Girlfriends Parents Ruining Great Relationship Posted: 07-23-05 14:22pm
I have been with this girl for a few
months now, she came up to live with her
dad for the summer and we have the
greatest time together. But her mother
call and made her go home, I love her and
I miss her in a bad way. She needs to get
out of her mothers house some way!!! She
hasnt stopped crying since we havent been
together, wont eat..... I dont kno what
to do someone help me out!!!!! Her mother
is an alcoholic and she doesnt get treated
right!!!!! Need help any ideas, thank you
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Happiness03
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Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 333
Posted: 07-23-05 14:59pm
It sounds to me like she needs to get away
from her mom if she is an alcoholic and is
not being treated properly. May I ask how
old she is, because she might be able to
get a court order to live with her dad b/c
of her mothers alcoholism. You might do
some research in the state laws where you
are from. Let us know how things turn
out.
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dude123
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Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 4
????? Posted: 07-23-05 15:22pm
Shes not 16.......... Ummm what should I
do, I feel so bad because im practically
helpless.... Shes a great gurl and I kno
were young but I think ill be with her for
a longggggggggggg time......... Idk how
old do u have to be, cant u just choose my
parents are divorced and I have always had
the choice to go here or there............
We need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Happiness03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 333
Posted: 07-23-05 15:27pm
Like I said, you would need to research
the laws that pertain to your state. You
can first begin by talking to her dad. He
would need to speak with a lawyer and they
can discuss what is best for her, but to
me it sounds like she shouldn't be living
with an alcoholic who is left untreated.
Just talk to her dad and listen to his
views on it, but any good, responsible dad
wouldn't want thier daughter living with a
substance abuser.
Good luck
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dude123
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Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 4
Ummm Posted: 07-24-05 18:10pm
What if he doesnt have the money for an
attorney???? Idk ne ideas he wants her
but has dui's to pay off court fees
etc.... Idk but she cant live there I
dont want her to do something to herself
maybe suicide if it doesnt get made right,
its not me but im a big help in her life I
make her happy and smile all the
time.......... Just keep giving me info
im in ohio and I dont kno where to look
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-28-05 16:41pm
Look on the internet for information. In
california at 14 you can chose which
parent you want to live with. If it is
serious enough to were you fear for her
life id say to call up child protective
services. They will investigate and have
her move in with her father if that is
what they think best.
