Hi, newbie here :-) i'm sure this has been asked before but instead of searching and feeling like a lurker I wish to just be blunt and ask. Be gentle :-)
i'm on birth control, never miss it, pretty healthy. Always used condoms when in relationships. Never been in a serious relationship where I can grasp an orgasim......Ever.......Until now.
My bf and I started out with condoms latex as poly have a curse of breaking on me (i was not always on bc so condoms were a 100% must) with the latex we have tried durex, lifestyles, trojan, you name it....He loses himself or I dry up.......Even with lubrications. Eventually teasing got to us playing without a condom and last night was our first adventure (remember the grasping the orgasm with a man first time ever) ok....He did pull out.
My typical question would be: on the pill, how safe am I if we use the pull out method? Pre-cum chances of impregnating me? Basically fill me in here. I am on the ortho try cyclin (spelling I think?)
or other options to try as poly does not work and latex makes me rough, raw, itch, and cranky...
I thank you all for your response.