My fiancee and I keep having the same
dream that I am prego. We have been
dreamin the same for a bout a week now.
Is it just a coincidence or sub conscious
(<--sp?)? Any ideas?
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 11-19-03 17:09pm
Well are you pregnant? I have that dream
many times!! I had it to where the test
was positive. I had an ultrasound. The
nurse told me I was pregnant. I had a
baby. Each different dreams. But I never
was. Its just something in your mind that
you want. So it comes in your dreams.
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sparklypixie12
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Posted: 11-19-03 17:40pm
Hey! Dont wanna alarm u but jess only
found out she was preggers with chey when
austin had a dream that she was!!! The
next day she took & test & she
was!!!
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casey rachelle
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Joined: 30 Oct 2003 Posts: 56 Location: Erie, MI
Well, Posted: 11-19-03 17:49pm
I am definately gunna take a test for
sure. I dont think that I am but I wanna
know for sure. I'm only 17 and I want a
baby but I wanna goto college and get a
job too. So.. Its jus wierd tho bc we
both had the exact dream 3 days in a row.
So thats why I was wondering.
Thanks!
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Alexa
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Posted: 11-19-03 17:56pm
sparklypixie12
wrote:
hey! Dont wanna alarm u
but jess only found out she was preggers
with chey when austin had a dream that she
was!!! The next day she took & test
& she was!!!
i didnt know that!! That's so amazing but
I had dreams like that before,i have seen
the tests,my tummy,me at the doctor and I
wasent preggy!! It was just that I
thought(sp?) I was.Our minds are very
powerful!! Take a test and let us now!!
Good luck!!
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CrombieChic16
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Sweet Dreams! Posted: 11-19-03 17:57pm
Finally something I know about! Lol, your
dreams, most of the time, reflect on what
is on your mind, whether it be
subconciously or not....If you go the
whole day thinking about the love of your
life, and specific details, you will more
than likely dream about it within the
week....For example...I have been with tom
for about 3 weeks now, and ive worried
about him because I know hes hurt from his
ex and hes got issues that are still
unsettled in his head....So last night I
had this horrible(to me) dream that he
told me that he was back with his
girlfriend and that I didnt mean anything
to him...Brutal huh? So I woke up with a
not so good taste in my mouth this
morning...
And at first I thought that this was like
a foreshadowing of what was going to
happen, and then I realized that I had
quietly been worrying and thinking about
it......Also, I have been debating on
whether or not I want this guy to be the
guy I give myself to, so of course ive
been thinking about the whole deal and all
the consequences and everything...And im
terrified that the condom will break, and
I will become pregnant...Well what do ya
know, 2-3 nights ago I woke up to myself
dreaming that I was indeed pregnant with
tom's baby and I felt the need to bare
down....I actually felt down there to make
sure nothing was happening because it felt
so real!
Lol and with austin dreaming about jess
being pregnant, it was probably because he
knew something hadn't gone like usual and
that maybe just maybe she was
preggo.....So don't worry, or else those
dreams wont go away! Best of luck and let
me know how things turn out!
vanessa
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casey rachelle
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Wow Posted: 11-19-03 18:03pm
That definitely sounds logical. Thats
what I was thinking too. In my dreams and
when I woke up I actually thought and felt
that I was preggy. And I loved it! But
i'm only 17 and my fiancee and I both want
one, but I think we are too young.
Omg.. The last time I had sex the condom
broke. All you have to do is when you are
ready, and you are having sex, make him
pull out and check that the whole condom
is still there. I do that now. And also
to make you feel safer, when you are
having sex, before he gets off have him
pull out so that he doesn't cum in you.
That way if the condom were to break
without you knowing then you can be pretty
safe other than pre-cum. There are a lot
of ways to make sure you're safe.. But
the best of all, is when you do, you have
to relax. It makes it better, trust me
lol.
Casey
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sparklypixie12
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Posted: 11-19-03 18:04pm
I thought that was so cool about jess
& austin! Gud luck casey & u
know,u can have a baby & a career 2 so
go 4 it if u want it huni!
Vanessa-i think u shud b the female
version of dr phil!!!!
Liz x
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illusionsmamma
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Posted: 11-19-03 18:06pm
Well I never dreamed of me preggy but when
I already was I always dreamed of myself
with a belly always not one time I didnt
but when I had her immediately I dreamed
of myself not preggy that was so weird ne
ways does anybody believe in the meaning
of their dreams
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casey rachelle
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Joined: 30 Oct 2003 Posts: 56 Location: Erie, MI
Yano.. Posted: 11-19-03 18:13pm
I dont know if I believe in the meaning of
my dreams. Sometimes I do..
I know that i'll be able to do it but
noone else thinks that 17 and still in
h.S. Is too young? My mom would hate me
I think but its shouldnt matter bc I would
be happy!
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Alexa
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Just Remember This And Would Like to Share That... Posted: 11-19-03 18:21pm
When my mom knew she was preggy with me
she had a dream and saw a little girl wich
turned out to be with the same skin
color,eye color,hair color and almost the
hair cuz she said she saw it like really
curly and mine is just curly!! That's
really cool huh??!! It makes me feel more
special since she never had a dream with
my sister or my brother!! Lol!!
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CrombieChic16
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Dr. Vanessa Is Here Lol Posted: 11-19-03 18:21pm
Haha liz so many people have told me that,
im tellin ya, im gonna have my own talk
show one day! Lol, but anyways....Girls I
really need some support right now, im
scared and nervous about making the right
decision, and im scared that somethings
going to go wrong, and im so afraid that
im gonna feel like im being ripped apart,
sry for language lol, but seriously, I
have so many "i dont knows" and "what ifs"
its driving me insane! Maybe ill have a
dream tonite that will tell me what I
should do! I dont
know, after worrying I dont even have the
desire anymore...
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Alexa
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Joined: 14 Nov 2003 Posts: 101
Re: Dr. Vanessa Is Here Lol Posted: 11-19-03 18:40pm
crombiechic16
wrote:
haha liz so many people have
told me that, im tellin ya, im gonna have
my own talk show one day! Lol, but
anyways....Girls I really need some
support right now, im scared and nervous
about making the right decision, and im
scared that somethings going to go wrong,
and im so afraid that im gonna feel like
im being ripped apart, sry for language
lol, but seriously, I have so many "i dont
knows" and "what ifs" its driving me
insane! Maybe ill have a dream tonite
that will tell me what I should do!
I dont
know, after worrying I dont even have the
desire anymore...
is he pressuring you to have sex? How
much time you have been with him?
Well,i belive that when you decide to have
sex you have to 100% sure that you really
want that.Think of the consecuences(sp?)
and if he is worth it to give that big
part of you cuz you will never forget it
so there should be no regrets! If like
you said you have so many "i dont knows"
and "what ifs" I think that thats a sign
that you are not ready yet and it will be
better to wait a bit more!! You shouldnt
be so worry if that is what you really
want.Just my opinion hun!!
Ripped apart?? Lol!! I felt a bit like
that when I lost my virginity to my
boyfriend!! But im sure not everyone
felt like that!! Lol!!
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 11-19-03 18:43pm
Vanessa I havent heard from you in
forever! Let me know whats goin on!
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casey rachelle
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Nessa, Posted: 11-19-03 18:44pm
I was the same way before I lost my
virginity. Thats why I said relax, hun
try not to think so hard about it. That
spoils the fun of it my first time, I
worried so much about it and I was so
nervous. But when it came down to it,
theres nothin to worry bout especially if
you know that this is the person that u
want to be with. Think in your head " am
I or will I ever regret this?" and if the
answer is yes, then don't do it. Thats
all the advice that anyone can give ya
hunni. So good luck and try not to think
so hard about it.
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illusionsmamma
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Posted: 11-19-03 18:57pm
I lost my verginity to my now current man
and the father of my baby so thats cool
but see I know he had other partners and
that doesnt make me feel good cause that
just sux and I would want to say the same
thing as well but not really i'm just okay
I feel good telling my daughter later in
life that her dad was the one I lost my
verginity to and i'm gonna be proud of
telling her see I plan on talking to my
daughter alot cause my parents really
never had that kind of trust to talk to me
about that kind of stuff I did as a teen
and sneaking and all the crap but since I
already know how it works i'll make sure
she feels trust for me (i always tell
everybody she is going to be a nun and she
is always gonna be mine only but
eventually I gotta see reality)
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-19-03 18:59pm
Illusion your lucky, I lost mine to some
big dummy. Who I read about in the
newspaper a few months ago. Hes in jail
for attempted homicide! Im so ashamed!
Thats why I say, make sure hes the one you
want to lose it to! And dreamer, homies
are no good!
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illusionsmamma
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Joined: 18 Sep 2003 Posts: 210 Location: las vegas
Posted: 11-19-03 19:04pm
Well thanx I hope it lasts my parents have
been divorced since I was 3-4 I dont even
remember my little sister was in diapers
still and I wish that it lasts long til we
are old and gray and all saggy sitting in
our porch seeing cars fly by cause I hope
that by the time were all old our kids are
flying cars not driving them
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CrombieChic16
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Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 11-19-03 19:10pm
Alexa hes not pressuring me at all...Its
more like im pressuring myself,in a
sense...Whether im ready or not im still
gonna have my worries and my what ifs
because its new to me ya know? Its the
fear of the unknown, and those worries
wont be calmed until I actually experience
it...I havent been with him for that long,
but im not necessarily planning on
sleeping with him soon...I just have it in
my head, so that if it happens to come up
more seriously(which it kinda has) the
idea of it wont be a shocker to me...
I have like 2 sides to me on this
one...The 1st is well, lifes way too short
to constantly put things off, just to see
how long u can wait, why not go for it, if
ur ready and willing, its just sex....But
then the 2nd is sex is a huge deal, I
could possibly becoming a mother after
sleeping with him, because god forbid I
got pregnant I could never abort my baby,
and im def. Not ready to have a baby,
even though he is...
Im just so sick of worrying about making
the wrong decisions...Ive worried so much
that ive walked myself right into the
wrong decisions time and time again and I
cant stand it! Im ready to move on from
my past(abusive ex) and see what else I
can get out of life...But at the same time
I feel like im stopped dead in my tracks
because I dont know what to do....I wanna
have a clear head to make this decision,
and I dont think I do right now....
I havent had the chance to sit down and
talk with tom and tell him how I feel...I
mean he knows im scared and that I have my
worries, but I really need him to
understand me on this one....I mean I
definitely see myself being able to go
"all the way" with him because hes a great
guy, a great friend, over
everything....Hes told me numerous times
that hes there if I ever need to get
something off my chest, even if its at 3
in the morning, hes there for me....Girls,
I just dont know, the only thing I do know
is im not making any decisions until I
do(caps) know! I dont wanna have any
regrets and I wanna be able to walk away
from that experience with good
feelings....
Also, I do have one question right
now....We got together last night and were
"fooling around" in his backseat(so
traditional right? Lol) and he wanted to
put his 'goods' on mine, and I kinda
freaked out....But we talked about it last
nite on the phone after we left eachother
and he said that if I wanted, he would put
a condom on and he would rub it around
down there, but not have sex, just to get
the feel of what its like somewhat(so if
and when we do have sex it wont be a total
shock)..My question to u guys is, what do
u think I should do? I mean it doesnt
seem like that big of a deal, especially
since it wont be going in and he will have
a condom on....As long as im still a
virgin afterwards I dont see any problems,
do u? I guess because ive never really
done that before, im not too sure if its a
big deal or not...Ah this is crazy, I dont
wanna go into too much detail on here, so
pm me if u wanna know the whole deal!
Nikki, i'll pm u and update u on whats
been going on hun!
Sry for the novel like post!!
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Alexa
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Joined: 14 Nov 2003 Posts: 101
Illusion.. Posted: 11-19-03 19:13pm
A nun!! Lol !! My mom told me she lost
her virginity to my dad.I dont know if it
was my dad's first time too cuz I have
never asked it.But anyways knowing that it
was that way to my mom makes me feel good
and proud and it reminds me that my
sister,brother and I were made cuz and
with love!! So im sure your girl will
feel the same too!! Good luck on your
marriage
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I dont
know, after worrying I dont even have the
desire anymore...