I am 32 yrs and my boyfriend is 44 yrs. We have been in a relationship for 3 years. Last year in sept. I caught him cheating on me with a women in his apartment complex. I confronted him and he begged for a second chance & he left her alone. She got pregnant and did not contact him until after the 7th month. She just gave child up for adoption a month ago. Plus, he just moved to washington dc this past weekend to start his new job. The transition of new apartment and job is not going well.

2 days ago I just told my boyfriend that I was pregnant. I taken 3 pregnancy tests and they were positive. Plus I went to my doctor yesterday and got confirmed. I called him on his cell phone to tell him that my period did not start and I taken a pregancy test. I told him it was positive and he told me that he was at work and he will call me later. He included that he needs to think about the situation. 3 hours later I haven't heard from him and I called him back. He was on his way home from work. I asked him what is his thoughts and he said that he is in shock from all this and needs time to think about it.

I called him yesterday morning and gave a suggestion that I can put my furniture in storage and move up to dc. He told me he haven't thought that far ahead. I asked him what does he want to do and he said he didn't know. I expressed to him that I don't feel any support from him and he said that he is still shocked and needs time think about it. I told him that I feel left out in the murk and he repeated several times that he is not leaving me. He told me that he has been working at his new job for 3 days and he didn't need this situation dumped on him right now. I told him that I did not plan this. I have been taking birth control pills for 3 years and somehow it failed me. He even seen me take the pills when I spent nights at his old apartment. It's been 2 nights and he has not called me. I don't know if he will come to terms of what is going on. We planned to have me moved up to dc in 6 months after he gets settled with his job. He told me more than once that he wants to get married the end of next year. Right now, I feel like he is being self-centered and is running away from the situation. Especially after what he went thru with his exlover. I understand he is having a hard time in dc but this pregnancy is just as important as what is happening around him. I would appreciate any thoughts.