I really like this guy jeff, but he is
going out with my friend. And also I
don't know if he likes me!!! I don't want
to tell him how I feel, but its really
hard to keep it inside :cry: should I tell
him how I feel about him????
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 07-25-05 22:09pm
No, I wouldn't, not if he is seeing one of
your "friends" to me that would not make
you very good friends, or at least I would
not think so but I guess we are all
different, I feel what comes around, goes
around, and he may not like you that well
and how would that make you feel?
Good luck with whatever you decide to do!
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 383
Posted: 07-25-05 22:27pm
I think its great when a person has enough
courage to tell someone that they're into
them, however in this situation I don't
think you should. He's dating one of your
friends, think about that. Isn't your
friendship more important than some guy?
And you don't even know if he likes you
that way. If you said something and he
didn't feel the same that would just make
it uncomfortable between the two of you
and your friend is going to pick up that
something isn't right. He may even tell
her and then what? Most guys make it
clear if they are into a girl and you can
usually tell the difference whether its
just friends or something more and I don't
mean to sound like a b*tch which is
probably how i'm going to come off as but
if he felt the same for you as you do him,
wouldn't he be with you instead of your
friend? It's up to you whatever you
decide but i'd wait and see what happens.
If things don't work out between him and
your friend maybe then you could tell him.
Good luck.
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 08-08-05 10:26am
I personaly feel you should be true to
yourself. Tell the guy. Yes friends are
friends forever if it is a true friend.
She should understand. Maybe she doesn't
even feel the same way about him. There
is only one way to find out.
Don't tell him.It's meaningless. And that
may damage your relationship
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Jordan H
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jun 2005 Posts: 74 Location: Calgary, AB, Canada
Posted: 08-08-05 10:59am
I think that you should talk to your
friend first. See what she has to say
about it. You have to be true to
yourself, but respect your friend enough
not to blind side her by it, who knows,
she may just not be into him like you are
and tell you to go for it :)
