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bikini bandit123
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Think I Might Be Pregnant! Please Read! Advice Needed Asap!!
Posted: 07-19-05 23:58pm
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My names ashley im 17 and recently decided
to become sexually active. I was on
birth control for about 3 weeks but
stopped because I disliked the side
effects. I started my period the day
after I stopped taking the pills, which
was june 13th. It is now july 20th and
I havent had my period again. I have
had sex , but it was protected and the
condom did not break or leak. I
thoroughly examined it afterwards! Is
my period trying to go back to the
schedule it had before the pill or I
should have had it on the 13th like it was
last month? Could I be pregnant?
Please help I cant sleep thinking about
this.Me and my partner are both worried
sick!
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nicolem
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Re: Think I Might Be Pregnant! Please Read! Advice Needed As
Posted: 07-20-05 08:19am
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Hi ashley. Your body needs at least two
months to fully adjust to the pill. If
you had stopped taking it that early your
body prob never fully accepted the pill.
I hope your doctor told you to wait at
least a month before having sex when
starting the pill. If not well, they
should have. Also, when on the pill your
period can be very exacting, starting and
ending on the same day. It would depend
on if your period before was always so
dependable. I would say if you completely
miss your period this month, take a test
to be on the safe side. But keep in mind,
stress can delay your period!! And I
would definately talk to your doctor to
get onto maybe a dif kind of bc that has
less side effects. Hope this helped and
good luck!
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maryah
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Re: Think I Might Be Pregnant! Please Read! Advice Needed As
Posted: 07-20-05 09:36am
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| bikini bandit123
wrote: | | my names ashley im 17 and
recently decided to become sexually
active. I was on birth control for
about 3 weeks but stopped because I
disliked the side effects. I started
my period the day after I stopped taking
the pills, which was june 13th. It is
now july 20th and I havent had my period
again. I have had sex , but it was
protected and the condom did not break or
leak. I thoroughly examined it
afterwards! Is my period trying to go
back to the schedule it had before the
pill or I should have had it on the 13th
like it was last month? Could I be
pregnant? Please help I cant sleep
thinking about this.Me and my partner are
both worried
sick! |
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serious worrier
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Floating In the Same Boat
Posted: 07-20-05 11:20am
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Hey, im 18 and I recently became sexually
active but the difference is i'm not on
birth control. My period is a week late
it was due on the 14th and now its the
20th and still no show. Me and my bf
checked the condom I mean really examined
it no leaks and no holes. Im really
scared I dont think im preggo but you
never know. My friends say sex pushes
your period back but I dont know how true
that really is. Ive been thinking about
bc but im scared. I have no symptoms my
back lower back just hurts as if I was
getting my period but its a week now. I
only had sex three times and I checked all
the condoms. I really dont know what to
do.
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serious worrier
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Floating In the Same Boat
Posted: 07-20-05 11:23am
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Hey, im 18 and I recently became sexually
active but the difference is i'm not on
birth control. My period is a week late
it was due on the 14th and now its the
20th and still no show. Me and my bf
checked the condom I mean really examined
it no leaks and no holes. Im really
scared I dont think im preggo but you
never know. My friends say sex pushes
your period back but I dont know how true
that really is. Ive been thinking about
bc but im scared. I have no symptoms my
back lower back just hurts as if I was
getting my period but its a week now. I
only had sex three times and I checked all
the condoms. I really dont know what to
do.
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serious worrier
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Floating In the Same Boat
Posted: 07-20-05 11:36am
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Hey, im 18 and I recently became sexually
active but the difference is i'm not on
birth control. My period is a week late
it was due on the 14th and now its the
20th and still no show. Me and my bf
checked the condom I mean really examined
it no leaks and no holes. Im really
scared I dont think im preggo but you
never know. My friends say sex pushes
your period back but I dont know how true
that really is. Ive been thinking about
bc but im scared. I have no symptoms my
back lower back just hurts as if I was
getting my period but its a week now. I
only had sex three times and I checked all
the condoms. I really dont know what to
do.
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nicolem
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Location: Minnesota
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Re: Floating In the Same Boat
Posted: 07-20-05 14:27pm
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I strongly suggest you take a test. Lower
back pain can also be an early sign of
pregnancy. Plus there is nothing to be
afraid of with bc, it is more frightening
to think about becoming a mother when you
are not ready. I have never heard of sex
pushing back your period. Stress can
however, so take that into consideration.
Condoms are still not 100% even if they
dont break. There can be small tears that
you would not notice, also any contact the
penis has with your vagina, even before
sex can cause problems. The "pre-cum"
contains sperm. My advice would be to
take a test, then get on some bc, whether
it be the pill, the shot, or whatever. If
you are worried about your parents, tell
them you want to go on the pill to
regulate your period and decrease cramp
pain. Hope that helps and good luck!
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Tylanas
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Late Periods
Posted: 07-21-05 07:41am
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When I first started having sex, my bf and
I had a lot of sex, and only used condoms.
I never got pregnant, but my highly
irregular period did not help with the
stress. I've never been able to predict
it, and somehow figured out my cycle to be
arond 35-40 days long. But i'd been
setting my start date 28 days after my
last, so you can imagine, I had a lot of
"late" periods! Up to a week late!
I'm on the pill now, and believe me, I
feel safer.
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-21-05 16:55pm
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Re: to those expecting two!
Posted: 07-20-05 10:22am
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hi toby,
hi my name is maryah I am 16 years old I
have a 4 year twins girls melanie and
sandra I had my girls at 13 years old and
know I am pregnant with 4 babys this time
I am really scared I was thinking about
getting an aboution this time I really not
so sure can you help me please I dont know
what to do my parents really are very
happy. But I want to go back to school
but being pregnant they will not let me
in. And my mom is pregnant to and having
twins but is is 40 years old thats way to
old to me! And were moving away to
oklhoma city I having to leave my friends
and my boyfriend to and he going to miss
all his kids thats only if comes with me
me family does not have that much money or
any thing like that I dont know I going to
hald 4 kids!!!! And my boyfriend is going
crazy cause I am having all girls this
time to he really wants a boy what am to
do
help~ maryah~
????
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nicolem
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Location: Minnesota
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Re: to Those Expecting Two!
Posted: 07-21-05 17:02pm
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Wow, girl. My first suggestion is after
you deal with this pregnancy is either go
on some serious bc or well, take a break
from sex. I honestly dont know what I
would do in your situation. If you
honestly doubt you can give these babies
the life they deserve you should maybe
consider adoption. Abortion is such a
harsh, and sometimes dangerous thing, but
adoption could give your unborn babies a
chance to live a better life. Its great
that your mom is happy, but she is going
to have twins of her own to deal with.
Lot of resposiblity for someone under 18.
I'm not saying you wouldn't love your
babies, i'm sure you would, but perhaps
now is the time to think of them and what
they deserve. I wish you luck.
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-21-05 18:01pm
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I was just quoting maryah. I was a
little confused because in some post shes
having quintuplets and in others its
twins. Also in some she had her first
child (or children) when she was 13 and
others when she is 14. I was just
confused to which it was?
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nicolem
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Re: Vanessalouanne
Posted: 07-21-05 19:07pm
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| vanessalouanne
wrote: | | i was just quoting maryah.
I was a little confused because in some
post shes having quintuplets and in others
its twins. Also in some she had her
first child (or children) when she was 13
and others when she is 14. I was just
confused to which it
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ahh, I see. :d well thats a lot of
kids, so I have no idea
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RandomJill
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I'm Scared
Posted: 07-25-05 14:37pm
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Hi, i've been on birth control for two
years now and have been sexually active
for about that same about of time. I'm a
bit worried though because recently my
boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and he
ejaculated inside of me while I was only
on the pill for one more day of my two
week cycle. The next day I took my pill
again although my period was early. So
far my period has only lasted two days and
it was rather light. I'm not sure if this
is a warning sign or not? Am I still at
risk of pregnancy during the course of my
menstral cycle even though my body is used
to birth control pills? To be honest, i'm
not sure if I should be even having sex
during my menstral cycle? Will the pill
prevent against pregnancy during that time
as well even though i'm not taking it for
a week...Any help or comments would be
greatly appreciated, thank you.
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nicolem
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Re: I'm Scared
Posted: 07-25-05 18:30pm
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Hi. I was concerned about a similar sit
myself. Go to this topic for what others
told me: inactive pills safe? You might
be at a slightly higher risk than me
because he ejaculated inside of you but I
would't worry over much about it. If you
have been taking your pills pretty
regularily than you should be as protected
as a non period time. My period was also
lighter afterwards so that maybe a result
of having sex. It is safe to have sex on
your period, I would just recommend next
time using a condom, which I will
definately do myself :d
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mom21
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Posted: 06-28-08 00:52am
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you dont have to worry your not prego
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Posted: 06-28-08 01:24am
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