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thegarin04
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Joined: 25 Jul 2005
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Location: Arizona
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Miscarraige
Posted: 07-25-05 14:30pm
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My girlfriendand have been having sex for
quite some time. A couple of time without
a condoms but I barly penatrated her.
Last night I had sex with her again and
the condom broke I am very scared and so
is she. She is 15 and I am 17. Her last
relationship she had she got pregnant but
about two months in she had a miscarriage
and just told me about it. Is it possible
for her to get pregnant again after she
has already had a miscarriage ???? Please
read and get back to me im scared and I
want to know......... Im thinking about
asking her to marry me so!!!!! What
should I do??? :(
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poohbear101
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Posted: 07-25-05 16:15pm
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Yes it is possible to get pregnant again
after you have a miscarriage. How long
ago did she have it? If it was just
recently she really shouldn't get pregnant
again because her body needs time to heal.
And I don't mean to preach or anything
but if you're scared that the condom broke
why are you having sex unprotected? It
doesn't matter if you barely penetrated
her or not she can still get pregnant from
precum, its a slight chance but still
possible. And also known of my business I
know, but isn't 15 and 17 a little young
to be getting married? You guys are
young, have fun for sure but be smart
about it.
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thegarin04
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Location: Arizona
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Posted: 07-27-05 12:15pm
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Well I think she told it was about 4 or
maybe 5 months ago that she had her
miscarriage... But is that long enough
for her to heal???? Or is it long
enough??? Can you help me on this she
also hasnt had her period this month but
she also doenst get it every 3 or 4 weeks
like everyone else more like every 5 or 6
weeks and the last one was at the
begginning june or maybe end of may thanx
for the info... And we have decided to
stop having sex altogether for the sake of
school and work and our
futures....Together!!!!!
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 07-27-05 12:19pm
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It is really super easy to get preg.
Right after miscarriage. Don't know if 4
or 5 months is "right after"
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thegarin04
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Posted: 07-27-05 12:24pm
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Are you telling me that 4 or 5 months is
long enough for her to heal after what had
happened!!!!
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 07-27-05 13:12pm
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Where from az--we just moved from prescott
az.
Anyway you shouldn't really have to worry
about her health unless she is a sickly
type of person. I was like preg 9 times
in less than 6 years. Every 2 months
preg again.
If you want the baby don't worry she'll do
fine. If you dont then thats what id be
worried about. I dont believe in
abortion but there is always adoption.
If you want her to be preg that is great,
you say you'd like to ask her to marry
you--that's great.
Try not to make her think it's cuz she
preg though (even if it is) she will like
it better.
Does she like you the same??
Best of luck az
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thegarin04
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Location: Arizona
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Posted: 07-27-05 13:21pm
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Fort mohave az is where we live but anyway
abortion is out of the question she and I
both wont do it and we dont really want
the baby but there is nothing I can
do!!!!! As in asking her to marry me if
she is pregnant I already told her I am
going to ask but I also told her about a
two weeks ago that if im sure she the one
I am going to ask so...
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fatfamily02
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poohbear101
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Posted: 07-27-05 14:28pm
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4 or 5 months should be long enough to
heal yes. If you guys are worried have
her take a hpt. If its negative wait a
week and then test again if its still a
neg result have her go to the doctor.
Maybe she can go on the pill to help
regulate her periods and to help prevent
her getting pregnant.
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thegarin04
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Posted: 07-27-05 16:02pm
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Thanx for the help but all I can do now is
wait and be scared to death till we know
for sure!!!! We take another test in a
week so I guess well find out ill keep
this updated through out her pregnancy if
she is wish me the best of luck!!!!
Garin
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Mirth
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Posted: 07-29-05 08:31am
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| thegarin04
wrote: | thanx for the help but all I
can do now is wait and be scared to death
till we know for sure!!!! We take
another test in a week so I guess well
find out ill keep this updated through
out her pregnancy if she is wish me the
best of luck!!!!
Garin |
i miscarried last month & i'm 90% sure
I am again so its possible. I think its
fantastic that you are so concerned about
her.
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thegarin04
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Location: Arizona
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Posted: 08-01-05 12:00pm
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Still no signs of pregnancy and and we
havent taken another test yet should we be
worried or happy. I mean I am happy that
there are no signs but I am also worried
that she is and may be pregnant and show
no signs...What do we do. She said she
doesnt feel pregnant and she is not
showing any signs am I supposed to say she
is not pregnant.!!!How late do signs of
pregnancy start??????Dammit im scared!!!!
Help
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thegarin04
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Location: Arizona
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Posted: 08-01-05 12:00pm
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Still no signs of pregnancy and and we
havent taken another test yet should we be
worried or happy. I mean I am happy that
there are no signs but I am also worried
that she is and may be pregnant and show
no signs...What do we do. She said she
doesnt feel pregnant and she is not
showing any signs am I supposed to say she
is not pregnant.!!!How late do signs of
pregnancy start??????Dammit im scared!!!!
Help
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thegarin04
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Location: Arizona
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Posted: 08-03-05 16:45pm
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Still confused any help will do??? What
can cause a miscarriage??? And how will
you know if you have one or not!!!???
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