Hey girls, I think I might be pregnant,
but im still in college and dont have
enough money to support a baby, my
boyfriend really does not want the baby,
but I am against abortion, what should I
do? What would yall do if yall were me?
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youngmomtobe
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Joined: 19 Oct 2003 Posts: 728 Location: Illinois
Posted: 11-18-03 21:35pm
Well first off find out if u are pregnant
or not.....Then if ur against abortion
then carry the baby and give it up for
adoption and if ur b/f isnt going to stick
by u thru the pregnancy then he doesnt
deserve u sweetie! If u need anything
just pm me!!! Keep us posted! Much love
and god bless u !
Jen
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Volleyball Pryncez
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Joined: 18 Nov 2003 Posts: 16 Location: Valley of the Sun
Posted: 11-18-03 22:36pm
I am very much against abortion too.
Adoption is a very good thing, what you
may want to look into is open adoption
because most of the parents who are going
to adopt your baby will pay for all your
medical, food and other expenses for you
carrying that baby. Not to mention you
will receive letters, photos, updates, etc
on the baby. Or you may even choose to
close that option.
Sweetie,
you are a very strong person to admit that
you could not support a baby. That makes
me very proud. I think you should find
out if you are preggy then.... Work
through it from there. Maybe talk to some
friends or adults and see how it goes!
We're here for ya!
Love,
chanda
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Mommy_2_b
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Posted: 11-19-03 08:27am
First hunny you need to find out for sure.
And I know this is gonna sound repetitive
but if he won't stay by you through a
pregnancy then he isnt a very good
boyfriend. Look into adoption there are
tons of people out there looking to adopt.
Its good that you realize that you cannot
afford the baby, this way you are helping
both u and the baby. Much love melissa
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Mesmerizeu15
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Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 11-19-03 12:50pm
I dont believe in either, but hey that is
just me. Hope that everything works
out!!
Loads of love, stacie
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raverbaby
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Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 55 Location: P.A
Posted: 11-19-03 13:40pm
I agree with mommy_2_b but there are some
programs that could help you also if you
choose not to give your child up. I'm in
a placement right now and it helps alot.
Just find out first and figure out what u
want not what everyone else does. If your
b/f doesn't want to be there then no he is
not worth it. Not trying to afend u.
Good luck!!
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Mommy_2_b
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Posted: 11-19-03 13:47pm
Raverbaby - hi - i've seen your posts
around but I dont think I ever actually
like talked to u before just wanted to
send a message to welcome you to the
boards :d ~much love melissa
ooo and so that this has something to do
with the subject - raverbaby is rite there
are lots and lots of programs that can
help you and your baby. Hope you get your
help and we're here for you :d melissa
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raverbaby
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Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 55 Location: P.A
Thanks Posted: 11-20-03 08:28am
Thank mommy_2_be. Did u have the baby or
how far r u? Boy or girl? For the topic
I now a couple of places that would help
just let me know.
Trina
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ne-ne
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Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 32 Location: PA
Understanding Posted: 11-20-03 08:45am
I am a teen parent and it is hard for me.
I go to high school, take care or my baby,
there is a alot of programs that can help
you out if you cant take care of your baby
if you want to keep the baby. If your boy
friend breaks up with you then you were
too good for him. Trust me if you are put
your baby first, please whatever you do
dont get an abortion because thats like
homicide. The baby is still a baby. You
can do anything cuz you are strong.
Hope this helps
ne-ne
hi trina
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michi21
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Joined: 17 Nov 2003 Posts: 7
Posted: 11-20-03 14:58pm
Thanks, everybody, I dont know for sure
yet, but im going to take the test
tomorrow, when I get my paycheck, and ill
let you guys know. Its not that my
boyfriend doesn,t want me to have the
baby, is just that he knows that were not
ready for a baby and he kind of freaking
out, but if I am pregnant, I know that he
will take care of the baby, well thankyou
for your help, ill let u all know, bye,
bye.
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Mommy_2_b
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Posted: 11-21-03 20:16pm
Raverbaby- im 21 weeks pregnant with twins
:d a baby girl and a baby boy :d
