Joined: 29 Jul 2005 Posts: 53 Location: Washington
Surgeries Getting In the Way of Pregnancy? Posted: 07-29-05 00:46am
Hey everyone,
im a new member to this wonderful
invention and need some medical advice!
Well when I was 3 weeks old (i know a long
time ago) I had double hurnia surgery on
my ovaries. As a result the doctors told
said there was a chance I might no be able
to have children. Well here it is years
later I have a menstrual cycle and I
ovulate. Good signs for being able to
have children right? Well this is the
problem my fiancee and I are ready and
eager to have children, ive stopped my
birth control method and for the past
eight months we have been trying to have a
baby, but unfortunately we haven't had
even the slightest bit of luck:(!! My
fiancee and I are worried I might not be
able to have kids? Am I doing something
wrong? Why is this so difficult???
:cry:
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Rasberry Ripple
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jul 2005 Posts: 175 Location: uk
Posted: 07-30-05 06:12am
Persey, don't get upset. My boyfriends
mum was told she couldn't have children
and 10 years later, my fella came along,
two years later, a brother!
I am in a similar situation. I have had
problems with my ovaries for years and am
concerned that I won't be able to have
children but am now talking the line of
thought that it will happen when the time
is right. You aren't doing anything
wrong!
It's hard when you are trying to conceive
to think of anything other than getting
pregnant, and that is why I come on
here....Makes me feel like I am achieving
something and I am learning all the time.
I would suggest going to see your doctor
and discussing this situation with him.
I understand that they don't start looking
at possible problems until you've been
trying for a year or more (well thats how
it is in the uk).
Try taking a holiday, or something to
relax you.... Perhaps a break from the
norm is all you need.