Im 13 And I Want a Baby!!

Heya all well before I said im going to wait well im not going to plan a pregnancy but if it happens it happens!
Yes im only 13 but I would try my best to raise a child me and my bf have already discussed this and he has said if we have an unplanned pregancny or a planned one he will support me all the way through and he even said he would pay every week towards our baby I was shocked and happy.

We are not going to plan a pregnancy!!

You shouldn't even be having sex. But whatever.

If it happens it happens?? what is that?

I had my son at seventeen and that was the hardest thing i've ever done. My bf was with me, and he did support me. I'm 24 years old now, and i'll tell you that money is only half of it..

The emotional support alone is so trying on your body and mind... You have no idea what you're talking about.

How the hell can you decide on a life choice at 13? No child deserves a 13 year old mother. You can't even drive your child to a doctor appointment. So when it's up at 2 am in the morning, crying and sick... Who's going to drive him/her to the hospital? Your mom and dad i'm guessing. Or maybe you can call an ambulance, and since you won't have any health insurance (being 13 years old, and unable to obtain employment in order to receive any insurance) I guess that means that my tax dollars, including everyone elses will pay for your babies health.

I don't work my ass off to support my kids, so that I can give money to yours.

And how fun will it be when you turn 15 years old and are in high school :) are you going to go to a special high school, for mommies? With your 2 year old child in tow, ofcourse.

And when all your girlfriends are picking out prom dresses, you won't even be able to afford one, because by that time you will be working your ass off to pay for diapers and food.

And when you graduate from high school, are you going to be able to afford child care for when you work full time? Child care costs atleast $500/month :)

oh yea and, medical question college, kiss that goodbye, because you'll never get to go. Maybe to some crappy jc where you can attend after work, at night, 3 nights a week. You can't chose any major that will get you a master's... Not at 18 years old, with a 5 year old kid. Unless you're totally spoiled and your mom and dad don't give a caca about handing everything to you.

And all this time, your child will be growing up. It's only a baby for about a year and a half. Then they are 2, and 3, and 4...

And when they are babies.. You will sleep about 3 hours per day. You will crave sleep like nothing you've craved before..... And then two years old, teething, and crying at night. Running a fever because teething does that.

And then 3 years old, preschool, and so on.

That little 'cute baby' you keep speaking of, like it's a doing it accessory to your wardrobe.... A cute purse, or jacket..... That baby is going to be a child sooner than you think. A full on child. That talks, has his own opinion, his own thoughts.... His own friends at school, etc etc.

They aren't cuddly and gurggley or cute anymore at 6, 7, 8, and 9.

You have no idea what the hell you are talking about. You still have a backpack, bag lunches, and I bet your mother does your laundry. You have no right to be having unprotected sex, or sex at all really....

You and your boyfriend are being selfish as hell with this. If you do "end up" pregnant, you are going to screw you, your guy, your child, and your family....

And don't respond with some bs about how you aren't trying, the subject of this thread is 'im 13 and I want a baby!!'.






Good luck. :roll:

That post was freakin' awesome.

I agree

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Very well said junebugzmamazexpectin.

That was such a good post and so true.

Wow u do not want a baby finish school and wait until ur old enought and ur ready. Im 17 dropped out of school and its hard . And my baby isnt even born yet. Ur only 13 I could only imagine if I was pregnant or wanted to get pregnant at 13. Dont do it.. Im gonna love my baby girl no matter what but its gonna b hard its alot of responsibilty. N alot of money. U will have no time for friends or nething. Ill b 18 when I have her but I know 21875328% that it is gonna b hard.


Think b4 u do it
<3 michelle

Just because someone is going to be a young mom doesnt mean they'll drop out of school like you did, everyone assumes just because you get pregnant, you'll drop out of school, it's your choice to do so. If you wanted an education, and wanted to become something in life besides being a mommy to your child, you can go to school. I'm almost 5 months pregnant and i'm almost graduated. I'm going to college.

Being a young mom is hard, but it's all about believing in yourself and knowing what you can accomplish.

Heya does it occur to anyone here that it is normal to want a baby when u r goin thro puberty - its wot becomin an adult is all about. All da hormones n boobs n stuff r there so that u can av a baby. Its just hormones, same as cryin with pms. U just have to accept that u r broody bt that it is not the rite time for a baby. I have wanted a baby since I was 12, but I no that I have to wait until I can support it and enjoy it properly.

I really don't know why you would associate wanting a baby with puberty. But maybe...

I don't think so though...At that age, boys are more fun than a baby. Lol

Sorry I never wanted a baby when I was going through puberty and I never knew of anyone else who did either. Also there is wanting a baby and trying for a baby. This girl was saying she was going to try.
12,13,14 year olds have no buisness having sex. Period.
I'm sorry but thats just the way I feel about it.
I dont think it is a normal thing and this girl has even said in past post that she just wants a baby because she doesnt have many friends and is lonely.

Hey ellie... I'm 19. I'm a student and I work a full time job. I am not a full adult yet so I hope that you take what I have to say to heart as a fellow teenager... I know that is is so exiting, your first times, not just sex but life. Growing up is a blast, trust me I played around most of my life... But now i'm a sophomore in college and I have my own apartment and I have 600 dollars in rent, 30 dollars in electricity, credit card bills, 90 dollars in car insuance not to mention rediculouly high gas prices, and food. All this along side a 29,000 dollar tuition bill. You say that you will get a paper route? Thats a good job if you are trying to save money for your prom dress or even a car but how are you going to be up and out to work at 5 when your baby hasn't slep all night. You want to ask your parents for help but you shouldn't be having a child if you can't even help yourself. You are a child still, 13 is a great age. But you know what I money I spend that is the most important in my life right now??? 25 bucks a month for birth control so that my boyfriend and I don't end up with a life long mistake!!! Good luck.

To late she is already thinking she is pregnant...Read her other post. She didnt listen to a word anyone said.

Hey I just meant that the whole point of becoming an adult is to have babies urself, if u go rite back to nature. All the hormones and everything come into play because your body is getting ready to have a baby. Im not saying that it means that all teenagers should start havin babies, just that if u look at humans as animals, its a pretty basic need.

Look all because of my other post it dont mean im pregnant I was just asking arn't I allowed to do that without being accused of being pregnant?????????????????

You have no business asking questions about it unless you have doubts that you are pregnant.

God you make me freakin' sick. Your legs need to be sown shut, this is a disgrace to teens.

She asked for advice/input... And she got it.

We can all sit and attack her, but it's not going to do much. Although her choices are clearly selfish and potentially dangerous, she is a child.

If any mods are paying attention, i'd close the thread.