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Q: Just Want to Conversate With Pregnant Teens
asked by: phattygurl16 on July 23rd, 2005
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Wuz da deal I just feel like conversating because im 16 years old and pregnant just want some one to talk to because I have alot on my mind. I'm 7 months pregnant with a lil boy. (my heart and soul). :(
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WorriedConfusion
replied on July 23rd, 2005
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Hi, I know how you feel about being pregnant im also 16 years old.. And I might be pregnant but, im not to sure yet if I am i'd be 9 weeks right now but my pregnancy tests all came out negative when I took them but they might have been thrown off at the time by me drinking alot of fluids.. I first got pregnant when I was 14 due to a rape by this guy I was "suposedly" dating.. But it turned out he had a girlfriend already and I was just naive enough to let him that close to me.. But 5 months later I noticed I was pregnant but then a few weeks later I had a miscarriage because of his girlfriend pushing me down the stairs at school... Well if you need someone to talk to feel free to talk to me anything just email me..
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Kate917881
replied on July 23rd, 2005
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Hey everyone:

how is everyone?! I'm kate.. N i'm 17 .. I am 16 weeks and 3 days pregnant!
How far along is everyone else?! Boy or girl?! .. Me i'm not sure what i'm having .. And I don't wanna find out... Well.. Have a great day! :d
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neeko177
replied on July 23rd, 2005
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It took you 5 months until you noticed??
She pushed u down the stairs? I hope you knocked her out!
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WorriedConfusion
replied on July 23rd, 2005
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Oh yeah I knocked her out after I got discharged from the hospital because I was planning to have the babies too... They were twins too... Or so the doctor told me... Man I was mad... Because after that the guy denied it and then a month later he broke up with her n came to me.. N then ugh it just made me real mad because those were my babies and she killed them over jealously... When her boyfriend raped me... So I dont know...
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justacanadiangirl
replied on July 24th, 2005
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That's awful.... I'd sue.
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WorriedConfusion
replied on July 24th, 2005
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Sue me or her?
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justacanadiangirl
replied on July 24th, 2005
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Her. For pushing u down the stairs and causing u to loose the babies.
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WorriedConfusion
replied on July 24th, 2005
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I would have if I didnt wanna get my parents in it.... So I just let it go... But she got a good beating after I got out of the hospital..
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Kimmeh
replied on July 24th, 2005
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Wow that's the mature way to handle it.
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justacanadiangirl
replied on July 24th, 2005
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I would have gotten my parents involved. That's a serious matter and getting her beat up is not the way to handle it.
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sandyallen
replied on July 24th, 2005
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Why didn't you turn him in for raping you, he got away with it once he will probably try it again plus he was allowed to have his cake and eat it too that is bs! He did not seem to be there for you. He seems like a jerk too. He may have wanted you to be hurt and pushed down the stairs. It sounds to me like he might be playing head games so you will not turn him in for the rape. Just be careful please!
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WorriedConfusion
replied on July 24th, 2005
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Its the past now... Im now 16 and I moved far away from him and im kind of glad I didnt have the child.. Because if I were to have the child I couldnt continue in school and play sports and go out as to where I wanted to... So im glad I didnt have the babies but I do regret it from time to time that I didnt go thru with being a mother but I was only 14 as the time and obviously to young to have a child and if I did have the child it wouldnt been like my parents child instead of mines because I had no ablities to support the child what so ever... And plus I mean... It was my fault to begin with... To be so careless n not know what he was up to... But.. Its just over now his girlfriend pushed me down the stairs I had a miscarriage.. And from all that maybe something or someone was just telling me it wasnt the time yet...
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WorriedConfusion
replied on July 24th, 2005
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And if I did turn him in for raping me my parents would have gotten into the whole thing and if they did they would have sent me back to boarding school.. And im real glad I got out of there... And I wasnt about ready to let anyone or anything send me back...But thru all in all im alright im quite normal enough to talk about my expirence and to face sexual activities again as a normal person should....
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Madden2
replied on July 24th, 2005
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Hey Guys...got Any Advice?
Hey I am 17 and just recently lost my virginity at a party. I got a little tipsy. Now..I'm not upset that I lost my big v..Cause it was to this guy that I love and he was getting sent off to basic the following week. Now..Just so you have the details..He didn't like..Uh..Come inside me...But I have heard about precome. And I just want to make sure that non of that went on. Haha. Uh.. I wanted to ask you ladies how long it took you to find out you were pregnant..And how you found out...And what changes happened to you. That would be really nice of you. Thanks so much! *^-^*
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seksiHily
replied on July 25th, 2005
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Ummm so was he your boyfriend or hers?
Did they do anything to try to save the babies?

How many weeks were you?
Did u labor?
Did u have any other troubles?
Miscarrying because of a fall even down stairs is very rare, the fetus is quite protected by the womb. My friends chunky 6 y/o jumped on her stomach at 28 wks and she was fine.
Im sorry for ur losses
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vanessalouanne
replied on July 26th, 2005
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Re: Hey Guys...got Any Advice?
[quote="madden2"]hey I am 17 and just recently lost my virginity at a party. I got a little tipsy. Now..I'm not upset that I lost my big v..Cause it was to this guy that I love and he was getting sent off to basic the following week. Now..Just so you have the details..He didn't like..Uh..Come inside me...But I have heard about precome. And I just want to make sure that non of that went on. Haha. Uh.. I wanted to ask you ladies how long it took you to find out you were pregnant..And how you found out...And what changes happened to you. That would be really nice of you. Thanks so much! *^-^*[/quote


you love him and he took your virginity while you were drunk at some party..Hmm.. Well did he use a condom? Were you ovulating? A lot goes into making a baby and you have to be pretty dang furtile to get pregnant from a little bit of pre cum. Pre cum by the way is the stuff that comes out when he is turned on. If you think you are pregnant or get any symptoms such as sore breast, nausia, or fatigue (being really tired) then test around the time of your period, first response is the most sensitive and can sense the pregnancy hormone up to four days before your missed period.

Good luck.

Ps: you need to make sure he is a good guy and just not trying to get some before going to boot camp, the im going away to war line is a bunch of crap.
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loneytearz
replied on July 28th, 2005
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Sup phattygurl... Im 16 y/o ima be 17 im aug...Im also 23 weeks preg with a lil boy...I feel ya on alot of stuff on ya mind...Im going threw the same things... I got soo much on my head bout raisen him n everything but im so him sooo much of my love becuz his fathers a deadbeat...N wants to part so but if u want to talk u can im me at thugish420babe
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surfbaby345
replied on July 31st, 2005
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Re: Just Want to Conversate With Pregnant Teens
phattygurl16 wrote:
wuz da deal I just feel like conversating because im 16 years old and pregnant just want some one to talk to because I have alot on my mind. I'm 7 months pregnant with a lil boy. (my heart and soul). :(
hey whats up, so im 17 years old and only had sex 4 times and I find out 2 days ago that my boyfriend has only used 3 condoms each time he's had sex and the condom broke a couple days ago and he cumed all in me and im freaking out that I might be pregnant. Everyone says have an abortion, and I am totally aganist it. I feel connected to the baby(if im having one) when you told your parents what did they say were they upset I just need some guidance I don't know what to do.
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DaliciaLynn
replied on August 1st, 2005
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I'm 16 years old and am 3 months pregnant today.
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