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martina2003

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Help!!!! New Member
Posted: 11-19-03 13:12pm

I am 17 years old and four months pregnant. I need some people to talk with because I am very lonely and depressed. My parents don't know yet and I am living in a group home till january. I also lost the babies dad.


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illusionsmamma

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Posted: 11-19-03 13:17pm

Ooh i'm sorry to hear that but cheer up whats your problem there is a great group of girls here that can help you why did you loose your babies dad? Why are you in a group home? What are you having a boy or a girl pm me if you need a little more advice
~~love illusionsmamma~~
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Mesmerizeu15

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Posted: 11-19-03 13:19pm

How did you loose the babies dad? What happened? Why are you living in a group home? Are you planning on keeping the baby? What is going on with you, you need to give me more information to go on.. Welcome to the boards, im stacie!!

Loads of love, laughter and joy!!


Stacie
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raverbaby

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Posted: 11-19-03 13:33pm

Hey,
i'm 17 and a single mom with a 11 month old daughter. When your pregnant alot bothers and you may cry for nothing. But don't get yourself depressed if it has to do with a guy don't sweat it. He maybe the father but that does not mean he is worth all that. Your child feels what you go through. So keep in mind you will be a mother and you'll have a beautiful baby to love you and call you mom. It feels so good to hear mom from your own kids. Trust me!!! I've been there.
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Mommy_2_b

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Re: Help!!!! New Member
Posted: 11-19-03 13:41pm

Theres a great group of girls here and im sure everyone of them will have some help for you. I added your hotmail addy to the msn I use so I could talk to you in private. Pregnancy can make you cry and feel depressed over the littlest things so dont worry to much hun. Whey are you living in a group home if you dont mind me asking and how did u lose the babies father. I'm here to help you sweetie. Much love melissa
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sparklypixie12

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Posted: 11-19-03 14:07pm

When she says she 'lost' the babies father,couldnt she mean that he passed away? Im not sure but,thats what it cud b.............
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Mommy_2_b

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Posted: 11-19-03 14:17pm

Sparklypixie12 - I was thinking the same thing but then again she could be in the same situation as me. The father to my twins up and left me for another girl on the day of our wedding. So who knows...We'll find out when she writes us back ~melissa
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nikki_caro

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Posted: 11-19-03 14:54pm

Hey martina, my cousin is in the same situation, she had her baby and is in a group home. We are here for you. Dont be depressed. Why are you in a group home though?
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raverbaby

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Posted: 11-19-03 20:46pm

I'm the one who is in a group home. Martina isn't I don't think. My babys dad left cause he has to kids at the age 18 by me and another who he is still with now. Mad
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youngmomtobe

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Posted: 11-19-03 20:59pm

Hey rave,
no martinas in a group home too!! So ya'll got something else in common!!!Muhc love adn god bless!!

Jen
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raverbaby

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Posted: 11-20-03 08:16am

I guess we do. I don't like it but in 3 months i'm home. I get to stressed out being here. They help but they stress you out.
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ne-ne

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Posted: 11-20-03 09:32am

At the begining of your pregnacy you will feel depressed. When I first found out I was pregnant I was in the hospital for depression. After that I was put in a lock up. So calm down I lot of stress isn't good. Anyways count your blessing that you aren't put in a lock up while your pregnant. Does the group home your at know? I babys father basically isn't there for me or my daughter.

Hope this helps

ne-ne
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