Sad, Jealous,...long Distance..? Posted: 07-13-05 12:14pm
Me and my bf have been dating for 1yr and
1 month today but it hasn't been easy were
in a long distance relationship I miss him
every day sometime I get so sad I cant
help but cry I try not to but I see other
ppl with there b/f or g/f and it makes me
sad I love my b/f and lately I have had
bad thoughts about what would happen if he
died and all I know is when I think of
that I think of never being with anyone
else. I tried to break this up in the 3
or 4 months when we started dating but he
held on and didn't want me to go. In the
13 months we've been together we've seen
each other like only 7 or 8 times and I
have known him for over 2 yrs. The part
of me thats missing him misses him so much
that when I go out I wanna come home early
to talk to him or wait for him to call me
(i cant call him I don't have long
distance on either of my phone he only
does) I cant really say no to him, he lies
to me a lot and yells at me and says if
he doesndoesnt' at me he thinks im
noti'mistening to him or I don't get his
point if he doesdoesnt'l it to me, I try
to tell him if ur going to yell at me
don't call me tomorrow but yet he does and
I cant not pick up the phone and talk cuz
he says if I don't "just see what happens
if u don't pick up". When I tell him how
I feel when ii'msad about being far away
he always twists it into a way that makes
me the bad person but when I wanna talk
about the relationship all I wan from him
is pospositivegsuggestionsmething to make
me feel good about us. I feel like he is
the one for me I love hiihim much but he
makes me feel so many ways towards him,
its wieweirdke hot, cold, on, off, up,
down and that all in one phone call. He's
never hit me and says he never could hit
me. Ii'msoo coconfusedy this relationship
sometime I get sick after talking on the
phone with him.
Were not always like this tho sometime he
can be the best thing in the world I love
him so much we talk about how he want to
grow old with me and how he will be such a
good daddy, we look at rings together.
When I see him its like the a breath of
fresh air to me he mean the world to me
but I just don't know how to deal with how
I feel when i'm not with him.
Sometime I feel I need a support group to
be in this.
Anything I can do to make this all better?
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Re: Sad, Jealous,...long Distance..? Posted: 07-20-05 03:28am
I think you should not put up with him
when he is being sooo mean...You have to
be the mean one not him cause youre the
woman he has to respect you..He either
takes it or he leaves it.You put the
order! And if you dont do that im sorry
for you darling...Im in a long distance
relationship too darling...And I feel the
same exact way you did..Like when you said
that you cared of him and you worry if
something bad happens...Well you love him,
but dont always expect love back and even
more when there is distance..It's
difficult darling ad you know what????Just
stay close and dont get hurt and it will
be all ok..He might be cheating he might
not but hey if you find out it makes you
look bad and if you don't know aaaah
there's nothing(blank) let god handle his
punishment. Anyhow i'm planning to stay
single if I am ever without him...My
friend said that's what we all say when we
think we're in love...Ah there are just so
many taughts like"if you love him let him
go if he comes cback he is yours, if he
doesn't, it means he never was" and other
thaughts like "you think it's true
love"...But try forgeting him although you
love him so.
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