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martina2003
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2003 Posts: 1 Location: South Portland, ME
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Help!!!! New Member
Posted: 11-19-03 13:12pm
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I am 17 years old and four months
pregnant. I need some people to talk with
because I am very lonely and depressed.
My parents don't know yet and I am living
in a group home till january. I also lost
the babies dad.
Martina 
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illusionsmamma
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003 Posts: 210 Location: las vegas
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Posted: 11-19-03 13:17pm
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Ooh i'm sorry to hear that but cheer up
whats your problem there is a great group
of girls here that can help you why did
you loose your babies dad? Why are you in
a group home? What are you having a boy
or a girl pm me if you need a little more
advice
~~love illusionsmamma~~
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 11-19-03 13:19pm
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How did you loose the babies dad? What
happened? Why are you living in a group
home? Are you planning on keeping the
baby? What is going on with you, you need
to give me more information to go on..
Welcome to the boards, im stacie!!
Loads of love, laughter and joy!!
Stacie
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raverbaby
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 55 Location: P.A
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Posted: 11-19-03 13:33pm
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Hey,
i'm 17 and a single mom with a 11 month
old daughter. When your pregnant alot
bothers and you may cry for nothing. But
don't get yourself depressed if it has to
do with a guy don't sweat it. He maybe
the father but that does not mean he is
worth all that. Your child feels what you
go through. So keep in mind you will be a
mother and you'll have a beautiful baby to
love you and call you mom. It feels so
good to hear mom from your own kids.
Trust me!!! I've been there.
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Re: Help!!!! New Member
Posted: 11-19-03 13:41pm
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Theres a great group of girls here and im
sure everyone of them will have some help
for you. I added your hotmail addy to the
msn I use so I could talk to you in
private. Pregnancy can make you cry and
feel depressed over the littlest things so
dont worry to much hun. Whey are you
living in a group home if you dont mind me
asking and how did u lose the babies
father. I'm here to help you sweetie.
Much love melissa
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
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Posted: 11-19-03 14:07pm
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When she says she 'lost' the babies
father,couldnt she mean that he passed
away? Im not sure but,thats what it cud
b.............
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Posted: 11-19-03 14:17pm
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Sparklypixie12 - I was thinking the same
thing but then again she could be in the
same situation as me. The father to my
twins up and left me for another girl on
the day of our wedding. So who
knows...We'll find out when she writes us
back ~melissa
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 11-19-03 14:54pm
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Hey martina, my cousin is in the same
situation, she had her baby and is in a
group home. We are here for you. Dont be
depressed. Why are you in a group home
though?
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raverbaby
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 55 Location: P.A
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Posted: 11-19-03 20:46pm
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I'm the one who is in a group home.
Martina isn't I don't think. My babys dad
left cause he has to kids at the age 18 by
me and another who he is still with now.

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youngmomtobe
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2003 Posts: 728 Location: Illinois
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Posted: 11-19-03 20:59pm
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Hey rave,
no martinas in a group home too!! So
ya'll got something else in common!!!Muhc
love adn god bless!!
Jen
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raverbaby
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 55 Location: P.A
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Posted: 11-20-03 08:16am
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I guess we do. I don't like it but in 3
months i'm home. I get to stressed out
being here. They help but they stress you
out.
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ne-ne
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 32 Location: PA
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It Normal
Posted: 11-20-03 09:32am
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At the begining of your pregnacy you will
feel depressed. When I first found out I
was pregnant I was in the hospital for
depression. After that I was put in a
lock up. So calm down I lot of stress
isn't good. Anyways count your blessing
that you aren't put in a lock up while
your pregnant. Does the group home your
at know? I babys father basically isn't
there for me or my daughter.
Hope this helps
ne-ne
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