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Ally

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What's Wrong With Me?
Posted: 07-11-05 17:29pm

I don't know ... I've ben ttc for about 6 or 7 months now ... And we had sex all on my ovulation days and still no nothing . I'm starting to get sad because is it me?? I don't know what to do anymore ... I just want to give up sometimes . What should I do ??
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lil_blaze2004

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Posted: 07-11-05 17:42pm

It could take at least a year to get preggers. It took my bf and I like 3 yrs. We weren't trying hard though.
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sandyallen

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Posted: 07-11-05 17:53pm

Stress can stop you from getting preggars, have you both gotten checked out. Six or seven months is not that long in ttc.
Good luck!
Sincerely,
sandy
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jbugg412

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Joined: 14 Jul 2004
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Posted: 07-11-05 18:18pm

I had been trying for like 7 months, then when we weren't trying it happened. So just relax, don't "try" to got prego. It works trust me, it happend to me.

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Ally

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Joined: 12 Sep 2004
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Posted: 07-11-05 22:16pm

Thanks you guys for all the comments . Maybe I should just relax and let things flow naturally .
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El

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Joined: 31 Mar 2005
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Posted: 07-12-05 01:13am

You know what?
I think you're trying too hard. If you only have sex on your "expected" ovulation days, you might be missing your real ovulation days.

We put a big effort into trying for the first month, counting days, "saving up" sex for that magical day 14 or whatever, and nothing. The next month, I was over thinking about it all the time, and not having sex on the wrong days, and then having to have sex on the right days whether we really fancied it or not, and then all the time.... Was that the one? Am I pregnant now?
So we stopped "trying" and had sex when we felt like it. I got pregnant that month, and when I had my first ultrasound, they pinpointed the day I actually concieved as the 17th of febuary. Now I remember having my period just before valentines day, and it finished the day after, so- I concieved just 2 days after my period ended- day 6 of my cycle (it was a very short period) if we'd waited 'till the "right" time- we would have missed it by more than a week!!!!! I wouldn't be sitting here 24 weeks pregnant right now!!!!
I've heard you can spontaniously ovulate during an intense orgasm, and i've also heard that your body will tell you the right time, by making you really fancy having sex- so it seems to me the best way is to jump on your husband whenever the urge takes you, and have a fantastic time of it !!!!!

Enjoy and good luck.
:wink:
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Ally

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Joined: 12 Sep 2004
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Location: California

Posted: 07-12-05 21:32pm

Lol thanks ... I would of never thought of that ... And plus I heard that you can tell when you start to ovulate or before I don't know ... But this time i'm not going to try so hard because I always get let down ...But i'm going to my Dr. Too see if there's anything wrong with me if i'm actually not ovulating . You know just to make sure ...But thanks for the reply I really needed that .. And the best of luck for you and your child ..
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