My girlfriend sometimes complains of pain
while she is having an orgasm. Its like a
sharp pain that she says comes with an
orgasm, and she says she needs to learn to
control it. Ive never understood, but are
there any tips that she can use to help
control these orgasms and use them to
pleasure her?
Ive seen alot of videos on the net of
girls "squirting" during orgasm. How does
one do that? My girlfriend has, lately,
been giving out alot of cum, as she gets
really really wet down there, to the point
where it drips as I have sex with her. Is
there a paticular spot i'm supposed to hit
when im doing her that will make her
squirt? She says she wants to try it, so
why not?
Thank you.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-26-05 22:09pm
This is probably another reference to
"female ejaculation". It may (or may not)
be a substance that is secreted from a
glad in the urethra (where she pees from)
but when tested, the substance was found
to not be urine! It's interesting!
Remember that the vaginal fluids aren't
"cum"! What comes out of you, mister, is
"cum" or more rightly, semen. If she's
"extra juicy", she may just be getting
more aroused by you, which is good! The
female body produces the vaginal fluids as
natural lubrication when a female becomes
aroused, so the fact that she's producing
more is a good sign. But if it smells
funny or looks funny, there may be an
infection.
As for the pain, i'm not sure. >_>
no help there... But I don't think it's
somehting that she needs to control, not
in the sense that she seems to think it's
her fault. It's not her fault. That's
all I got :)
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Gothette
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jul 2005 Posts: 41 Location: Angola NY
Posted: 07-27-05 05:57am
Hmm, my boyfriend had very rough sex once
and when I reached orgasm I had a sharp
pain that hurt awhole lot that I had to
stop having sex for a couple days. Maybe
your too rough. Lol, I dont know. I
never got that pain again when we eased
down a bit.
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Arlington, TX
Orgasm...squirting Posted: 08-01-05 20:13pm
Females ejaculate? Yes, they do. We’re
talking about a gusher of fluid spurting
out of her vagina as she comes. Actually,
to be more accurate, the fluid comes
squirting out of her urethra. Don’t let
this gross you out, though; it’s not
pee! Female cum is a clear, odorless
liquid produced by a small organ called
the “female prostate,” or urethral
sponge, which is located between the
urethra and vagina. The fluid it produces
just happens to come out of the pee hole,
but...So does guys’ semen, right?
While some women may experience
ejaculation naturally in the course of
intercourse or other sex play, most
require some concentrated stimulation of
the g-spot. Massaging the g-spot causes
the urethral sponge to become engorged
with fluid, which is then expelled during
orgasm. And, as with an orgasm,
ejaculation also requires the woman to
“let go.” sometimes the g-spot can be
massaged by doing her "doggie". Before
ejaculating, the woman will feel as though
she is going to pee. However, it is
nearly impossible for her to urinate while
coming, because the muscular contractions
of orgasm close off the bladder and
prevent the passage of urine.
As she gets closer to coming, she will
start to feel as though she has to
urinate. That’s the cum beginning to
flow into her urethra. In order for her
ejaculate, she has to relax, let go, and
push down and out with the same muscles
she would use as if she were peeing. It
may be hard to overcome the impulse to
hold back, but you can reassure her,
again, that if she is coming, she will not
pee.
Instead, as she comes and pushes the fluid
out, she should feel extra intense
orgasmic pleasure, and you should be
rewarded with a spurt of nectar that may
range from gentle gush to a drenching
spray.
Cheers....... :wink:
