I'M A MAN AND NEED HELP?? Posted: 08-02-03 00:43am
OK...MY GIRLFRIEND HAS NOT HAD HER
MENUSTRATION IN ALMOST A MONTH. WE USE
PROTECTION EVERYTIME. THE CONDOM DIDN'T
BURST, AND I DONT EVEN BURST INSIDE OF THE
CONDOM , SO I NEED HELP. IF ANY WOMEN OUT
THERE HAVE GONE THROUGH THIS OR KNOW AN
INFO THAT I NEED PLEASE HELP.
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carvytaph
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Aug 2003 Posts: 87 Location: Pennsylvania
pregancy Posted: 08-02-03 06:49am
Is she usually regular in her cycles?
Stress and anxiety can play big parts in
the tardiness of a women's period. If
she, also, is very worried about the
possibility of being pregnant, she will be
late. If this really upsets you, I would
recommend taking a test. It's always
better to be safe than sorry.
"...there is a reason for everything..."
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msunlucky
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2003 Posts: 5 Location: missouri
relax Posted: 08-02-03 09:38am
i know exactly what your g/f is going
through. i myself have been so stressed
out that it caused to me start a few days
later then normal. i was so worried i was
prego it wasnt even funny. i had slept
with my ex b/f while already on my period
figuring i couldnt get prego. when i didnt
start on time i nearly had a heart attack.
but i ended up just starting a tad bit
late but everything was fine. my manager
at work has gone through the same thing as
well. she was 2 MONTHS late due to her
stress levels. this is something that does
happen and you shouldnt sweat it out so
much. if you want to be 100% sure that
everything is ok....take a test or see a
doctor. wait until she is 5-7 days late
though. sometimes things are just delayed.
best of luck!
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Rebakah
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2003 Posts: 21 Location: florida
Posted: 08-02-03 15:49pm
sweetie go get a test if she is a month
late then you will be able to test for
pregnancy. Or better yet have her go to
the doctors office and get one. Chances
are if you did not ejaculate in her and
wore a condom she is probably not pregnant
and its just stress. If you have never
ejaculated inside her and she is pregnant
(and you use a condom on top of the fact
you didnt ejaculate inside her) then I
would be very leary and definately wanna
find out if she has perhaps had
intercourse with another who wasnt so
careful... just some ideas.
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Misty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 52 Location: Nova Scotia
Stress And Anxiety Posted: 08-12-03 10:47am
Stress and anxiety - if the condom didn't
burst and you didn't go inside of it then
think logically there is no way for her to
be pregnant is there? If shes stressing
about this then she's going to worry
herself so much that she is either going
to skip all together or be late - if
you've got the money to buy a box of
condoms then you must have enough to buy a
test to make sure! Good luck
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Chill Out! Posted: 10-07-03 09:25am
She wont b. Anyway, if u have to panic
like this, u aint responsible enough to be
getting jiggy in the first place!
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Farah
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Joined: 03 Oct 2003 Posts: 201
Posted: 10-07-03 11:22am
I would get a test so you'll know, but
more than likely her cycle's just being
weird.
That happened once to me but I didnt worry
to much because my periods were very
irregular....But then we stopped using
protection and even thogh he never went
inside im still pregnant...A little comes
out anyways during the act....And its just
enough to get you pregnant. So take a
test and always use protection!!!
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Farah
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2003 Posts: 201
Posted: 10-07-03 14:43pm
Please don't worry that your girlfriend
has been cheating on you. It is possible
for precum to get through a condom if it
is not put on 100% correctly. If her
period is late, more than likely it's just
stress that's causing it. Go to planned
parenthood with her and have her take a
test. Then you guys will know. While
you're there, you should probably get her
on some birth control. These two methods
together will ensure you not having a baby
until you're both ready.