Hi - hope this is the right section of the
forum, sorry if it's not.
My bf wanted to try anal sex and I didn't
want to but then I thought well what the
hell...We were in the shower and after
literally the first second I told him to
stop... I had never felt that much pain,
I almost fainted and my vision went blurry
and I had to crouch down to the floor to
prevent myself from falling. I felt like
throwing up and I couldn't stand up.
I didn't think it would be that bad! What
the hell happened there? Does this happen
to anyone?
My bf's after-quote: "the porn stars make
it look so easy!"
just wondering why that happened ;|
thanks.
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Tylanas
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jul 2005 Posts: 12985
Thanks: 3
Thanked:0
Posted: 07-27-05 18:48pm
Well you may have been going too fast, and
not stretched yourself open enough.
That's probably what was wrong in your
case, since a shower certainly supplies
enough lubrication!
If you feel like trying again, have yout
bf stretch you more slowly, starting with
a finger or two and working up to three,
which is usually the width of an average
penis.
The first time I had anal, it hurt very
badly the first time he got inside of me.
I pushed him away, and he let me lay there
for a few moments until the pain subsided.
We tried again, and this time it didn't
hurt half as much, and felt very good.
Good luck! Doen right, anal sex is very
enjoyable!
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avery
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2005 Posts: 11
Posted: 07-27-05 21:26pm
Thank youu... Mm I think the problem was
is that he thought it would be painless
and easy... He just jumped right on in
>.< ugh.
Anyway, thanks again.. Hopefully if i'm
brave enough to try again it won't be as
bad.
