A week or two ago I was messing around
with my boyfriend and we werent having sex
but he was down there without a condom on
and he pulled away and came in his hand!
I got my period the next day and it was
normal and nothing really felt weird until
lately I have been having these flash
headaches and cold sweats and unusual
eating patterns. I may be overreacting
because there are many explanations for
everything. I havent been getting much
sleep lately and im nervous for school to
start, also it was the first time I had
done anything like that and I had never
had sex before so im not sure if its even
possible. I am just very concerned and am
looking for guidance!
Thank you to anybody who can help!
If your not responsible enough to use
protection when you have sex then dont
have sex!
Therefor, you wouldnt have this problem
and you wouldnt be asking people for
advice.
No one knows you better than you know
yourself.
As I told the other girls, you dug your
own grave, fix it yourself.
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 383
Posted: 08-04-05 20:12pm
Okay thats a little harsh. Yes, if you're
not trying to get pregnant you should use
protection, but these boards are here for
people to ask for help. And when they do
they get b*tched at. I do agree though
that no one but yourself knows your body.
If you had your period the next day then I
doubt you're pregnant but take a test to
ease your mind and next time be smart and
use protection.
You cant tell half the girls on here if
they're pregnant or not, you dont know
them nor do you know their body. That's
why I dont understand why these girls ask,
your going to get people saying you and
saying you arent, but in the end you have
to wait it out anyways.
Stupidity sucks. :shock:
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Alessandra1202
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Aug 2005 Posts: 48 Location: ohio
Posted: 08-04-05 22:26pm
You are not smarter then all these other
teens here and not much older then some!
And yet here you are a teen mother only 16
putting others down......Looks like
something failed you too! Birth control
is not always 100% and @ 16 you should
still be in school and we all know sex can
lead to babies and yet you are pregnant!
So don't be putting everyone else down!
They are here for help just because you
think you got your caca together gives you
no right to put down other teens for being
here....If you can't be respectful and you
are know everything and don't need advice
maybe you should stay out of teen forums
because they need support!!!
And yes I am 16 and going to be a teen
mom, I know from experience that you need
to be careful, you stupid b*tch.
I'm not jumping on these girl's back for
nothing you person, im going through it,
trying to prevent what happend to me.
And even though it's none of your
business.
I can afford a child, I have my own car
and my license and am taking ged classes,
i'm a few teen mom's that actually try.
My kid isn't going to end up in some
foster home and my parents are going to be
raising it. You have to give up
everything to raise a child, i'm one of
the few people that actually know and
realize this, if you want to try to make a
point, go to the topics to where girls are
trying to get pregnant.
I might be only 16, but at least I was
responsible enough to use protection, I
used my head. And even though I used
protection, look what happend? Even
though i'll love my child with everything
I have, I still got sh*t on.
I'm going to be a teen mom, I have a job
and I make great money, i'll be able to
afford a child when I can no longer work,
i'll have my ged which is as good as a
highschool diploma, I have a car and dont
rely on people to do the work for me. I'd
say i'll be one hell of a parent.
I'm not judging anyone or trying to jump
on anybody's back to diss them, i'm
telling them to simply not do something if
you havent had experience in it,
especially if your not responsible enough
to use protection, if girls were more
careful, there wouldnt be posts like this,
but they brought it upon themselves and as
I said, i'm going through it which gives
me a right to pass out useful advice.
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mommy of 1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
Posted: 08-04-05 22:48pm
No one listens when they are being put
down, I was a teen mom too and I know that
me telling these girls that they are
stupid is not going to stop them, they
will do what they want, so we should just
answer there questions respectfully. I
know I dint listen when I was that age,
but it would have been nice just to talk
to someone instead of being yelled at. I
know it is frustrating watching young
girls get preg when you know how hard life
will be for them, but whats the point of
being mean? It does not work!!
I'm typing what I think, how do you know
if I am yelling or being mean to anybody
if you can't hear what i'm saying?
I might of came off as a b*tch but if you
or anybody else cant handle my opinions
then how are kids that are 12,13,14 and 15
going to take the stares and smirks that
people give them when they're big?
Babies shouldn't be having babies.
You should have your legs sown shut until
you're 18, if I wasnt in the situation
that I am I would of done that myself!
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mommy of 1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
Posted: 08-04-05 23:01pm
But it does not help to be soo harsh, it
makes them feel like sh$t, I know people
did it to me and it did no good, they need
help, im sure they know they are in a bad
situation they probably here it all day,
so they come here for someone helpfull to
talk to, maybe share your story with them
instead of telling them they dug there own
grave
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Alessandra1202
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Aug 2005 Posts: 48 Location: ohio
Posted: 08-04-05 23:41pm
Sweetie having a ged isnt caca these days.
Even having a good college degree is hard
to land a decent job with. Children are
very expensive more then I think you know.
You should try to at least finish school
ive seen girls do it....But still you have
no right bashing others when you arent in
a great position your self. No one
listens to yelling and negativity and
people that put down and got on girls like
this is what drives them to sex lives
because they get no help.
You arent even old enough to have your own
house or even vote yet you have no right
talking to these girls like that. Leave
the posts for people who want to help
I'm not old enough to have my own house?
I turn 17 in a month, it's legal where i'm
from to move out when you're 17.
I never said a ged was as good as a
college degree, it's as good as a
highschool diploma, get your doing it
facts straight.
I have a good job that i've had since I
was 14, I make good money. I don't have
to work, if I don't have too because I can
already support my child, I know me better
than you do, you don't know how I live, my
lifestyle or how much money I have or
make, you know what I tell you.
I know how expensive children are, you
would not know even if I didn't.
I might not tell the girls what they want
to hear, but all my answers are out of
honesty and that's something I won't and
will never hide because some girl wants me
too.
If you don't like what I have to say then
just don't read it hunny, simple as
that.
You can't always expect a positive answer
from everybody, i'm not going to feel
sympathy for these girls when they brought
the problem upon themselves, girls ask if
they're pregnant and it's like, how the
medical question do I know? You didnt use
a condom while you had sex, your fault,
your problem.
I may be a teen mom but at least I used my
common sense, I tried to prevent
pregnancy, I was on birth control for 6
months before I got pregnant. Who's fault
is that? Not mine.
No stress on my back.
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Alessandra1202
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Aug 2005 Posts: 48 Location: ohio
Posted: 08-05-05 12:01pm
Oh sweetie one thing you may have learned
if you stayed in school was how to
read......I said a ged isnt worth anything
these days and either is a cillege
degree......Of course I know how much
children are these days I have 2 of
them....And please I work for the
government and make extremely good money
so you can stop your nonsense! My point
is teens arent coming here to be treated
like that obviously you havent matured yet
yourself and I hope you grow up and treat
your child with more respect....Like
another woman said girls arent going to
listen when you speak that to them....
You are right I dont know you nor do you
know these girls....But I highly doubt you
have it as good as you claim....You are in
for a big suprise get back to the board in
a few moths and let us know how you are!
Good luck ;)
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Kate917881
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2005 Posts: 113
Posted: 08-05-05 14:12pm
Seems to me ..Everyone has gotten off the
point of topic.. This girl came here
asking for help.. Looking for advice
from the people here.. The ones who are
supposed to be setting a good example of
the forum.. But obviously that isn't the
case.. Rather then helping this girl..
It's come to argueing about petty
stuff...The negativity is ridiculous..
Offering advice and b*tching are 2
seperate things.. When the girls come
here.. They need help.. They need
someone who is going to give them an
honest opinion..Sure there are alot of
posts each day about young girls saying "i
had sex.. Could I be pregnant" yes ..You
could.. Read some of the "sticky notes"
at the top of the forum..For more
information.. And go get a hpt..
Sharing our stories with these girls..
Offers them the insite of how hard it is
to be pregnant at a young age...And how
hard it is to raise a child.. But..
Being so harsh about things isn't going to
teach them anything except that no one
cares what happens to them.. And I
personally don't want to make them feel
that way.. Were all entitled to post our
opinions.. But for the sake of these
girls.. And the unwanted argueing can we
atleast just post the advice and leave the
negativity and assumptions out of it.
Thanks
I have a niece that's lived with my family
and I since she was born.
She call's my mom, mom.
Why? Because my sister is a stupid female
part of the body who can't keep her legs
closed. Yes.
Me, I know myself better than anyone on
this site does, I know I can afford a
child, I dont need some c*nt thinking she
knows me better than I know myself and
telling me I cant afford a kid, etc.
I know what i'm in for and i'm prepared
for it. :d
just because your older and have spread
your legs more than once to get 2 kids
doesnt mean you know more than I do, you
work for the government? Whupty doo, you
want a reward?
My mom is a social worker, give me a
lollypop.
Get a doing it grip you dumb b*tch
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Alessandra1202
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Aug 2005 Posts: 48 Location: ohio
Posted: 08-08-05 11:26am
You have such a great mouth for a person
thats going to be a mother!!Thats really
attractive and i'm sure its appropriate
for your children.......Since your mom is
a social worker she should tell you you
dont sound like you are very mature and
you need should be doing other
constructive things instead of cussing
people out and being rude .....Those
people dont turn to be very good moms!!!
Um I suggest you to go to the doctor and
find out to see what is going on and stuff
liek that. Don't be afriad to ask anyone
on here. Daciallynn... Please take your
anger somewhere else because you were very
harsh when someone was asking for an
advice.
The other was right.. A college degree or
a highschool/ged education isn't worth it
these days because there are several
groups of people is taking over the
business now these days and theres no use
of getting them anyway. So chill out
sometimes
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Alessandra1202
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Aug 2005 Posts: 48 Location: ohio
Posted: 08-09-05 09:27am
Thank you sweetlil....Some young girls
just dont get it and that is why our
public assistence is getting
ruined......Dropping out of school and
getting a g.E.D. These days isnt
nothing....Heck you can have a masters and
still be out of a job I know plenty of
people that have graduated from very great
colleges and came home to find
nothing...........Unfortunetly you can
always find a job in vegas making good
money with no education lol
anyway my point was only that these girls
are here for help and the language on this
board is terrible especially to the teens
and only makes the person speaking look
stupid.....
I haven't dropped out of school, i'm still
out for the summer.
G.E.D is a choice I have when I have my
baby, I don't believe leaving my baby with
a babysitter, even though school is
important, no one would treat my child as
good as I would.
If you can't handle my attitude then don't
read what I have to say, i'm going to
reply to comments and there's nothing you
can do about it but b*tch, your b*tching
doesn't affect me, mine shouldn't affect
you neither.
You don't know me, i'm just a girl on the
internet that posts in a teen pregnancy
forum. Do something about it?
A g.E.D isn't a highschool diploma, but
it's better than dropping out of school
and quitting completly just to raise my
baby.
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Sweetlildakota
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Aug 2005 Posts: 7 Location: New York
Reply to Daci Posted: 08-09-05 21:04pm
Gurl, I was several month pregnant when I
was still in high school but was a senior
at that time though. I didn't manage to
quit.. I was planning to but I missed 4
weeks of school due to my morning sickness
but still manage to graduate ... Um now
its kinda hard to see if you wanna go to
college or not.
G-e-d is for everyone who wants it and
needed it for a job... Most of the time..
Doesn't needed it though. I am having a
hard time looking for a job because most
of them isn't hiring or need a advance
"education" like college degree. Its
stupid now and then but yes we all have to
put up with the stupidity of education
that doesn't do anything for us. Um im
not b*tching at your or anything... I
just dont want you to be harsh on these
young girls.. Thats all im asking
