Hi,
for awhile now, my boyfriend has been
humping me with clothes between us (pants
and underwear on both). Often, my crotch
area would be wet, my underwear, but also
my jeans from the outside, so I think he
was slightly ejaculating on me. Well, I
skipped my period and haven't had any
signs of ovulation this month. For the
past week, we have been humping with his
bare penis and sometimes just my
underwear, but he hasn't inserted, even
when he would slide my underwear off to
the side for actual connection. When he
ejaculates/orgasms, he takes his penis
away, but sometimes the sperm would be on
my underwear afterwards. I've looked on
the web for possible pregnancy signs, and
it seems that I have them. Is it even
possible? Please reply. Thank-you!!
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Happiness03
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Posted: 07-23-05 10:18am
It would be very unlikely for you to get
pregnant that way, however anything is
possible! Just know that if you have been
stressing out about this or you are under
any unusual stress, this may trigger your
body to be late on your period. As far as
feeling like you are pregnant, what do you
mean? What are your symptoms? You can
always take an early home pregnancy test
(like first response) up to four days
before you expect your period. If all
turns out fine, it would probably be a
wise idea to talk with your doctor about
getting on birth control. Just don't
worry in the mean time :)
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shortie02
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Posted: 07-27-05 10:24am
Thank-you so much for your reply. I have
been nauseated in the mornings
occasionally this past couple of weeks,
and that is very unsual for me. I have
also had light, infrequent cramps, and
strange cravings for foods. Is that
normal or could I be paranoid? Thank-you
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-27-05 15:37pm
I think that you are just paranoid, I
really really doubt that you are pregnant
unless you are just amazingly fertile and
all you have to do is look at you cross
eyed and you would be pregnant.
Dont worry its probably totally in your
head. Youd be amazed at the stuff our
bodies will do when we have it in our
heads that we are something we are not.
Stress is probably the biggest factor as
to why you are not having your period.
If your worried take a hpt. But once
again I do not think that you are
pregnant.
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shortie02
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Posted: 08-09-05 13:18pm
I hope you're right! I had my period two
weeks late, and it seemed fairly normal.
Uh, i'm still nauseated these days though,
and now more than ever, plus I have been
having diarhea. That's not morning
sickness, is it? I haven't got a hpt yet.
Never think of it when I go shopping. As
for birth control pills, can you get them
over the counter or do you need to be
evaluated by a doctor and then get a
prescription for them? Also, would anyone
be able to tell me about the 'morning
after pill?' is that also a prescription,
or is it over-the-counter?
Thank-you.
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Pocket Angel
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Posted: 08-09-05 13:28pm
If I were you, I would go out and get an
hpt, just to be on the safe side. The
fact that your period was 2 weeks late
could be a sign of stress, so can the
sickness, but can also be a sign of
pregnancy. I would go out and get the
test today if you could, just to keep
yourself from further worry!
As for bith control pills, I heard from a
friend of mine that you could get them at
the drug store but I always was given a
perscription for them. As for the
morning after pill, it has to be given to
you by a clinic or doctor I believe. Try
contact a local planned parenthood for
more information =o)
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 08-09-05 14:24pm
If you have been having symptoms for
awhile morning after pill is to late
anyway.
Hence the whole "morning after" thing
even through the panties is possible.
Something like100, or 1000, or so in dot
the size of a pin head.
I remember when I was growing up my mom
telling me, dry humping can get you
pregnant.
Not getting on to you just wondering "the
logic"
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 08-09-05 14:55pm
"dry humping" can actually feel really
good. It is the stimulation to the clit
that does it. I did it a lot, this was
because I didnt want to have sex until I
was married and it felt good. I know I
was basically playing with fire on that
one, but I did wait until I was married.
Also, the chances of her getting pregnant
are about one in a million. This girl is
already paranoid so id suggest not making
it sound like it's real possible for her
to be pregnant, expecially when she has
already had a normal period since the
incident.
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Pocket Angel
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Posted: 08-09-05 15:22pm
I used to love "dry humping" and still do,
although I am obviously not a virgin
anymore *points to belly*. I get more
stimulated and easier stimulated that way
than having actual sex (although I do
enjoy that too!).
There is a slight chance she could get
pregnant from that... But I highly doubt
it. I do think a pregnancy test is
needed to be on the safe side!
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 08-09-05 16:28pm
And why would a person tease a young boy
like that!?? What? I dont get it
yes some girls would say want to stay a
virgin, but are you really still a virgin.
Yes physically you have a cherry
still-- unless it was broke in a fall as a
kid.
But I feel the union of one person with
another makes you joined as god says
joined and than in that case; are you
still a virgin? In a sense you would be
already joined with that person.
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 08-09-05 16:44pm
fatfamily02
wrote:
i wasnt saying it wouldnt be
good--s*** I can rub on anything and get
aroused or masterbate with it. Im just
saying what is the point to doing all that
and not actually getting the satisfation
of having him inside of you? And why
would a person tease a young boy like
that!?? And the girl that says she is
not a virgin and still "dry humps" what is
the point. Not enough time?? Dont want
to get caught with cloths off? What?
I dont get it
yes some girls would say want to stay a
virgin, but are you really still a virgin.
Yes physically you have a cherry
still-- unless it was broke in a fall as a
kid.
But I feel the union of one person with
another makes you joined as god says
joined and than in that case; are you
still a virgin? In a sense you would be
already joined with that person. And if
you dont want to be nasty or unclean, well
are you still clean after a sex act like
that? Not just "kissin cousins" at that
point, if you know what I
mean!
i always thought that to have sex was to
be one with that person..When someone is
inside of you (actual intercourse) and
you are physically one person then that is
having sex. Rubbing up against a person
and having them penatrate you are two very
different things, I guess you could argue
the "mental" aspect of being clean and a
virgin but I dont think any of us would be
clean if based on only our thoughts. You
could further argue that kissing can mean
you are no longer "clean" if you wanted
to.
Basically it comes down to this. I was
a horny 16 year old and at least I wasnt
putting myself at risk for pregnancy or
stds. To me sex and "dry humping" is a
lot different. Emotionally and
physically. I was a virgin on my wedding
day. Dispute that if you want but
rubbing up against a boy isnt losing my
virginity. Plus in .Gods eyes if we ask
forgivness he sees us all as clean.
Once again you could argue a peck on the
lips makes you unclean.
And to us who can have sex anytime we
like but still "dry hump" sometimes, we do
it for the reasons we said before, it
feels good. Its nice to change things up
sometimes. Going at it all the time can
get old after a while and I dont think
there is anything wrong with trying
different things to be aroused.
Ps I really dont feel sorry for these
"poor boys" my husband still got off and
you know what, should every girl put out
just so these boys get relieve themselves?
I dont think so.
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Pocket Angel
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Posted: 08-09-05 17:24pm
fatfamily02
wrote:
i wasnt saying it wouldnt be
good--s*** I can rub on anything and get
aroused or masterbate with it. Im just
saying what is the point to doing all that
and not actually getting the satisfation
of having him inside of you? And why
would a person tease a young boy like
that!?? And the girl that says she is
not a virgin and still "dry humps" what is
the point. Not enough time?? Dont
want to get caught with cloths off?
What? I dont get it
yes some girls would say want to stay a
virgin, but are you really still a virgin.
Yes physically you have a cherry
still-- unless it was broke in a fall as a
kid.
But I feel the union of one person with
another makes you joined as god says
joined and than in that case; are you
still a virgin? In a sense you would
be already joined with that person. And
if you dont want to be nasty or unclean,
well are you still clean after a sex act
like that? Not just "kissin cousins"
at that point, if you know what I
mean!
you must have a pretting boring sex life
if you think its only about
penetration...
I don't think you are setting a good
example at all for the young women and men
coming to this site... I would rather
see people dry humping eachother and
getting off rather than having sex and
risking unwanted pregnancies. And poor
boys?? Please, I am sure once he busts,
he isn't complaining.
To say she is not a virgin because she dry
humps is a statement you have no right to
make. It has nothing to do with time or
getting caught with your clothes off. I
honestly think teasing is more of a turn
on than anything... Its about excitement,
staying a virgin for her own moral
reasons, and not getting pregnant.
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 08-09-05 17:32pm
Thank you and I agree completely
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 08-09-05 20:05pm
pocket angel
wrote:
you must have a pretting boring sex life
if you think its only about
penetration...
I don't think you are setting a good
example at all for the young women and men
coming to this site... I would rather
see people dry humping eachother and
getting off rather than having sex and
risking unwanted pregnancies. And
poor boys?? Please, I am sure once he
busts, he isn't complaining.
To say she is not a virgin because she dry
humps is a statement you have no right to
make. It has nothing to do with time
or getting caught with your clothes off.
I honestly think teasing is more of a
turn on than anything... Its about
excitement, staying a virgin for her own
moral reasons, and not getting
pregnant.
i didnt tell them to do anything----
i just dont understand the point to me it
is dirty and unclean and to me if I were
getting married and wanted a virgin---i
would want someone who hasnt given any of
themselves to anyone.
And you are the one in the wrong telling
me not to set a bad example for them, they
are doing what they do already---i didnt
tell them to change, I just dont get the
point. I did not say she wasnt a
virgin--i did say that I believe she has
already been joined to that person when
she opens herself to sexual activities
like that. That is only my opinion.
And the point was if for morality or godly
purposes, it is over when she lets him do
that to her!!! And that is the truth.
If it is to keep her self from getting
preg. Then that is all fine and good.
I was just asking what was the point???
It was a question.???? If it is for
excitement--then you have answered my
question. I was just asking, and
imputting my opinion. I have right to
mine as you have to yours.
Lets go ask the pastor, or go to the
police station with 15 year old girl,
caught being "dry humped" by a 19 year
old, then we find out how clean or proper
or uninvasive that is.
That is my point-----my opinion which on
here I have my right to!!!!
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 08-10-05 11:12am
Have you ever had a sexual thought before?
Because to .God this is the same as not
being a virgin, having an unclean mind.
It just seems like your up there on your
high horse making judgments, who gives you
that authority?
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 08-10-05 13:29pm
Giving my opinion is judging--you are
sadly mistaken
you have a right to your opinion so do i
thank you very much--
to judge would be to say she is destined
for hell for her actions. I never would
ever tell someone that.
Maybe you should read my stuff again. I
was just asking what the point of it was
"for her" if for pleasure fine, if for
not getting preg fine. Cuz she dint want
to loose her cherry fine, but in my
opinion she is not morally ethical in her
actions. And if I wanted a virgin, in my
opinion I would like someone who hadnt
shared any of themselves with another.
Even in that sense. That is my opinion.
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shortie02
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Posted: 08-11-05 14:17pm
Fatfamily, you are really rude. I was
simply asking ppl for advice and
additional information for my situation -
medically-/scientifically-speaking, not
some self-righteous response trying to
figure out what a horrible, slutty person
I am. The truth is, I love my boyfriend
dearly and he loves me, and we simply
haven't gone to the drug store. Which is
why i'm curious about the aforementioned
things.
Also, I am not a little teenager "fooling
around" - my boyfriend is my best friend
and vice versa. So, if I were you,
fatfamily, i'd stop spouting your
knowledge-lacking, self-righteous remarks
around at this forum before someone really
stomps on you.
Thank-you to the rest who have answered my
questions as best as you could without
judging me. Thank-you.
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 08-11-05 14:28pm
Maybe you should re-read what I wrote. I
have my opinion you have yours.
You are all sadly mistaken, I deserve an
apology. I am not judging anyone.
I am not self righteous and I would like
to see someone try to stomp me as you put
it. God is my shield my strength and my
courage and I am not judging you now, but
someday I will be judge over even the
angels. And that is the truth.
I asked you what was the point, it was a
question I wanted you to answer and now
you just show me how rude you are about me
having my own opinion!!!??? Nice clean
person. See, point and case. Ya'all
getting panties in a ruffle cuz I am
correct. No one likes their sins
uncovered. Truth always hurts.
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shortie02
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Posted: 08-11-05 17:11pm
Sins? So, when did you become perfect?
You're just on this site to judge all the
wicked heathens here? Ha! Miss or mrs
sexpert, maybe you should find some other
way to bide your time. I'm certain jesus
doesn't think highly of you - what did he
say about judgers? And, I didn't ask you
or anyone for there opinion. If you want
to have an opinion, definitely set up your
own discussion, or build a webpage that
ppl can link to, and that would be great.
But you don't have to be cutting people
down from your lofty, self-righteous
pedestal.
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 08-11-05 17:18pm
You dont even deserve an answer little
girl--keep playing and you will see
someday. I dont even care--- have a
great day little one--ill pray for you
