I recently went to a local strip club that
is fairly reputable and very clean. I've
never heard of anybody getting the dancers
to perform sex acts with them or anything.
I got a fully nude lap dance.. I was
wearing my jeans and underwear (briefs)
and she wore nothing. The dancer seemed
pretty professional about the whole thing
. Before the private dance she clearly
stated that there would be no kissing,
sucking, or licking and that I could touch
her anywhere except her private areas.
The dance lasted for one song, approx 3-5
minutes and it consisted of her doing a
little teasing dance routine and a little
grinding on my crotch. I touched her
legs, breasts (very briefly) and back. I
never came into contact with her vagina or
anus; I never felt any wetness of any kind
seeping through my clothes or on my hands
either. When I got home I could smell
the faint smell of her "womanhood" and her
perfume on my pants. I checked the
underwear in my hamper a few days later to
see if I could smell her on them but they
all smelled the same (i.E. I couldn’t
detect her odor on them) so i'm guessing
(and hoping) that nothing got through my
clothes. For the record I don’t
normally smell my underwear. In any
case, do you think that I am at risk for
hiv? Additionally I had a small cut on
my wrist from the day before that was
neither open nor bleeding to my knowledge.
I'm pretty sure it was well sealed. Is
it possible that some infected fluids
could have gotten transferred to my cut
from me touching her body? I've been
freaking out for nearly two weeks and I
have to wait another month before I can
get tested and it sucks. Any feedback
would be helpful thank you.
