Plz Help M3!!!!!

I know how you feel I got prego when I was 15 and my parents had always told me they would kick me out if I got prego, but when I told them they were very supportive. You have to tell them and try to be positive things will work out I have been with my babys dad for 8 years now and we just got married and are trying foe a second baby. Im here if you want to talk. Also do what you feel is right if you want to keep the baby then that is your decision not your dads. :)

You should do what is best for yourself. Being afraid of your mom shouldn't be a reason not to tell her, you will eventually start to show, your belly will start to grow.
I can't imagine having an abortion is something anyone is proud of doing, but it is always womans choice, at 15 yes you are young, but just reasses your goals and wants out of life. If your boyfriend is supportive, thats fantastic.
Sometimes parents just want the best for their children, so if you are scared to talk to your mom about your pregnncy take her to the doctors with you, where she can't harm you when she finds out.
Parents who kick there kids out on the street are only putting you and your baby in danger. If you do have some goals in life, you can always take home schooling, or your boyfriends mom or your mom can help you raise your baby part-time while you finish school. I have had a lot of friends who's parents were very supportive while they have had teen pregnancies. Just make sure you become a good mom to this baby.
Children should never be afraid to talk to there parents.
Seems like you hae a little mirale on the way, and maybe your mom woul be upset but still very happy at the same time. After all it will be hr grandchild.

If your father knows you are pregnant but is telling you to abort your pregnancy, then you need to also think about all the reasons he is telling you to do this. Just remember to alway be honest with yourself.
Mybe this is a good time in your life to have a baby and maybe it isn't.
But we all make decisions in life.

I hope this helps.
Take care of yourself

Just from a personal expierence...I'm 23 much older than you, but my mom was the last to find out in my family and she was very very angry that she wasn't one of the first to know. I'm not married and i've been with my boyfriend for only 7 months now and i'm 9 weeks pregnant. She'll eventually get over it if she is angry. Tell her as soon as possible, I was scared to death to tell her, she's okay with it now, but still angry at me that she wasn't the first to know. The more people that find out before her is going to hurt her more than you know; even if she is angry at you first! Be strong!

Shut. Up. You are cruel, rude, and completely unwelcome here. Obviously you have far too much time on your hands if you choose to spend it tormenting people over the internet. Please, move on with your life (or get one to begin with) and leave this site.


As for the baby situation, don't be afraid to tell your mom. If possible, you, your dad and your mom should all be able to sit down and talk about it, maybe even with your boyfriend and his parents. After all, whether you choose to have the child or no, it will still affect you every day for the rest of your life. Consider your options. Raising a child is hard. It puts a lot of stress on a relationship, it makes it very difficult to finish school, and even harder to attain any sort of post-secondary education, which you'll need if you want to pursue your own goals and provide for your child. Then again, an abortion comes with emotional baggage, like guilt and sometimes depression. It's really important that you tell your parents so that they can help you. There are lots of difficult decisions involved with having kids, and no one should have to go through that without help (especially your mom)

It will be very difficult, but the sooner you tell your mother the better. If your boyfriend is being supportive of this pregnancy have him there with you when you tell her. You may also want to have your father there with you as well.

I got pregnant when I was 15 by my boyfriend of 3 years. I was about 5 months along when I realized I was pregnant. My mom had suspected before then, but never really came right out and asked, or demanded I be tested.

When I found out I first told my boyfriend. His first reaction was to question if it was really his. Duh! I hadn't been with anyone else. Then we told my parents first. I made him be there with me for this.

They were very angry at first. For one, they didn't ever really approve of my boyfriend. Secondly, my mom had me when she was 18, and wanted a better life than what she had for all her "babies". They asked me what I wanted to do, and I wasn't for sure. My father even went as far as taking me to an abortion clinic, but I was too far along to get one.

After returning from the clinic it soon sunk in for everyone that this baby was here to stay. After adjusting to that fact my parents became very supportive. Since my mother was a stay at home mom anyway, she watched my baby so I could graduate with my high school class, and go on to finish college. It was years later that my mother told me she was secretly glad that I was too far along for an abortion, and that she herself had an abortion when she was 15.

The baby's father and I got married, but did not stay together but for another year. He became an alcoholic, physically/emotionally abused me. I moved back home with my parents. Hi parents and my parents helped to raise the baby, and helped to provide for her, along with goverment assistance so I could finish college.

However, even through all of that, it all worked out for the best in the end. I have a beautiful 14 year old daughter now, and wouldn't change anything. There were some very rough times. My parents never would babysit for me other than to attend school. Gradually I lost contact with many of my good friend because they were able to lead normal teenage lives. Occasionally I feel as if I lost out on my teen years, but I still wouldn't change a thing.