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babygurl15

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I Need Some Advice/ Help
Posted: 07-21-05 21:49pm

Ok heres the story..Im 15 yrs old..And I might b pregnet..It was a mistake..But I dont believe in abortion..And I kno the father of the bby wouldnt let me do ne thing but keep it..And mean I wouldnt mind hav in a kid..I kno how hard it is..I raised my neice for 2 years while her mother went and screwed off..But im too young and im afriad that my mom will get him in trouble..Cause hes 18..And I jus dk wat to do..I wanna finish school and all that..Please helpw ith ne adivce or ne thing :?:
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michelle1981

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Posted: 07-22-05 13:26pm

My advice to you is don't stress about it until it's confirmed. Stressing can mess up your cycle. Maybe that's what's happening.
Also if you're not pregnant either talk to your doctor about getting on the pill or other means of b/c or abstain from sex... Your choice.

Good luck!
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Prince Wyte

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I Understand Completely
Posted: 07-31-05 19:58pm

Heh I understand im 16 and got a 14 yr old pregnant girlfriend. If your parents are the ones to back you up your ok but if they arent then tell them how much so you wanted this baby and how youd raise it and how much you love the man that help make your baby and they should help.
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vanessalouanne

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Posted: 08-01-05 14:37pm

Prince wyte
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joined: 31 jul 2005
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me too
posted: 07-31-05 8:54pm

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i live in indiana wife my gf we currently have one 2 yr old son but im afraid your might not like me since im 17 with a 15 yr old girlfriend with a son cause you might not like young couples as friends but if you wanna become friends reply me.







Which is it??
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DaliciaLynn

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Posted: 08-02-05 22:58pm

Sweetheart.

When you give birth, if you choose too, you don't have to give the doctors the real name of your babys dad, if you care about him and don't want him to get in trouble then give the hospital a fake name when you give birth, it will be a while before they finally figure out that you gave them a fake name.

My mom didnt want my dad around so she gave them a fake name and they didn't notice that until 12 years later, then they decided to nail him with child support.

It's no ones business but yours what you decide to do, you choose the life for yourself and your unborn baby, if no one can accept that and realize you made a mistake, your mistake, it has nothing to do with your baby, therefor your baby doesnt deserve to be punished, humans are meant to make mistakes, because that's how we learn, and even if your young, like every mother-to-be you'll try your best to give your child a good life, and if you don't you will die knowing you tried your best.

If your unborn baby could defend and speak for itself then it would be a whole different story.
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rangers-chick

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How Do I Tell My Parents!!?
Posted: 08-08-05 08:21am

Hi everyone, I have a problem and I need some advice. I'm 18, 19 in nov, I think I am pregnant as I have missed a period and I am going to take a test as soon as I get home from work. The thing is if I am pregnant how can I tell my parents? I think that my mum will not be as bad as I think but my dad will totally kill me and I mean it he is strict, well I mean that he wants me to do good for myself and get my own house and car and stuff and he will be so upset if I tell him im pregnant. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and its too soon for me to have a baby. It scares me so much sometimes I lay in bed thinking about how I would tell my parents my mum always says if I was pregnant my dad would kill my boyfriend. I am also scared to tell my bf as he has no job and plus we stay about an hour away from each other and he doesn't drive so we hardly see each other he will go mad what can I do??? Please help!!!!! :(
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Steph92904

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Posted: 08-08-05 08:51am

My mom said she wanted to call the cops and get him in trouble cuz I am 17 and he is 21 (which isnt really illegal but she didnt know that) but she realized that its the babies father.. Why would you put him in jail.. Serious;y.
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lmimi

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Joined: 11 Jan 2006
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Location: Miami Fl
I Need Some Advice Please Help Me Please....
Posted: 01-11-06 23:06pm

Hi I am 15 me and my boyfriend have had sex 4 or 5 time and about 2 times with out a condom! He didnt cum in me and he took it out before he cam and we waited about 30 to 50 minuets and went at it again..... Ok so now I havent got my period this month I think it may be because im stressing and im really worried and my breast hurt..... Its been a week or 2 since we've done anything! I've also token a home pregnancy test and all of them came out negetive!!! Im really not sure if it was to early to take the test... Would any one please help me I really wanna now what is going on.....

Thank you very much love always
mimi!!!!
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