Am I pregnant now?
So we stopped "trying" and had sex when we
felt like it. I got pregnant that month,
and when I had my first ultrasound, they
pinpointed the day I actually concieved as
the 17th of febuary. Now I remember
having my period just before valentines
day, and it finished the day after, so- I
concieved just 2 days after my period
ended- day 6 of my cycle (it was a very
short period) if we'd waited 'till the
"right" time- we would have missed it by
more than a week!!!!! I wouldn't be
sitting here 24 weeks pregnant right
now!!!!
I've heard you can spontaniously ovulate
during an intense orgasm, and i've also
heard that your body will tell you the
right time, by making you really fancy
having sex- so it seems to me the best way
is to jump on your husband whenever the
urge takes you, and have a fantastic time
of it !!!!!
Enjoy and good luck.
:wink:
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Ally
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Sep 2004 Posts: 77 Location: California
Posted: 07-12-05 21:32pm
Lol thanks ... I would of never thought
of that ... And plus I heard that you can
tell when you start to ovulate or before I
don't know ... But this time i'm not
going to try so hard because I always get
let down ...But i'm going to my Dr. Too
see if there's anything wrong with me if
i'm actually not ovulating . You know
just to make sure ...But thanks for the
reply I really needed that .. And the
best of luck for you and your child ..
