Joined: 25 Jul 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Salinas California
Boyfriend Left Me... <\3 Posted: 07-25-05 23:52pm
Hi, my names leah. I live in salinas ca,
(which thats not so far from san jose).
Im pretty new here, and I need some love
advice on my behalf.
My ex boyfriend now, his names isaiah, and
he left me for talking to guys. The thing
that sucks is hes in my algebra class in
summer school right now. Tomorrows our
last day and hes going to a different
school, but still in the city. He first
told me that he was leaving because of me.
But that all changed when I asked him
later on through the week. Of coarse the
guys I were talking to were only friends,
and I never cheated or kissed another guy
when I was dating him. But now I cant do
anything about it, he completely ignores
me and my friends whenever we try and talk
to him. I gave up and stopped talking to
him, and ignored him and tried having fun,
but my mood mostly went down when I saw
him. He was talking to another girl in my
class today, and he even asked her for her
# and if she had a boyfriend. I never did
that to him when we were together and
apart. Why is he doing this to me?..Ive
only wanted him..And to love him...But its
all over..I feel like I can just die out
of my wits, and forget about ever living
without his love again. He was so sweet
and kind, but turned into a real jerk when
he left me. Im just confused, and all I
wanted was to get him back..Tomorrows
probably my last day seeing him. What
should I do??
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xXVTeh SadnessVXx
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Joined: 25 Jul 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Salinas California
Posted: 07-25-05 23:55pm
:cry: :cry: :( :(
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xXVTeh SadnessVXx
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Joined: 25 Jul 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Salinas California
Posted: 07-25-05 23:57pm
*le sigh* I suppose theres noone out there
to give up some advice.. :(
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justacanadiangirl
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Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
Posted: 07-26-05 03:34am
I don't think there really is anything u
can do. I know I wouldnt want to try to
get a guy back who left me for something
so small as talking to other guys....
Good luck though. I hope all goes well.
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-26-05 15:14pm
I totally agree with justacanadiangirl, if
hes goign to break up with you over that
why do you want him back?
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Glamorgirli
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Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 193 Location: Michigan
Posted: 07-26-05 16:01pm
Screw him there are a lot greater guys out
there then that thunder penis out there
thats breaking up with you because you
were only talking to other guys! You dont
need a guy that is going to be controlling
like that...Whats next? Telling you what
type of lipstick you can ware?
I know its hard to let go, he hurt your
heart, and why would you want to give him
another chance just to stomp all over it
again its ridiculous! Not seeing him is
actually better, it helps you get over
him. (listening to frankee- furb helps
also)
i have two books for you to read:
-he's not that into you (this one is
wonderful)
-mr right right now- its not totally on
how to get a guy its about gaining
confidence and it really helps!
Just please don't give him another chance
for him to hurt you again and if he ever
wants you back. Tell him to f-off. It
feels so empowering, knowing that you had
the upper hand.
You are probably to good for him anyways!
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xXVTeh SadnessVXx
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Joined: 25 Jul 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Salinas California
Thanks For Your Help Posted: 07-26-05 18:57pm
I feel much better knowing that I have to
let go, it hurts, but ill be fine as long
as I have fun, thanks everyone for your
advice! <3<3
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babysqueeze
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Joined: 20 Aug 2005 Posts: 8 Location: los angeles
Posted: 08-20-05 16:05pm
Abscence makes the heart grow fonder,
trust me if if he really moves, and u
don't call him, he will. My bf and I are
in the same class, he broke up with me
because he said I was flirting with this
guy that I didn't even like. Anyways
during the summer vacation I didn't call
him not even once, 1 week later he
called, and I pretended to be having fun,
and he will call once a week. So anyways
when we went back to school, he kept
looking at me and he finally told me he
misses me so he wants me back so we got
back after a week. Well, good luck to u.
abscence makes the heart
grow fonder, trust me if if he really
moves, and u don't call him, he will. My
bf and I are in the same class, he broke
up with me because he said I was flirting
with this guy that I didn't even like.
Anyways during the summer vacation I
didn't call him not even once, 1 week
later he called, and I pretended to be
having fun, and he will call once a week.
So anyways when we went back to school,
he kept looking at me and he finally told
me he misses me so he wants me back so we
got back after a week. Well, good luck
to u.
this thread is gay! He
left you because he realised how stupid
you are! He also left because he too
realised how much of a medged person he is
because of doing this! Medged! Argh!
Argh!
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 09-08-05 16:55pm
Ignore fa18hornet, he is a short, angry,
bitter, 15 year old boy who thinks himself
intelligent.
Just ignore the upset child.
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SuziON
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Joined: 06 Sep 2005 Posts: 25 Location: Welland
Move On Posted: 09-09-05 08:06am
I hope that you're doing okay? As for
your ex, ignore him, he's acting childish
and only talked to that other girl to make
you jealous. It also sounds like he has
issues with abandonment that are not your
issues. Trust me, you don't want anything
to do with this guy or you'll have issues
too. It's best that you let him go and
who knows maybe in the future when he's
more mature or has dealt with his issues
things might be different. Hey, i'm with
my first boyfriend after 15 years apart
and we'll be married next year in our 4th
year back together! So anything is
possible. But as for now, move on, you
desserve so much better and there's a lot
more fish in the sea.
Take care!
Suzi
ignore fa18hornet, he is a
short, angry, bitter, 15 year old boy who
thinks himself intelligent.
Just ignore the upset
child.
short, yes. Angry, no.
Bitter, no. 15-years-old, yes.
Intelligent (especially for my age), a
definite yes. Upset, no. A child, no,
because i'm a teenager.
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 09-26-05 18:44pm
fa18hornet
wrote:
vanessalouanne
wrote:
ignore fa18hornet, he is a
short, angry, bitter, 15 year old boy who
thinks himself intelligent.
Just ignore the upset
child.
Intelligent (especially for my age), a
definite yes. Upset, no. A
child, no, because i'm a
teenager.
keep telling yourself
that.
you might have seen me in
the streets but ni**a you don't know me...
Lol so, why don't you just stop
talking about things you think you know.
Clinical studies have proven that
psychological damage is just as hazardes
as physical damage. So, my educated
guess would be that rather than just
admitting that there's no god and the big
bang is real you also cannot admit that
i'm more intellectual than you are.
Afterall, is being intellectual in
relation to accepting (the) facts or is it
in relation to being ignorant to reality?
The answer is the first one. You
obviously cannot handle the truth, but
then again psychological damage can really
f*ck up one's life. Thus, you have
most likely been brainwashed.
Seriously, it seems as though you're
ashamed to admit that a so-called kid,
15-year-old is able to use the mind more
creatively than you can. Not
intellectual, huh?! C'mon! You're
talking to a 10th grader who has proven
that the big bang is real and the biblical
god, jehova doesn't exist. I have
noticed the truth through reasonable and
logical thinking with a bit of research to
back it up. There's no stopping me now
for I have revealed what has always been
there. You wanna know why/how the big
bang is real and the biblical god, jehova
doesn't nor has never existed? Well
guess what, you can choose to read it or
not because whether you like it or not
it's coming up in my next post.
Mwoha...
Ps: scientists claim it as a theory, but
what did I mean be mentioning the word
"proven"? Like I said, the answer has
always been there. Scientists only go
after the facts which leads to absolutely
no stopping to just say "wait a minute,
let's put some 'reason and logic' into
this, shall we?". Seriously, if they
knew what I know it would be called "the
big bang", not "the big bang theory".
They also would have made it
internationally public. So, get ready
for my next post! Hehehehe... Ok,
fine! I'm gonna place it on here
tomorrow caz i'm goin' to bed now.
It's almost 12:10 am and I need at least 8
hours of sleep, eh? Plus it's healthy
and everyone needs it. Yet again,
another thing the adult world is ignornat
to. Peace out!
For the 1987 film by picha, see the big
bang (1987 film)
according to the big bang theory, the
universe originated in an extremely dense
and hot state (bottom). Since then,
space itself has expanded with the passage
of time, carrying the galaxies with it.
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according to the big bang theory, the
universe originated in an extremely dense
and hot state (bottom). Since then,
space itself has expanded with the passage
of time, carrying the galaxies with it.
In physical cosmology, the big bang is the
scientific theory that the universe
emerged from an enormously dense and hot
state nearly 14 billion years ago. The
big bang is a consequence of the observed
hubble's law velocities of distant
galaxies that when taken together with the
cosmological principle implies that space
is expanding according to the friedmann
model of general relativity.
Extrapolated into the past, these
observations show that the universe has
expanded from a primeval state, in which
all the matter and energy in the universe
was at an immense temperature and density.
Physicists do not widely agree on what
happened before this, although general
relativity predicts a gravitational
singularity.
The term big bang is used both in a narrow
sense to refer to a point in time when the
observed expansion of the universe
(hubble's law) began—calculated to be
13.7 billion (1.37 × 1010) years
ago—and in a more general sense to refer
to the prevailing cosmological paradigm
explaining the origin and expansion of the
universe, as well as the composition of
primordial matter through nucleosynthesis
as predicted by the alpher-bethe-gamow
theory.
One consequence of the big bang is that
the conditions of today's universe are
different from the conditions in the past
or in the future. From this model,
george gamow in 1948 was able to predict
the existence of cosmic microwave
background radiation (cmb). The cmb was
discovered in the 1960s and served as a
confirmation of the big bang theory over
its chief rival, the steady state
theory.
Proving the big bang (theory)
here's my logic (on this): now, this all
leaves one question: how did all of that
denseness and hotness get there?
Answer: it's there because it's the stuff
the universe is made up of or the result
of what the universe is made up of.
Think about it, if the cosmic explosion
(the big bang) occured due to all of this
denseness and hotness, the denseness and
hotness would've always been there. It
would've always been there because in
order to create something new you'd need
something (the stuff the universe is made
up of) in order to create something new
(the denseness and hotness). So, in
order for the denseness and hotness to get
powered up in order to cause the
explosion, it would need that something
(the stuff the universe is made up of) in
order to create the new something (the
denseness and hotness). Make any sense?
The answer is by all accounts a yes.
Now, we have a universe that's made up of
denseness and hotness or something that
can create denseness and hotness, correct?
So, in order to have this, the
denseness and hotness like i've said a few
rows back would always have to be there.
Now, since this denseness and hotness is
at a constant rate of powering up, the big
bang would always be going off. Thus,
the big bang is (infact) real. Hence,
the big bang is repetative. Hence, the
universe is eternal. In other words,
the universe has no beginning nor end.
The universe is nothing more than a
constant start or a never-ending
beginning. You should catch my drift on
this. Anyhow, there's your answer to
the universe. It really does amaze me
how no scientist has ever thought of this
(conclusion). Because if there was any
who actually have, wouldn't they've made
it public? Afterall, an obvious fact of
this magnitude would be... You know
what? I don't even know what to say.
Sorry, but by all means these people
(scientists and the like) should have
known this. I'm 15-years-old, living
with my parents and in high school and the
only thing it took me to figure this out
was a bit of reasonable and logical
thinking. Seriously, what makes more
sense? The denseness and hotness always
being there, or the universe just being
itself and then bam... Now there's all
of this denseness and hotness. Hell,
even for the least of things it would make
complete and explicit sense that the
denseness would've always been there.
If that bam were to happen the hotness
could have been unleashed, but that
doesn't make sense either, and we all know
why. Plus, even if the theory of
gravitational singularity were true the
gravity would've had to unleash not only
denseness, but hotness as well due to the
fact that denseness and hotness or
something that can create denseness and
hotness is what the universe is made up
of. You all know what I mean. I've
made my point.
Disproving the biblical god, jehova
the biblical god, jehova doesn't exist
contrary to the big bang. God claims to
be eternal, but that doesn't matter
considering how, well...
Now, god's handed down language was
hebrew. God is all-knowing and
omnipotent so it wouldn't matter what
kinda langauge he chose to hand down to
his creation, the humans. Anyhow, the
definition of "day" in hebrew means a
twenty-four hour period. God,
considering hebrew is his (original)
language would agree. Now, it wouldn't
matter if god handed it (the hebrew
langauge) down or some of the people who
formed from gene activity from evolution
thought of it themselves. It wouldn't
matter because if these certain people who
formed from gene activity from evolution
did think of it themselves (which they did
because it's quite obvious) they would've
figured out that there are twenty-four of
these periods of time that passes
throughout (the) evening until the end of
(the) morning. [genesis 1:5] "and god
called the light day, and the darkness he
called night. And the evening and the
morning were the first day." here, he only
mentions how "light" is what you would
call "day" and how "darkness" is what you
would call "night". That of which of
coarse means that in the day there's light
so we can see and at night there's not.
Evening and morning, huh? Split them in
two and what do you get? You get two
twelve-hour periods, correct? One of
which so we (humans) can re-energise
(spend most of this twelve-hour period
sleeping; perhaps god has given us an
extra four hours incase we didn't get
enough sleep or just felt like sleeping
in) and the other so we can do our daily
or day-to-day routine, if not just have
god treat us like slaves and follow his
every command while only featuring women
so the species could continue so god could
execute in even more slavery treatment
(this last one I meant in reference to the
bible, if you know what I mean). So,
the evening plus the morning is what makes
a day. Hence, the evening plus the
morning add up to twenty-four hours.
Thus, a day is a day. Now, the gmt
(greenwich mean time; time zones) was
created because by this time or point in
history we knew or just had real good
reason to believe due to evidence
supporting this theory that the earth
rotates. I mentioned the word "knew"
and then the part about it being only a
theory because I havn't done enough
research yet to confirm such claims.
Sir sanford fleming started the gmt by
using hours. I also have yet to find
information telling me that fleming
started the gmt with hours because he got
it out of the bible. But it should be
obvious, eh? So yeah, like I said, I
still have a bit of research to do. So,
the big bang being a fact shows there's no
biblical god, jehova. In another sense,
there never has nor will there ever be a
god! The big bang is real. Hence,
evolution is real.
Meh, what's even the point in doing more
research? I've proven that a day is a
day. About 6,500 years isn't the same
as 13.7 billion years. No, you see, if
you were to think that by all accounts you
would not only be a person, you'd also be
an fool.
I never asked if anyone cared or not, the
truth just needs to be told. I'm
leavin' now. I'll come back in about a
month or two to check up on things.
Venessa is a psychologically damaged,
retarded b*tch who finds it impossible to
do things that are nothing more than easy
for real intellectual and mature people.
Oh yeah, you're were saying that one
doesn't need to prove a point if they
really are mature, right? Well, you
see, one who is mature accepts (the) facts
rather than feeble beliefs. I'm a
confident person, so don't judge. Um,
it tells not to judge in the bible. So,
this just proves how much your screaming
hypocrisy.
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Doolittle
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Joined: 02 Oct 2005 Posts: 9 Location: Pakistan
Posted: 10-02-05 05:23am
Dear miss,
plz remember one thing... There are some
ppl who just don't deserve the
companionship of a sincere soul.... You
never cheated on him but the way he acted
shows that he never trusted you in the
first place and had reservations in his
mind... If a relation is built with the
foundation stone of trust, it falls as
soon... So its better to know that he was
not worth you now than in later part of
life... I wish god gives you a companion
that is worthy of your love and
sincerity...
Stay happy and smiling,
regards,
doctor
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SomeGuy333
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Joined: 08 Apr 2005 Posts: 49
Posted: 10-02-05 17:13pm
Ok fa18hornet you should really stop
trying to prove how smart you are, you
simply quote from an encyclopedia about a
theory that was thought up and you think
they actually proved that everything was
once a large mass. They cannot prove
anything that happened before existance of
life.
Please stop driving things off topic and
leave us forever.
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