Hey!!! I am not trying to be mean or rude
or hurt anyones feelings. I am 21 and I
got preg. At 16 and had my child by the
ripe old age of 17. I just want all of
you to know that I love my child, I
would't exchange him for the world. But,
I had him way to young. Please start
using protection and get on some kind of
birth control. It would solve so many
problems. You wouldn't be here on this
site if you didn't have a problem, and was
scared, and worried. Be young and have
fun. Live your life to the fullest before
you have to raise a child. It is really
hard.
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 11-20-03 15:02pm
By the time most girls come here they
already have a problem. You can pound it
into their head as much as you want that
they need protection but eventually it
becomes futile and useless. They are
going to do what they want and it is our
job not to judge these girls and lecture
them but to help them in their time of
need when they've made mistakes. All we
can hope is that they learn from them.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-20-03 15:11pm
Im with tanya. You can tell these girls
as many times as the days in the year but
they do what they want. And they have to
learn the hard way. Im 20 and im enjoyin
what I can. Even though im married, its
ok. I would love to lecture every
teenager in the world about it, but they
are as more def than anything. They have
selective hearing. We say "no sex
please!" they hear..."sex?" lol its true.
But its good you learned and you want to
let them know its hard! Good job!
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bellybluesun
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2003 Posts: 34 Location: Georgia
Posted: 11-21-03 14:13pm
Thanks. I wish that I could talk to any
girl who is in the process of making the
decision to become sexually active. I
know what its like. I am so familiar with
the thought process. I just want them to
use the proper protection before they get
into a bad situation. Please send me a pm
if you have any questions. I might be
able to offer help. Some times just
listening to a situation can be a big
help.
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
Posted: 11-21-03 15:05pm
You can talk to them!!!! I spent the day
at my 14 year olds brothers school today
doing sessions! Its a junior high/high
school so I talked to so many different
people and the looks in their eyes really
showed that they were definitely having
second thoughts of having sex so young :d
