Im 13 And I Want a Baby!!

That's really mature.

Oh well. Who on this site is actually mature anyway?

Get over yourself.

Do you have any idea how much a baby cost? You are 13 you can not work so who is going to support the child?

Your mom and dad are going to get stuck paying for everything and it will basically be their child.

What makes you think your family will help out? They may say to hell with you and kick you out on the streets.


Also what the heck makes you think they will let you keep the baby? If they find out you are pregnant they can make you give the baby up or make you abort it because they will be the ones supporting it not you.

Your only 13 any doctor will tell you at that age your body is no where near ready to have a baby. Getting pregnant so young increases a danger risk for not only you but the baby.

Having a baby at that age can harm the baby in a lot of ways such as brain damage, comming out deformed and so on.

Also you will destory your life beleive me I had a baby at 17 and I did not think it would change my life at all but it did. Here all my friends are 18 and are going out to clubs and drinking and where am I while they are doing this, at home being a single mom because my babies father abandoned us.

Geting pregnant at your age is stupid, dangerous, and it will screw up your life totally.

I suggest you get some counceling and learn more about babies because it is obvsiou you do not know anything about them.

Also a little heads up for you babies only stay babies for a few months.

Actually, it's her choice to keep the baby or not unless family services does something about it afterwards, its her baby, which is in her stomach. Its her choice of what she wants to do about it, they do have benefits that you can get from the state to help support you if you can't provide everything your baby needs, that not only goes for teens but everyone aswell.

(actually, it's her choice to keep the baby or not unless family services does something about it afterwards, its her baby, which is in her stomach)

actually that does not apply for 13 year old children. Last year a 13 year old got pregnant on purpose and wanted to keep the baby but her parents refused to let her and they ended up in court.

The judge ruled that it was the parents decision not the 13 year olds because a 13 year old is still a little child and not emotially ready for a baby and has no way to support a baby.

By the time the court battle was over the girl was to far a long for abortion so the baby was put up for adoption how ever the 13 year old still sees the baby because of the adoption being open which her parents chose to do.

Another story is of one that happen this year when a 13 year old got pregnant in foster care and the system did not know what to do so they had to take it to court and the judge ruled that the 13 year old could not keep the baby because not only was she in foster care but she was far to young to have a baby.

Hi I know im only 16 but I really want a baby. I wanted a baby since I was 15 and now its getting worse. I havent got a boyfriend and even if I did I know deep down a boy wudnt want 1 at this age anyway. I have a part time job and currently looking for another 1 so I would be able 2 provide for a baby. I live with my parents and wouldnt want them to provide for me I would do evrything 4 my baby and provide 4 everything a baby needs.

When I see mums out pushing their babies I wish that was me. Plus my best mate is 6 months pregnant and thats made it worse for me too. When her baby comes along I know the feeling will be worse. I really want a baby ive tryed speaking 2 my mate and sum other people but no one understands.

I was wondering if anyone out there can give me some advice. Thanks.

( plus my best mate is 6 months pregnant and thats made it worse for me too. When her baby comes along I know the feeling will be worse. I really want a baby ive tryed speaking 2 my mate and sum other people but no one understands.)

perhaps you should wat in till your mate has the baby and see how hard it is to take care of one. You see people in stores or out walking with their babies you do not see how hard it is to take care of them and so on.


My cousin also wanted a baby when I did and she wanted one way more then me but after about a month of seeing the hell I went threw taking care of a baby and how much money it cost she quickly changed her mind.

Thanks 4 replyin nd 4 de advice. I think I will be waiting 4 my m8s baby 2 come along. But I dont think it will change anything how im feeling though.
I know how hard it would be and I would be willing to do all that. I prob wont even have a baby at 16 but I definatly want 1 by the time im 19 . Is dat bad u think?

Omg!!!!!

13 is a very young age to be even thinking about having a
baby.
Your still kinda a baby yourself
i dont understand why u want one at a very young age???

At the end of the day, its your life
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It's no ones choice, but your own to keep your child thats inside of your stomach, your parents cannot make you get an abortion, you are your own person which means you make the choices you believe are right. A parent cant not take they're pregnant 13 year old daughter to court, she'll end up in a foster home.

No one can make you do anything, it's not illegal to get pregnant at any age, therefor it's not wrong. And you can't do anything about it.

[quote="dalicialynn"]it's no ones choice, but your own to keep your child thats inside of your stomach, your parents cannot make you get an abortion, you are your own person which means you make the choices you believe are right. A parent cant not take they're pregnant 13 year old daughter to court, she'll end up in a foster home.


No one can make you do anything, it's not illegal to get pregnant at any age, therefor it's not wrong. And you can't do anything about it.[/quote

no one said it was illigal , or wrong read tha whole thing be4 your start tryin to start drama

I'm not going to lecture you like everyone else has but i'm 22 and have been married for 8 months, my husband and I have been together for the last 4 years and i'm 10 weeks pregnant with our first. It's scary, this child was planned but I still lay awake at night hoping everything will be ok. Please for your sake enjoy being young, at 13 you shouldn't even be thinking about sex, which is supposed to be enjoyed with someone you love, when you are ready not when your still a kid trying to get pregnant. Just think about it and wait till you are in a stable relationship with someone you love and listen to these girls here, they do know what they are talking about.

Everyone has stated the obvious here, its a stupid idea. My mother had my sister at 16 and not only did she go through all the stress of having to work 2 jobs and could only just afford my sister having 2 jobs no time to her self blah blah blah, the government did not want her to keep the child. She had to fight her arse off to keep it her mother kicked her out of home. It took her years and years until she brought her self a house as she could never afford her own place for that long. It took her months and months of court for her to convince them she could take care of a child at that age. I do not think you are making the right move. Your body would most probably not be strong enough to bear a child right now anyway, like someone else said seeing you are so younge and your body is still not prepared your child could have alot of deformities or worse your body will mis carrage. If your child gets brain damage the bills will sky rocket of how much you will need to pay to be taking care of someone with special needs. Having little sleep at night due to the crying, everyday sitting around taking care of a child when you are not working 2 or so jobs. A paper round will not get you enough money seeing in the first few years of the childs life you will need to spend listerally thousands on it ( I do not know how much in pounds as I am australian) you did help with your brothers yes but you did not have the strain on your body like your mother, you did not have to stay up all night hushing them to sleep for hours, you did not have to work and work is not fun take it from me it is so boring and hard. And pay is not always great. Please wait, baby sit children itll make it less hard to want one. You can not afford a child and go to school, you need a full time good paying job, a career, not finishing school will not get you a good job like that. Wait for years! If you want a child so much you should care enough to not have one now incase it becomes deformed and put it into a life of pain because you wanted one so long.

(it's no ones choice, but your own to keep your child thats inside of your stomach, your parents cannot make you get an abortion, you are your own person which means you make the choices you believe are right. A parent cant not take they're pregnant 13 year old daughter to court, she'll end up in a foster home. )

you should watch the news more often because what you just said is false. Last year on the news a 13 year old and her parents were in court fighting on what to do with the 13 year olds baby because the 13 year old childs parents wanted the baby put up for adoption while the 13 year old wanted to keep it and in the end the parents of the 13 year old won because when it comes down to it a 13 year old is not ready for a baby and has no way to support it making the child basicallythe parents of the 13 year old the parents of the baby

who the heck do you think is going to be taking care of the baby while the 13 year old is in school, her parents, buying everything the baby needs, her parents, paying for a babysitter , her parents.


Yes their are laws that say you are your own person when you get pregnant and it is your choice what to do but that does not apply to a 13 year old child.

[quote="thessalonians"]

open your eyes you stupid b*tch, read the whole point of my post. You could of just read who I replied too, instead of posting and making yourself look like a total fool.

Hahahahahaahahaha.

I agree with you on that one!