I orgasm occasionally when my bf
stimulates me, and i'm (not to brag) an
expert at making myself orgasm. I think I
started masturbating when I was 12 o.O
more than a year before I got my period,
haha!
I didn't even know (until I read this
forum) that there are 2 kinds of orgasm
for women: a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal
orgasm. I've never had a vaginal orgasm,
but after several months of sex with my
bf, I actually almost had one the other
day! It's a much deeper feeling that a
clitoral orgasm, which just makes be buck
around like i'm having a seizure. I could
tell that if i'd actually made it to
orgasm from the vagina, that it would have
been a big orgasm. The whole house would
have heard me!
What i'm attempting to say is that you
have to be very very relaxed with your bf
in order to orgasm. Even though clitoral
orgasm is easier to reach, you still have
to learn to trust and let go. It sounds
like you're slowly being able to do that.
To stimulate the clitoris during sex at a
speed fast enough to make me orgasm would
be pretty hard, singe I really beat myself
up when I go at it, and my bf has to do
the same thing.
Plus, reaching the right spot inside of
your body (the g-spot) is something that
takes practice. My advide for the best
position (since the g-spot is on the front
of your vagina) is either doggy-style (you
can do that lying on your sides, it's fun!
And the bed doesn't squeak) or with you
on top of him, with him on his back.
That's how I almost orgasmed! You can
really press yourself against him that
way.
Also, if he can stimulate you almost to
orgasm and then enter you, in a way that
you can still rub against him (or he can
reach-around if you're going doggy) then
you can orgasm that way. That's what me
and my bf normally do. That way, you get
your pleasure, and he gets the pleasure of
riding you as you go crazy beneath him :)
another thing you can try: though it's
rare, apparently some women orgasm from
anal sex, not vaginal sex. Anal sex is
really enjoyable, but i've only done it
once so I don't know if i'd orgasm from it
or not. Just go slow, and use natural
body fluids for lube (less messy) and
it'll be much less painful. Plus the
"kinkyness" factor might turn you on more
too! It feels kinda weird as you get
going (and right at first, at least for
me, it was really painful for a second,
the first time he slipped in. But I
pulled away, he gave me a few seconds to
relax, and he slid inside againa nd it
didn't hurt at all!) it kinda feels like
you have to poo (cause normally when
there's something in there that big, it's
a really big log!) but that goes away
cause it feels so good.
Okay, now that you have waaaaaay mor info
than you'll ever need, good luck!
