Ok I found out im pregnant but I dont know
what to do I cant tell my parents they'll
send me away and if I have it I cant go
back 2 school. Im afraid if I have it
i'll never get into a good college and get
a good job what can I do and im only 16 my
boyfriends gonna be 19 what can I do?
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Pocket Angel
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2005 Posts: 241 Location: Thiells, New York
Posted: 08-01-05 18:40pm
Hi there!
Where in ny are you? I am in southern
ny. I am having my first baby, it is
unexpected. I am a little older than
you, 21, but if you need to talk to anyone
or if I can help in any way, please email
me at littl
evixen013@aol.Com
<3 jess
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christa33us
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Aug 2005 Posts: 104 Location: ohio
Posted: 08-04-05 00:13am
First of all you should sit down with your
parents and tell them. Pregnancy is not
the easiest thing to hide. There are
options but choosing to talk with your
parents might be best. And don't say
you won't get into a good college or a
good job because that is so not true.
This should make you want to strive harder
to get into a good school or a good job.
And you don't have to go to big time
college to get a great career. Thousands
of girls go through this everyday and
thousands already have and they have gone
to college and go onto good jobs. Right
now you need to take it one day at a time.
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mommy2brandon
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2005 Posts: 10 Location: new york
Posted: 08-04-05 08:12am
I went through the same thing as u only I
was 15 when I was pregnant 23 now. It is
very hard to go through exspeacially being
16 but I know u will get through it. I
think what u should do is tell a trusted
adult it dont have to be your parents.
Just someone u trust I told my mom cause I
was scared and shes my bestfriend and she
wasnt mad at me yeah a little disappointed
but I think every parent would be some
what disappointed. And I decided to have
a abortion but thats just me I wasnt ready
yet to be a mom and because my ex
boyfriend was a jerk he wouldnt be there
for us but everybody feels diffrent about
that. And yes u can still go to school
dont let people tell u cant stay in
school. If u ever need anybody to talk to
just e mail me mommy2brandon14212@yahoo.Com
everything will be ok.
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2ndtimemommy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2005 Posts: 3 Location: Michigan
Posted: 08-04-05 08:55am
I would sit down and tell your parents.
You may be surprised how they will handle
it. It will be tough at 1st, but they
will probably come around. It's amazing
how a baby can change things even for the
better. It is hard being a parent, but
believe me it is worth it. You will
always have someone who will love you
unconditionally. Give your parents a
chance to get use to the idea.
