Joined: 27 Jul 2005 Posts: 116 Location: rhode island
So Confussed Feeling Lonely Posted: 07-27-05 13:40pm
:( I was with my babys father for almost
5 monts..(dec-april)...The end of feb. I
noticed I didnt get my peirod...So I
waited n then the end of march I took a
preg test... It came back pos..I was
extremly happy...Like more then ever...I
had some one I loved to death n a baby on
da way...But then everything changed..My
babys father whos 21...Had turned around n
told me he couldnt do this...N he needed
time...This was 3 months ago im now 23
weeks...I talked to him 2 times after that
n his words were ill give u the money to
get rid of this thing...N it hurt...I love
him to death still n cry fo him at
night...Im gonna be 17 in aug...But I dont
no wha to do...I want to talk to him but
he has charges on me now..So I cant...I
just want to tell him I love him n beable
to have him in his sons life...At the
begin. He was happy n then everything
turned around I dont no what to do...If I
should leave him be n let him come back
or...Idk im so confussed id just like a
lil advice u can e-mail me hunnie4life143@wmconnect.Com or im me
at thugish420babe thank u I appreacte this
alot...~*~lonelytears~*~
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justacanadiangirl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
Posted: 07-27-05 14:02pm
I'm sorry for ur hurt hun, but I have to
say, it doesn't sound like he's gonna come
around to the idea of having a baby. All
u can really do know is think, can u keep
the baby? Or should u have it adopted?
And if ur gonna keep it, then u need to
have the funds to support the baby. If u
can't support the child on ur own then ur
going to need to make sure u can get child
support from him. Good luck. I'm here to
talk if u need to.
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loneytearz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2005 Posts: 116 Location: rhode island
Posted: 07-27-05 14:43pm
Yeaaa...Thanks fo the advice...I choose to
keep him from the beginnen...I cant see
haven to give a baby up thats grown inside
me for 9 months..Its just hard but I
apprecate it thank u very very much
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vanessalouanne
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2005 Posts: 2268 Location: ,
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Posted: 07-27-05 15:11pm
Check out your local support agencys.
You need to apply for .W.I.C and if need
be get on welfare. Im not a big fan of
this but whatever is needed to make sure
the baby is safe and healthy. You need
to for sure take this guy to court and get
him to pay child support. Hey if he
doesnt want to be a part of you and this
baby's life then he doesnt deserve to be.
Youll find someone who will adore you
both and that will be better for both of
you in the long run. Sounds like this
guy is just a little boy himself. Best
of luck to you, be strong for your baby
and know that your probably to good for
this guy anyways.
