Need Advice - Oral Issues Posted: 07-26-05 15:04pm
Hi, newbie here. I need some advice from
the dudes.
I love my boyfriend and we have a
wonderful sex life. But I just cannot
bring myself to go down on him. I don't
mind the smell (women aren't the only ones
with a particular fragrance down south),
but I do not like how he tastes most of
the time. He is uncircumcised and the
foreskin traps urine, semen, sweat, etc,
making it extremely unpleasant. If he is
fresh out of the shower, I will, but never
any other time. I once surprised him by
going down on him, and I got a nasty
wake-up call: the head was still wet with
urine and it about made me vomit.
I don't know how to tell him this is the
reason I won't go down on him. I always
make sure I am clean and fresh when he
goes south on me.
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Arlington, TX
Squirrley Posted: 07-26-05 21:53pm
Simple......... Tell him what you are
telling us. If the relationship is
solid, then he should listen and respect
your concerns, or no more head.
You indicated you keep yourself clean, so
should he.
Good luck! :wink:
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squirrely
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jul 2005 Posts: 3
Posted: 07-29-05 09:37am
Thanks. I just don't want to kill the
mood or anything. I think he has an
inkling; he never asks for it anymore. I
feel bad, but i'm afraid I will just blurt
it out next time he wants me to, or I will
give obvious signs i'm not having a good
time. *sigh* what fun is that?
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theman
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2005 Posts: 77 Location: South Wales, United Kingdom
Posted: 07-29-05 14:27pm
As was previously said, if the
relationship is strong enough then just
tell him and it should be fine! He should
understand. But remember, rarely does
semen actually taste nice, so you do have
to be prepared for a certain bad taste
whenever you do anything like that.
