I'm 19 years old, and for some reason, i'm
unable to ejaculate through
masturbation...Wet dreams will get me off,
but i've only gotten pre-cum from jerking
off... I've been looking for what this
would be, but i've yet to find a site that
accurately describes my problem...Any
ideas??
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theman
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2005 Posts: 77 Location: South Wales, United Kingdom
Posted: 07-24-05 18:20pm
It may simply be that you aren't
stimulated enough during masturbation as
you are in sex. If you can't ejaculate at
any time, even during sex when you climax,
perhaps it would be a good idea to see a
doctor. But just not ejaculating in
masturbation is nothing to worry about for
the short term.
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ironstar
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2005 Posts: 5
Posted: 07-24-05 18:39pm
That's what I was telling the person that
told me to check it out with a doctor...
As I haven't had sex yet, I don't know if
that would get me off...I imagine the big
problem is that I can't block my mind out,
so i'm completely aware of what i'm doing,
and knowing that i'm jerking off, and not
being able to tune that out...I can't get
myself to ejaculate...
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theman
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2005 Posts: 77 Location: South Wales, United Kingdom
Posted: 07-24-05 18:43pm
It really does just sound like you're not
in the right frame of mind to masturbate.
What you could do is hold off from
masturbating for a few days or more, and
then when you really feel like you want
to, try it then. That might help :-)
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ironstar
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2005 Posts: 5
Posted: 07-24-05 18:52pm
Therein lies the problem, i've gone weeks
at a time without masturbating...I can get
an erection in nothin flat, but I just
can't get myself in the frame of mind on
my own...Porn doesn't even work...Online,
magazines, videos, none of it gets me
going really well
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theman
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2005 Posts: 77 Location: South Wales, United Kingdom
Posted: 07-24-05 18:55pm
Well unfortunately, that lies beyond the
boundaries of this forum! Some people
just aren't turned on at all by anything
other than real-life experiences. In
which case, go out and find some of those
experiences! That's all I can really
suggest, in addition to what i've already
said. Don't worry about it, mate.
Worrying really won't do any good.
