Joined: 18 Nov 2003 Posts: 12 Location: Urbana, IL
Pregnant? Posted: 11-18-03 21:11pm
Ok...My ex-girlfriend and I had sex a
couple weeks ago. We were both drunk and
I am concerned she may be pregnant. Here
is the story. We first had unprotected
sex for three minutes where then I put a
condom on. I then ejaculated. I put my
penis back in my boxers and then ten
minutes later we had sex again in the same
fashion. 3 minutes unprotected and then
a condom was put on only this time I could
not ejaculate. Eventually, I took the
condom off and just fell alseep with my
penis in her. It came out two minutes
later. My questions are:
1. Given that I masturbate daily is my
sperm still potent to get a girl
pregnant?
2. Given that my boxers wiped off the
sperm and that my penis was dry prior to
going into round 2, was my sperm still
alive?
3. What are the odds of her being
pregnant overall, considering this
occurred on day 12 of her cycle?
4. The next day she got completely
trashed and was throwing up all over the
place...Could this afect anything if she
was pregnant?
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003 Posts: 530
Posted: 11-18-03 22:16pm
Hi goodstuff,
wow you sure do have some tricky
questions, and I will do my best to try to
answer them for you, but it will be much
more helpful to you once the other girls
here answer them aswell, not only do they
give great advice but it helps to have
many opinions.
1. The fact that you masturbate once a
day will not reduce your chances of
getting a girl pregnant. When you think
of people who are trying to become
pregnant, the more sex they have each day,
the better their chances are of
concieving. Therefore the sperm count is
obviously not reduced enough to minimize
pregnancy.
2. It doesn't matter whether or not the
sperm was alive the second time you had
sex, as you had sex twice without a condom
for the first 3 minutes. Seeings as you
masturbate everyday, you probably would
have noticed that semen seeps from the tip
of the penis even before ejaculation.
That semen contains sperm aswell.
Therefore you do not need to ejaculate
inside your partner for her to become
pregnant, you only need to be inside her.
3. Her odds of becoming pregnant are very
high on the 12th day, as around the 14th
day is what we usually consider to be the
typical time of ovulation. Therefore her
body may have already released an egg when
you had sex.
4. Alcohol can cause many complications
in pregnancy, and it certainly does effect
the fetus. It might be a good idea if
your girlfriend doesn't drink any alcohol
until she has taken a pregnancy test and
knows for sure she isn't pregnant. The
first 12 weeks of pregnancy are the most
important, and miscarriage is a very real
possibility.
Good luck...
Suzy
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Trish
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2003 Posts: 45 Location: Alberta, Canada
Posted: 11-19-03 15:31pm
Hello goodstuff,
i agree with suzy 100%..
The boxers would not wipe off the little
bit of sperm that is still trapped in the
head off your penis and staying in her the
sperm will work there way in her..
She could be preggers.. So I hope you can
be there for her since she is your ex, be
supportive and caring.. Try not to stress
her or your self out..
Trish
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pipskintine
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2003 Posts: 42 Location: MI
Posted: 11-19-03 19:37pm
Hmm, I heard that having sex everyday
actually reduces your chances for
pregnancy. Maybe im wrong, but thats just
what I heard...
