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AAMMYY
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Aug 2005 Posts: 1 Location: QUEENSLAND
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Ceasarian Births
Posted: 08-03-05 09:05am
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Is there any one out there who has had
more than 3 ceasarians and has been
advised not 2 have any more children even
though u and ur babys are all healthy, or
any one who has had 2 ceasarians and was
advised 2 have another ceasarian with the
third pregnantcy
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Jordan H
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jun 2005 Posts: 74 Location: Calgary, AB, Canada
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Posted: 08-03-05 09:47am
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Hi guys, i'm sorry, I don't have any
answeres for ya right now, but while we
are on this topic I am hoping that someone
could explain the procedure for having a
c/s, my doctor told me that I am most
likely going to have to have one because
my birthing canal (or something) is too
narrow. This scares me to death.
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Jordan H
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jun 2005 Posts: 74 Location: Calgary, AB, Canada
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Posted: 08-03-05 10:50am
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Thanks for the info.. I think i'll go get
a second opinion :d
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Michelle0716
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Joined: 03 Aug 2005 Posts: 10 Location: Oshawa
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Posted: 08-03-05 15:03pm
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I totally agree with what ur doctor has
told u. I was in the same vote.. I first
got pregnant and had my first little one 5
years ago and I was told the exact same
thing. Then people started telling me not
to listen to him, that r bodies r made to
have babies, and it was them that was
totally wrong.
I ended up being way to narrow to deliver
her and she was premature!! They had to
end up during and emergancy c-section.
My advice to u is, listen to the doctor.
They told me that my little one could have
died when the chose that I had made. That
she could have gotten stuck and if that
was the case then there would have been
nothing that they could have done.
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Michelle0716
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Joined: 03 Aug 2005 Posts: 10 Location: Oshawa
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Posted: 08-03-05 19:45pm
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| pcforme
wrote: | | michelle0716
wrote: | | i totally agree with what ur
doctor has told
u. |
really? You know this woman's medical
history to tell her you agree with her
doctor? Do you know how many women
truly can't give birth because of a narrow
pelvis? You may have well been one of
these women, but facts back me up...
Most c/s are unnecessary. Your chance
at dying are higher in a c/s than natural
birth. But if you think getting a
second opinion from a doctor is stupid, no
wonder you were lied to so
easily. |
i really have no idea what ur problem is.
How many children do u have? Do u even
have ne experinence in that situation at
all??
Like I said before, I didn't listen and I
did try natural birth until something when
wrong. It was there afterwards that I
realized I should have listen. It could
have costed me my daughter. Just for the
one stupid mistake that I did, which u r
one of those people that r going to make
this person asking the question do. That
is all I am saying.
And just so u know. For one, it's not
narrow pelvic, its a narrow birth canal!
And yes, delivering a child with a narrow
birth canal is a lot more dangerous then a
c-section. I think u should be the one
that does a little more research before
replying to the question that she asked.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 08-04-05 07:08am
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I had a c-sec in june after 36 1/2 hours
of labour. I was fully dilated for 4
hours but my stubborn son's head was
malpositioned. The doc waited for him to
move and tried stuff to make him move but
nothing. If I had pushed him out he
could have snapped his neck. I cried and
felt like a total failure when they
suggested a c-sec but as my epidural
machine broke during my last 2 hours I
just wanted that baby out! Lol anyway I
was up and walking 12 hours later and feel
fine now. My scar is long as my son was
biggish but it's very low and you can't
see it even when i'm in my low rise thongs
so... My doc told me I should be able to
have a vaginal birth next time as it was a
position prob and not a prob with my body.
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Michelle0716
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Joined: 03 Aug 2005 Posts: 10 Location: Oshawa
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Posted: 08-04-05 07:22am
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| pcforme
wrote: | | michelle0716
wrote: | | it was there afterwards that
I realized I should have
listen. |
i bet your doctor told you all along you
would need a c/s. He sounds
wonderful... Really cared about your
birth plan, huh?
| michelle0716
wrote: | | for one, it's not narrow
pelvic, its a narrow birth
canal! |
wrong, but what else is new. @@
q: my doctor told me my pelvis is too
small to vaginally deliver a baby over
eight pounds. Is this true?
U keep going on about a narrow pelvis and
r even looking this info up. I will say
once again it"s not the pelvis!! It is
the birth canal that is too narrow and
yes, doctors can tell this when they do a
pap smear. What it is is that for some
reason some of ur insides stop growing at
a certain age. For some reason my birth
canal stoped growing and they said that it
was about the size that it would be in a
10 years old.
I am not telling this person not to get a
second opinion, all I am saying is if she
gets a second opinion from a doctor, and
he sayd the same thing, then for her not
to listen to either one of us and to go
with what they say.
There is just one thing that I don't
understand. If u think that c/s r so
dangerous, then u ovbiously have never had
one, so y r u on this type trying to give
everyone else advice??
A: no, the pelvis and the baby's head are
not fixed bone structures. During labor
the pelvis opens, allowing room for the
baby, whose head molds to fit. The
pelvis will actually open up 33% larger
than it's pre-pregnant size with a
squatting position. There are several
factors that contribute to this. First a
hormone called relaxin is released during
the latter part of pregnancy which soften
the ligaments and cartilage surrounding
the pelvis. Also different positions
assumed during labor will change the
dimensions of the pelvis such as walking,
climbing stairs and squatting. This
combined with the flexibility of the
baby's head gives ample room for babies to
move through the pelvis. The baby's head
is made up of five plates that are
connected with soft tissues that allow it
to mold during the birth process as the
baby travels through the pelvis. These
bones return to their pre-birth state
within hours of birth.
Http://www.Ican-on
line.Org/resources/faqs.Php
next time, trust your instincts and get a
second opinion instead of blindly allowing
a doctor to slice you
open. |
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Alessandra1202
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Joined: 01 Aug 2005 Posts: 48 Location: ohio
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Posted: 08-04-05 12:26pm
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I can not believe youb guys are arguing
like this.......Yes c-sections hold a
higher maternal death rate..But there are
times when this is a much safer
procedure......For instance my daughter at
only 6 ibls was in the birthing canal too
long and I was not dialating so after 12
hours of labor I had an emergency
c-section well during that she was already
down the birthing canal and by this time
her heart rate was extremely low thery
worked their fastest to get her and her
shoulder ripped my uterine wall down to my
vagina now pregnant again I am strongly
recomended to have a c-section.....A
childs life is more important then going
natural and vaginally........
My friend was carrying a big baby and they
were concerned about the head fitting
through but tried going vaginally after
hours of miserable labor the head would
not fit and an emergency c-section was
performed...
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mommy of 1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
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Posted: 08-04-05 15:20pm
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I think you have no idea what you are
saying. I had a c-section and there was
no way of having natural I had an 11lbs
baby and no I did not enjoy getting cut
open but I sure as hell was not giving
natural birth to a 2month old.
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Blue-Eyed_Baby
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Joined: 09 Jul 2005 Posts: 32 Location: California
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Pcforme
Posted: 08-04-05 15:33pm
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Why is it that you constantly go around,
copy what people say, and then post a
reply? If you don't have anything
positive to say, quit reading this and
stay away! People come here for help and
positive answers. The things you bring
up half the time have nothing to do with
anything!
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mommy of 1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
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Posted: 08-04-05 16:21pm
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Would you give birth naturally to an 11lbs
baby, I dont think so, dont call us idiots
there is no reason for that
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mommy of 1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
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Posted: 08-04-05 16:23pm
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Some things you cannot control no matter
how much I wanted a natural birth it just
was not possible, you do not know
everythingso stop acting like you do
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Alessandra1202
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Joined: 01 Aug 2005 Posts: 48 Location: ohio
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Pc Shut Up And Listen Please
Posted: 08-04-05 16:51pm
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Listen pc if I had recorded my childs
birth I would have love for you to tell my
doctors were lying....I had great doctors
and I tried my hardest to give birth
vaginally..........No way do I ever want
to have a c section and sometimes I am
still depressed today but fact is her
heart rate was soooooo low extremely
lowshe could have died I waited to thevery
last minute to have a c-section and thats
what saved her life!!!! Id rather have
her then kill her doing what you think I
should have........My body would not
dialate fast enough...They tried
everything and every drug so you have no
right saying our doctors lie to
us..........And let me say one more thing
I have read your other posts in other
forums and you are a monster!!! What is
wrong with you ...Always have to be right
and have the last word! And for your
information after I got home I got sick in
the middle of winter and with a fever was
not aloud to continue
breastfeeding..........Let me guess they
lied then too.....And I am horrible
because I had to bottle feed. I dont
think so !!! I did what I had to not I
wanted to! And let me tell you my 2 year
old is very healthy and they say one of
the smartest they have seen...Shes well
advanced and the best!! That is thanks to
me!! The way I raise her and treat her
not the way I gave birth or what I fed
her...I can only imagine what your
children think of you or how you treat
them you have no respect!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Alessandra1202
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Aug 2005 Posts: 48 Location: ohio
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Posted: 08-04-05 19:01pm
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Something is seriously wrong with you! My
child is more important then taking
chances! I saw her heart rate dropping
let me guess it was a fixed computer
screen next to me! I dont think
so........Seriously something is wrong
with you! And no I wouldnt just say that
but my child is very much advanced and
very healthy that is thanks to the way I
take care of her not the way she was born.
I can't imagine you have any friends or
anything and I assume whoever got you
pregnant left a long time ago because you
always have to be right and know
everything..............Listen you are not
god and you are not everywhere at every
waking minute to know whats going on with
who...........Yes we all have a right to
try if we wish , but if we are smart we
will listen to the doctors and protect our
children!
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mommy of 1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
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Posted: 08-04-05 19:05pm
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I did not say she could not give birth
naturally im just saying not everyone can,
stop being such a health forum and leave
everyone alone
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mommy of 1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
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Posted: 08-04-05 19:07pm
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Im guessing you can not swear in the
forum? I wrote that she is being a b#tch
and it says health question instead.
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mommy of 1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
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Posted: 08-04-05 19:36pm
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Im done with you, you have wasted enough
of my time. I dont care about facts I
was telling you my story. I never said
she could not have natural birth so how am
I a hypocrite???????
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Alessandra1202
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Posted: 08-04-05 19:40pm
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Pc you must really have no life as I see
you continue to post your nonsense bull in
every forum.....You know nothing I have no
idea what school you went to or where you
get your facts from but please save us all
the time and go back.........Some people
just have to have c-sections! You are no
doctor and thank god for that! You would
let kids die all over.....Some of us want
our children ok and how terrible and
misserable you must be to live life so
depressed as you!!! Why dont you get off
your a$$ and spend some time with your so
called children....If they still consider
you their mother!!!
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mommy of 1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
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Posted: 08-04-05 19:42pm
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You have hit a nerve and that angers me
off. I went into a huge depression over
my c/s thinking I could have done
something else and its people like you
that make people feel bad. You are
supposed to offer help and advise not get
down on people for what has happened to
them. Now I am done with you.
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Alessandra1202
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Joined: 01 Aug 2005 Posts: 48 Location: ohio
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Posted: 08-04-05 19:53pm
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First of all I go to school and got
straight a's in college thank you very
much.... And I never said all c-sections
were necessary but I am stating that mine
was!!! I am very happy my doctor saved
her life please explain to me how you as a
doctor would have made my body dialate and
forced this child out my vagina and saved
her from the embilical cord..You
couldnt!!! Stop putting everyone down for
their choices "ms> I am pro choice!!!
Tyou surely need a few lessons your damn
self! I see most of the people on here
fight with you has anyone ever agreed with
you or gotten along with you? No isnt
that sad??? You enjoy arguing!! You
really arent worth it........Im sure thats
what every man has told you too!
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