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MickyS
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What Are We Suppose to Do For Fun?
Posted: 07-16-05 16:20pm
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It's saturday night and I ended up taking
care of a neightbour 's child . I can't
convince myself to go out and dance drink
or just have fun beacuse I think that they
will hurt me in some kind of way i'm
scared there I admitted, but now the kid
is home and i'm alone with my comp my tv
and my cat.What do you do for fun?I don't
know how stupid thuis sounds but is what
i'm feeling right now .So...
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MickyS
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Posted: 07-16-05 16:23pm
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I want ot say i'm from europe-romania so
here now it is saturday night
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Miles
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Posted: 07-18-05 09:50am
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I think the best way out of that paranoia
is to make one friend, a really close
friend over time, and then go to dances
and bars with them and their friends. If
you just have one person you trust a
little with you, you'll be able to enjoy
yourself much more and feel safer.
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hunkirg
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Location: manitoba
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Miles
Posted: 07-18-05 10:42am
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Hi, how r u doing. I would say by the
advice you are doing well. That is
awsome to see. Feel free to drop me an
e-mail . Glen
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MickyS
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Frustrated...
Posted: 07-21-05 15:01pm
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Today I got out of the house and it feels
that I don't know nymore how to act
around people and it is really frustrating
.I've got the weird impressoin that they
want or expect somethig of me....Today I
wasn't depressed but after I came home I
started thinking and got really depressed
and nervous and started yelling at my
mother that had no clue what was going
on.This doesn't happen all the time whe I
get out but sometimes it does and it's
frustrating .It feels like I can't really
connect with the others ,like whatever I
do is wrong,before I didn't have any
problems getting on the same frequancy
with other people.Someone else can relate?
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hunkirg
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Posted: 07-21-05 15:25pm
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With schizophrenia what happens is as you
and your friends get older us "normal"
people will start using words where we
imply meanings and how we really feel
while the actual words we use do mean
something else. Usually what happens is
it will continue to get more and more
confusing for the schizophrenic, because
you will see that almost all us normal
people use deciet. Society has not
understood that it is our deceptions wich
create "schizophrenia". Maybe try
reading my earlier posting step 1 and tell
me how you feel.
Glen
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MickyS
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Posted: 07-22-05 11:36am
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Yes I do think like that but I guess that
people with schizophrenia are just at
another level of conciuosness lower or
higher ,i don't know but i'm thinking
right now that maby I should accept the
ideea of psychotherapy maby that will work
anyway for this anti-social phobia that I
think I have.
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hunkirg
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Posted: 07-22-05 11:56am
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What part of the world are you from? I
live in canada and we have begun to help
people. If you can come, we would be
happy to help you. As you have probably
noticed most people really do not get what
the sz is dealing with. If you are
underage you could bring a parent. If
you want you can e-mail at glenhunki
@yahoo.Ca (for anyone). If there
are any questions just write or post.
Thanks glen
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MickyS
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Thanks
Posted: 07-22-05 12:44pm
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Well i'm from romania that's in europe
quinda third world country here there are
only hospitals and cliniques I haven't
heard of a support group.I don't wanna go
into a hospital but a support group wolud
be great .Thanks for your offer.
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MickyS
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Posted: 07-22-05 12:47pm
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Here in my country not even doctors can
understand people that have mental
deaseases so I don't expect other people
to understand me.Anyways my current doctor
is a very good one and understands me
and understands that this is a deasease
that requires a lot of pation from the
others.
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hunkirg
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Posted: 07-22-05 13:08pm
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Unfortunately it is not just in your
country, it is everywhere that sz is
misunderstood. The most important thing
is to try to deal with problems as they
happen so the stress does not build up.
It is important to realize that almost all
of us "normal" people do not have bad
intentions, sz is just very misunderstood.
Be patient with others, and they will
learn to be patient with you. It sounds
like you and your mom are close, ask her
to always be truthfull with you and to
explain what she means until you can tell
her it back in your own words, then you
will not have misunderstandings. I will
continue to watch message board. Peace.
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MickyS
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Listen..
Posted: 07-22-05 13:35pm
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I understand that youhave some knowledge
in this matter and I want to ask you smth
that's been bothering me :how do you tell
someone that you have a mental disorder?A
friend or a boyfriend cause I find it very
hard to talk to other people.
Maby I should have started a new topic for
the others to read too.
Thanks
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hunkirg
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Posted: 07-22-05 14:38pm
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I dont think you have to label it. I
think just be honest and tell the good
people you choose to spend time with that
you are very sensitive and creative, and
to treat you with honesty and gentleness,
and you will get the most and be able to
give the most in relationships based on
that. I hope that helps.
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MickyS
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Posted: 07-22-05 15:54pm
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Of course it helps:) I have a group of
people that know that I have a disorder
but just that and i'd like to meet new
people but I am afraid that when they find
out they get scared
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hunkirg
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Posted: 07-22-05 18:41pm
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The kind of person who makes anyone a good
friend is someone who just wants you to be
yourself. Do not feel you have to act or
speak differently, just choose to be
around good people. If someone makes you
feel bad, don't be angry with them or
yourself. If you were meaning well, and
take the time to explain (even if it seems
obvious to you), and allow others the same
chance to explain by asking nicely, you
will find that will eliminate most
problems. Peace.
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MickyS
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Posted: 07-31-05 11:48am
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I can't socialize I don't know what is
wrong with me.I feel that people always
want me to say something and whatever I
say it's wrong. Even with my thoughts is
the same .I'd just like it to be like
before when I used to be the center of
attention and not now when i'm trying not
to be noticed at all.Mostly I stay in but
sometimes I go out with my friends but
it's not like before.Idon't know how to
deal with this.Any ideeas?
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slam
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Posted: 07-31-05 14:04pm
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You have a hard time socializing because
you can't relate. It's that simple.
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MickyS
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Posted: 07-31-05 14:28pm
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I suppose you are right .Ever felt that
way?
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slam
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Posted: 07-31-05 17:11pm
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Yes but I don't sweat about it because I
know on things i'm knowledgeable in, I
could talk for hours:) you just have to
expand on your interest.
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MickyS
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Slam
Posted: 08-04-05 04:34am
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When were you diagnosticated with sz?
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