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Coramoor

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jul 2005
Posts: 2
Need Some Help
Posted: 07-12-05 00:43am

Okay this is the story me and my girlfriend not really since we dont date but anyways this is the story we started making out and then that was pretty much we just started doing it more every friday when she came to my house and then I went away for two weeks I came back and we went a little further not fingering and hand job just up her shirt anyways we talk on the phone pretty much every night but then she came over last friday and she was a lot less responsive to my touch but more so then tonight which is tuesday, she would move away every time I touched her even if I was just moving around and distracted herself with the tv we barely even touched and I want to know if this is a girl thing and if there is anything I can really do to make things better, she says she isnt mad at me or anything like that we would just hug and she would apoligize but not tell me what for anyways any help is appreciated
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poohbear101

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004
Posts: 383

Posted: 07-12-05 15:48pm

I can't say for sure this is whats wrong but I know when I was younger like 14/15 I wouldn't want to do anything with my bf while I was on my period. I wouldn't even want him to touch me and I never told him why. Could be why she doesn't want to do anything. Or maybe shes thought things over and doesn't want to be friends with benifits anymore. Give her some time and if things don't change then try and have her talk about it.
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Coramoor

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jul 2005
Posts: 2

Posted: 07-12-05 19:31pm

She has irregular periods but I know she isnt on it she tells me when she is and it was only a week ago and as for the other thing that would be harsh to me since we are more then friends with benefits as there are actual feelings invovled and ya idn it just worries me as I know she is one of those people where the feeling just vanishes but I wouldnt have thought but then again i'm paranoid so i'll have to see
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man1986

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jul 2005
Posts: 4
What's Wrong
Posted: 07-17-05 23:08pm

There can be so many reasons why she is non responsive...The only way to know for sure is really to have a heart to heart conversation with her, be honest and let her know how you feel. Honestly speak to her and ask her why she moves away when you touch her.

Having dated for so many years, i've gone through all the reasons given.

1. Woman wants more then just sex/intimacy in the relationship.
2. Woman is on her period
3. Woman is sick/under the weather
4. Woman has met another man
5. Woman has cheated and has feelings of guilt


6. Man has poor hygiene
7. Man only appears to want to have sex nothing else.

The list goes on and on. I hope this helps, but I really suggest you speak to her about your feelings and see what she says.






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