Advice Needed! (am I Pregnant?) Posted: 07-21-05 16:54pm
Hello all..
I for the past 3 years have gotten my
period regularly.. I get it for 2 days
then 1 day off then 2 days again, with
extreme cramps for the first 3 days. This
always comes between the 19th and the 24th
of the month.. Well this month was
different. I had sex with my boyfriend on
the 5th of the month. We used protection,
but used the same condom twice (in the
same session, if you want to call it that
:oops:). I have read this weakens the
condom ? Also it was a non lubricated
condom, and for the first few mins was
very hard to get comfortable with ( I
heard there can be breakage if the condoms
not well lubricated and the woman isn't
really wet). Well, on the 6th we had sex
again the same way, and on the 7th.. Well
about 20 minutes after we did on the 7th I
got my period. It was a normal flow at
first (not heavy by any means) then 2 hrs
later it became extremely light. Well on
the 8th we didn't want to have sex cause I
was on my period (which was still extremly
light almost not there) so we decided to
do other stuff, in which time he
ejaculated on my stomach.. When I washed
myself in the shower some of it was going
down my body. On the 9th I woke up and my
period was completely gone.. And since
never returned. During the 2 days it was
there I didn't have any cramping at all.
Well on the 9th we had sex again because
the period was gone.. Plus from past
experience if the period goes away (during
that 1 day every month it does for me) it
comes back once i've reached orgasm.. I
know this is very common in women.. But
it still didn't come back. My period has
never really been irregular except for
when I was younger like 12-16 but since I
was 17 (i'm 20) it's been pretty much
exact cycle same time of the month.. But
this month as I said it was very
different. The past few days i've had a
little swollen breasts, i've been tired
like no other for the past week or so
(oversleeping, falling asleep at odd
times), and the past 2 days i've felt a
little nauseaus. I am wondering if it's
possible that I may be pregnant? I know
using a condom twice makes it less
effective, and considering it was his
first time having sex (he was a virgin),
and him not being circumsized he was
having a little trouble figuring out how
to put it on correctly. I don't think he
pinched the top of the condom like he was
suppose to :shock: I don't know ( I
didn't watch lol).. Plus, with him
ejaculating on my stomach and some of it
moving down my body while washing myself
some may have came in ? Any advice will
be greatly appreciated!
Mary
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Mary1120
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jul 2005 Posts: 3
Posted: 07-21-05 21:18pm
Anyone alive to respond? I've read
through previous threads and no ones
situation is like mine (to a certain
degree some are) but.. ? I really need
some input this is seriously freaking me
out and I don't know if i'm worrying for
nothing, or if it could be.. Any help
would be appreciated :)
mary
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 383
Posted: 07-21-05 21:54pm
Reusing condoms is always a bad idea. It
weakens the condom and when taking them
off and trying to put them back on you
risk the chance of tearing them and not
always noticing so yes pregnancy could be
a factor. All I can really tell you is if
you're worried then you should take a hpt
and see what happens. If the results are
negative and you still don't get your
period and are worred head to your doctors
and ask for a blood test since they're
more accurate.