Joined: 18 Sep 2003 Posts: 210 Location: las vegas
Posted: 11-19-03 19:18pm
See crombiechic16 he tells you that now
but maybe when your then and there I hope
he doesnt slip and just put it all in
there hes then gonna say I couldnt hold it
or i'm sorry an excuse the problem is are
you ready for it can you handle it I mean
its no big deal the first time any ways
and it hurts its your decision and
hopefully you can think twice use
protection and tell him to wear protection
as well good luck hun
~~loveillusionsmamma~~
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-19-03 19:39pm
Im with illusionsmama on this. Vanessa.
Dont do it. I mean *no guy* ever says hes
just gonna put it there and rub. Hes
gonna put it in all the way. And he might
sweep you off your feet for now, but after
that he might not talk to you. He might
call for a while then stop. You dont know
that. Give it some more time. The reason
hes like trying to get you to, is because
you keep fooling around and teasing him,
your making him want the whole thing. If
you do it too early you might regret it.
I think you should just wait until youve
been with him longer, and youve been
together longer. Dont rush it. I mean
you dont want to say your proud of losing
it in the back of his car. Because thats
where youve only been. I think you are
taking it too fast. I mean to you its
just sex. But later on, trust me you
might regret it. Look at me. I got lost
it to a dummy. Illusionsmama was lucky.
But the rest of arent. Just make sure
this is what you really want. And if its
so important, why cant you wait? Its
really the best thing for you to do. Girl
I wish I could call you! This guy might
seem perfect right now, but things can
change so fast. Just be careful. Pm me
with everything so far ok?
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Alexa
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2003 Posts: 101
Posted: 11-19-03 19:57pm
I totally agree with nikki!!!
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-20-03 13:12pm
Hey thanks alexa. Hey I think I have you
on yahoo messenger but im not sure
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casey rachelle
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2003 Posts: 56 Location: Erie, MI
Ok.. Posted: 11-20-03 17:51pm
I lost my "v" to my current boyfriend
which is my fiancee now. He has only
been with one other girl, but, my
boyfriend and I have been together 8 1/2
months, and I just started having sex with
him not that long ago. I wanted to make
sure I was ready and sure that I loved
him. It is awesome to know that the one
person that took your 'innocense' is the
person you love the most in the whole
world. I am not proud to say that I lost
it in the backseat of my car, i'm sure
everyone is gunna hate on me for that one.
Butttttt...... Whats done is done.
And I guess what we are all tryinta tell
you nessa, is that dont do anything that
you may have any doubts on now and or
later. Don't let him do that either (
rubbin it on you) bc it will always most
likely end up goin all the way in and I
dont really think that you are ready. I
agree with nikki and illusion, you need
some more time to be with him and get to
know him more as a boyfriend.
Good luck and I hope you make the right
decision. Always remember that this is
your choice. It will decide the rest of
your life.
Casey
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 11-20-03 18:01pm
Oh my god you girls are amazing! You are
right, if I let him do that, we're both
gonna get carried away with it...I know
whats gonna happen, its gonna be like well
its out there and everything, then why not
just do it? But I am going to wait...If
he truly cares about me he wont mind
waiting until im ready....And the backseat
thing, we've been like in a house too
lol,we're planning on making it "special"
for the first time....But like last night
we were talking and I kept telling him I
wasnt sure what to do, and then he stopped
me and said u know what? It takes 2 to
have sex, and u need me because im the
other half and im telling u we're not
having sex right now...He was like we're
going to wait until ur absolutely sure its
the right time....I was so happy he said
that! He told me sex isnt a necessity to
him like it is to most guys....And so far
he's proven that to be right..He knows im
not easy and that I worry a lot, so its
going to take a while, and hes still
here....So we'll see what happens. He
hasnt had sex in 4 months, so whats
another few? If hes got a problem with
waiting, then obviously this guy wasnt
meant to be my first! I hope u girls dont
think im naive or anything, I just want to
throw all of this out there so I can get
ur opinions on it too ya know? Well let
me know what u think!
Vanessa
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illusionsmamma
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003 Posts: 210 Location: las vegas
Posted: 11-20-03 18:14pm
You made a good decision crombie keep your
pride up of being a "v" I know I would
cause thats a great thing not letting
yourself in a big mess and letting him now
your not easy good luck!!!!
~~illusionsmamma~~
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pink_lips_04
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Nov 2003 Posts: 20 Location: Texas
Can't Believe Their Others Out There That Feel Like I Do... Posted: 11-21-03 00:17am
I'm 17 and my boyfriend and I have been
together going on three years in june.
And at the beginning of this year he said
he wanted a baby
and i've joked around before and said I
wouldn't mind getting p.G. Because we've
had dreams of me being p.G. And my belly
and that we had a little boy so when he
can up and told me he really wanted a baby
and I was kind of stocked to hear that
because I didn't think he really wanted to
have kids with me b/c we are from 2
different races and his family is kind of
weird with that stuff..But when he told me
I really felt that he loved me and that he
was ready to start his life with me and it
was a wonderful feeling. But, I told him
I didn't want to get p.G. In till like
after christmas that way I wouldn't have
the baby and still be in highschool. I
don't mind having a baby just as long as I
start college.
and i've joked around before and said I
wouldn't mind getting p.G. Because we've
had dreams of me being p.G. And my belly
and that we had a little boy so when he
can up and told me he really wanted a baby
and I was kind of stocked to hear that
because I didn't think he really wanted to
have kids with me b/c we are from 2
different races and his family is kind of
weird with that stuff..But when he told me
I really felt that he loved me and that he
was ready to start his life with me and it
was a wonderful feeling. But, I told him
I didn't want to get p.G. In till like
after christmas that way I wouldn't have
the baby and still be in highschool. I
don't mind having a baby just as long as I
start college. 