Well, I was hangin out with my friend and
when my boyfriend had gotten home from
work...He had acted kind of weird...Its
not normal at all!!..Normally when we go
like 2 days without seeing each other he
gives me a nice tight " I missed u huge"
and I didn't get that at all..Well, he
just came right home got in a
shower...While he was doin that his friend
was waiten for him so we just kinda sat
around and chatted...Then after that my
boyfriend looked and acted really mad at
me like I had did something horrible. I
haven't done anything for him to get mad
at me. Then out of no where he tells me
they were going to go party, he didn't ask
if I would like to join them...He'd never
exclude me from anything he does normally
he askes me to come along with him...He
didn't even bother to ask..It really hurts
me really bad. Well, he told me he was
mad and I had asked if I did something and
he said yes but he didn't want to talk
about it in front of no one and he said it
was bad. I haven't even been anywhere to
do anything so I am very lost...It really
has me confused and hurt really bad.. :(
please help me asap
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theman
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2005 Posts: 77 Location: South Wales, United Kingdom
Posted: 07-25-05 05:42am
Well, first and foremost it sounds like
you two are really close. So if you
haven't done anything wrong, all you need
to do is sincerely explain that to him and
he should understand. Chances are, some
fool has been spreading rumours around, or
it's been like chinese whispers and made
its way to your boyfriend as something
totally different to how it started. Make
an effort to see him alone and ask him
outright what he thinks you've done. If
you really haven't done it, then you'll
look surprised and defend yourself. If he
really cares about you, then he'll
understand. If he doesn't believe you at
all, even if you say you haven't done
whatever he thinks you've done, then the
trust just isn't there, and you might have
to start reconsidering some things. Just
find out what it is he thinks you've done
first. That's the first step.
