I'm really scared, because I think i'm
pregnant. Last time I had my period was
at the end of may, so it's almost been 2
months. I had sex on the 24th of last
month, and still havn't gotten my period.
Last time I had my period, it was weird
and didn't come for 2 months, but that
rarely happens to me. I'm starting to
feel sick all the time, as if I always
have to throw up and it's making me think
i'm pregnant. I had unprotected sex,
which is the dumbest thing I think i've
ever done. The guy promises he pulled out
in time, but i'm not so sure anymore. I
took a pregnancy test a week or two after
I had sex, and it came out negative. So I
figured I wasn't, but now i'm starting to
think that maybe my period wasnt even due
anyways, so it would come out negative no
matter what.. I think I need to take
another pregnancy test, but I have no way
of getting to a store without my parents
driving me and knowing thats what i'm
buying. Do you think i'm pregnant? All I
ever think about is this. I'm stressing
out about it so much, and i'm hoping that
that is keeping my period from coming.
But I don't think my luck is with me. The
laws in my state, state that you can have
an abortion without your parents knowing,
but how exactly does that work? Any
advice about any of this would be
appreciated.
It sounds like you may be pregnant. You
should try to get a test done as soon as
possible. If there is no way to get a hpt
then you should go to your doctor and he
will give you one for free (if you are
covered by health care) and
confidentually. It's important to get
this checked out right away because if you
want an abortion (not something I believe
in) then most doctors wont do it after
the third month...And you sound like you
are somewhere between 2-3 months preg
already if you are. Also if you choose to
keep the baby (for yourself or to give up
for adoption) you need vitamins and
prenatal care that is essantial to
yourself and the baby.
Good luck and let me know how it goes.
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
Posted: 07-15-05 18:56pm
If I were you I would take another test.
It sounds like you could be preg. But
take a test anyways. Or go to the doc.
& you can get a test there. If you
don't want your parents finding out then
have a friend drive you there if they have
their license, or a close family member.
I'm 15 & im going through the same
thing so if you need someone to talk to
you can im me on aim broquesbbyg4eva or
yahoo kayla_4724_2002! :)
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Kellyy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2005 Posts: 2 Location: California
Posted: 07-16-05 03:49am
I took another pregnancy test today, and
it came out negative. For some reason, I
feel like my tests are wrong, because I
really feel as though i'm pregnant, it's
been sooo long since i've had my period.
I'm confused?? :( I need help.
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justacanadiangirl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
Posted: 07-16-05 16:24pm
Go see a doctor and find out for sure.
That's really the only way to know.
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Kate917881
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2005 Posts: 113
Posted: 07-17-05 18:13pm
Hey.. Don't stress yourself out..Because
it could be whats making your period
late.. Just relax.. ** I know that
sounds tough..Just try it**..And then if
there's no sign of the missing period ..
Call about a doctor's appt..Or try another
test.. Good luck
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Sybil
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jul 2005 Posts: 7 Location: Chicago
Posted: 07-18-05 12:08pm
While I don't condone lying, if you are
having trouble figuring out how to go to
the doctor, since there are payments due,
etc., without your parents' knowledge, I
suggest that you start by telling your
family that you're sick, don't feel well,
whatever you need to say that's
believable. Get them to take you to the
doctor. If you think your mother would
come into the examining room with you,
have a note prepared ahead of time that
says, "i need to speak to the doctor alone
- without my mother, please help." the
nurse will make sure that you have that
opportunity. Then, tell the doctor
what's going on. The truth. All of
it.
I don't know how old you are, but I was
pregnant when I was a teenager and am now
the mother of 6. My father and mother
were not parents that I felt I could go to
for help, but things have a way of working
out. If you are pregnant there is a lot
to think about. But there are options.
Feel free to send me a message or e-mail
if you need to talk. I think you can
just click on my name and get to my
profile for information on how to do that.
If not, post a reply here. I'll see
it.
I'd go to the doc. Because sometimes the
pregnancy hormone just isn't strong enough
in some women for a hp test to pick up.
And if you are pregnant you need to know
asap.
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vanessalouanne
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Joined: 31 May 2005 Posts: 2268 Location: ,
Thanks: 1
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Posted: 07-26-05 11:49am
My mom never had a positive hpt in her
first trimester with my little brother,
she also had absolutley no symptoms of
being pregnant with him so you never know.
Go to the doctor. By law they have to
keep what goes on between doctor and
patient confidential, if he tells you
parents (which he wont) you could sue his
practice and you would win. That shows
you how much this law is taken seriously.
Dont worry your doctor will not tell your
parents and if you are pregnant you need
to start taking care of yourself and the
baby. And hey you could not even be
pregnant. There are a lot of things out
there that make you not have your period.
