3 Years of Pain Help Me Please!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 07-14-05 14:25pm
I love this girl. The most beautiful girl
in the world. I have secretly loved her
for 3 years. I have managed to keep it
secret, but its getting harder. I
sometimes cycle very far just so I pass
her house to maybe get a chance to catch a
glimpse of her. It has been so hard this
year though. My love for her has tripled
and I have painfully watched her going out
with her boyfriend and kissing him and
stuff. She recently dumped him and thats
when I thought there might be a chance.
But she quickly got another boyfriend
before I gathered the guts to ask her out.
She has been going out with him for 3
weeks now. And my heart is broken into
more than 50,000,000 pieces. Everyday I
think about her. Please someone give me
advice on what to do.
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snownix
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Joined: 06 Jul 2005 Posts: 21
Posted: 07-14-05 14:31pm
To me, there seems to be like no possible
way for you to wait, since you're already
cycling so far just to see her house... 3
years is a long long time to keep it
hidden, and I think that this quick
boyfriend wouldn't mean as much to her as
you. I think you should still go for it,
despite that she's already in a
relationship, it seems like you need the
answer to keep your sanity. And if she
doesn't like you, it'll be hard, but
atleast you have her answer and can try
moving on with your life, there are always
more fish in the sea! It's a win win
situation, just go for it!
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One Tree Hill
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Joined: 14 Jul 2005 Posts: 4 Location: ENGLAND
Cheers Posted: 07-14-05 14:44pm
Thanks m8. Ya see, @ 13, in secondary
school. Word can be spread. And it wont
die down for atleast a month is she
refuses me. I would be really prowd if
she sed yes though. I wouldnt care if the
people pestered me. But if its a no (most
likely) my friendship with her (quite a
good one) would be shatterd.
Thanks for replyin to the topic so fast
matt
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lilmammi
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Joined: 05 Aug 2005 Posts: 34 Location: ohio
Re: Cheers Posted: 08-24-05 04:45am
mtih1992
wrote:
thanks m8. Ya see, @ 13,
in secondary school. Word can be spread.
And it wont die down for atleast a month
is she refuses me. I would be really
prowd if she sed yes though. I wouldnt
care if the people pestered me. But if
its a no (most likely) my friendship with
her (quite a good one) would be
shatterd.
Thanks for replyin to the topic so fast
matt
well the best thing you can do is tell her
how you feel in a private setting.
It may not turn out to be so bad,somtimes
females dont pay attention too closely to
who is right in front of them until they
are showed. Take a chance. Tell her how
u feel instead of a forum.