Can anyone tell me how to just relax and
let a penis go into my ass? My boyfriend
really wants to do it, and I want to
please him in anyway that I can, I can
stick a small dildo in there without a
problem, but he is really big, so is there
any suggestions?
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philasheo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Nov 2003 Posts: 12 Location: vbva
Anal Sx Posted: 11-22-03 16:17pm
Whn I first did this with my wife I
discovered if she beared down like going
to the bathroom it allowed easier access.
Make sure yr guy doesnt rush or try and
push in too soon. It will cause you some
pain if you arent prepared. Also use ky
jelly or some other type of lube to help
in yr bf entry. The most important thing
is to have yr bf go slow so you have chnce
to receive him without pain. Take care
and goood luck.
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steve721
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Nov 2003 Posts: 1 Location: annapolis
Posted: 11-22-03 18:48pm
If you have access to an aduly bookstore
where they sell creams and lotions, you
might want to try "anal eaze". It's a
cream that you apply to your ass . It
will relax the muscles temporary for easy
entry..Lol
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want2bmom
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2003 Posts: 4 Location: Washington
B Careful Posted: 11-22-03 20:33pm
You may want to please your b/f by doing
whatever he wants but don't forget about
your own health. From a medical stand
point you need to be very careful
especially if he is big. Anal sex can
cause stretching or tearing of the anus
muscle that can make it harder to close
those muscles later in life (not a good
thing), not to mention cause you pain and
increase chances of hemeroids in the soft
tissue. It can also cause greater risk
for cancer in that area. You need to
weigh the pros and cons. Don't be bullied
or coerced if you really aren't sure about
it. If he loves you he will understand.
All in all if you do decide to do it make
sure and use lots of lubrication.
Astroglide is great. Good luck.
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xlala
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2003 Posts: 38 Location: Vermont
Posted: 11-22-03 21:21pm
Thanks guys for the advice, and I know the
risks I am taking but I would do anything
for him.
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sonnetw
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Dec 2003 Posts: 3 Location: Ft Worth
Get a Little Help Posted: 12-18-03 21:07pm
My husband is large, I have found if I add
a vibrator to the equation and get myself
very turned on and relaxed the anal sex is
very pleasurable. Also ky jelly makes a
new warming lube,,, very nice!
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saturn24
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2003 Posts: 205 Location: Pittsburgh, Pa
Posted: 12-19-03 04:23am
Want2bemom
thanks for your message. I thought I was
the only person who was aware of the
health risks of anal sex. I personally
would not put my health at risk for
anyone, no matter how much I loved him.
Maybe you should ask him if he wants a big
fat dildo in his ass. If he says that he
would do it to please you then it would be
o.K to do the same for him.
Just my opinion though. But yeah, I
don't do that, but lube would probably
help.
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bootsie840
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Nov 2003 Posts: 113 Location: pennsylvainaia
Posted: 12-19-03 08:18am
Regardless of how much you care about
someone putting your health at risk is not
worth it, will he be willing to do the
same for you. I highly doubt it, your
going to end up with manymedical problems,
frankly I find that to be disgusting, your
ass is an exit not an entrance.
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NicoleF
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Dec 2003 Posts: 105 Location: canada
Posted: 12-29-03 20:03pm
I find that spooning makes entry alot
easier. Your anus isnt pulled apart, so
it makes it looser to enter.
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 1473 Location: Canada
Posted: 12-30-03 00:11am
Hey,
make him use tons of lube and so slowly at
it. Its helps me better when a guy
stickes a finger in. It feels really
good. If it hurts too much make him stop
and do something else
