Sometimes It Hurts When I Have Sex. Posted: 07-15-05 19:40pm
Sometimes when me and my boyfriend have
sex it hurts. Hes on the bigger side,
about 8 or so inches, and it feels like
sometimes it hits my wall and when it does
it hurts. Is this normal? Can it do
damage? Is there any way to avoid it or
make it less painful?
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sandyallen
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Posted: 07-15-05 20:52pm
Hi there! Use lots of lubrication and
foreplay(sp), also let him know to take it
easy and try different positions but
lubrication is very important, as he can
tare(sp) you!
Always
sandy
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iwatchedthesky
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Posted: 07-15-05 20:58pm
We always use lubricaiton, that is not the
problem. It feels like he hits my wall or
cervix or something. And it only happens
in certain positions maybe he just goes in
too deep.
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-21-05 17:45pm
I have exactly the same problem with my
husband. I would suggest just finding
positions that you are comfortable with.
The position I most enjoy is doggystyle
but when we do it I have to keep my lower
half on the bed. I guess you would call
it more rear entry. Another one I like
is when I am on my side he thrust in.
Vibrators and a lot of clit stimulation
will really help you achieve an orgasm as
well. Some I would suggest staying away
from are when he lifts your legs up and
holds them on his shoulders (that one
hurts like a nerd) and anything where he
thrusts hard while he is deep inside you.
And if he bends you over the bed tell him
he justs have to go slow.
I know that pain too, I try to describe it
to my husband as what I imagine it feels
like to get a shot to the balls, I hate
the feeling in my stomach when it happens
as well good luck. I think its a lot of
trial and error until you figure out what
works for you
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x0x011
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Posted: 07-21-05 21:24pm
Try you on the bottom and tell him not to
go in very deep. Keep your legs wrapped
around his legs,or your feet flat on the
bed. Putting them up higher or behind his
shoulders will hurt. Also try you on top
but only go as deep as you want.
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Zabrina
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Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 67
Posted: 07-23-05 21:05pm
I heard sometimes it can hurt more when
your ovulating. Sometimes it does hurt so
we have to change positions. Also it
helps to have him start slow. Also being
on top helps because you are in control of
how far in he goes and how fast or hard.
