Scared

Thank you nurse sarah well said..Most of us agree!!

To the rest of the girls/teens on here dont be afraid to ask any question and dont pay any attention to the ignorant answers you will read because unfortunetly they will post.......But there are more of us that will give advice and be there

Stop posting?

Since when was it wrong to have an opinion, you cant expect every opinion to be positive.

It's common sense, everyone has common sense so doing it use it.

What person doesnt use protection unless they want to get pregnant or they want to catch aids and std's. It's called self respect, sorry that I have morals!

Yeah I am 16. Turning 17 soon. I was on birth control when I got pregnant, wasnt my fault, I had been with the guy since I was 12. It's no stress on my back that i'm pregnant because if it wasn't meant to be it wouldn't of happend.

When you bring things up on yourself like this situation this girl put herself in, I wouldnt ask for advice, because like I said, she brought this upon herself, it's her fault either you like it or not.

The truth hurts, so get over it.

Well the way I see it ms dawhatever you have no right to be in here first of all voicing your opinion just because you think "oh am 16 and pregnant so I can say whatever I want to make a point" I dont think so. Everybody else is right, we only come here for help and all you wanna do is criticize people for their mistakes and and how it's there problem well you know what take your own advice sista cuz you aint in no better position. Ok good for you wow you thought of using protection well that doesn't make a difference cuz you still had sex too. These girls and me ask for advice because maybe there's no one else we can talk to and when we do talk to someone all they wanna do is b*tch us out like your doing. That's not fair or right. Ok you can afford a child and drive but what's gonna happen if you lose that job? You say babies shouldn't be having babies then why did you have sex in the first place? If you say you should have your legs sown shut until you are 18 then why didn't you keep yours shut? I think if you weren't in the position you are now you'd still be having sex hell you probably are now cuz you can't get more pregnant than you already are. Just because it's legal to move out when your 17 doesnt mean that you can afford a house with monthly payments and still support your child. The funny thing is you say you have self respect and morals but it sure doesn't seem like it if you wanna have sex at 16. Just because you use protection doesn't mean that's morals. Having morals is not having sex until your married ok, so think twice about what you write and maybe you should get better information on your "facts". The way I see it your not fit to be a mom especially now and with your nasty attitude. Your child isn't gonna be any better then you. I hope you have a girl so she can do to you what you are doing to your mother. Next time stop to think about what you were feeling when you found out or thought you were pregnant. You probably wanted advice just like anyone else in here. Like the old saying if you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all.

You go girl!

Ahhh :d

holla htown bunny!!

Very well said

i love your post you are absolutely right!

Moving out on your own with children is one of the most difficult things to do emotionally and financially and everyday struggles and decisions! Being young makes it only harder....And yea what about when you lose a job or are maternity leave....Its hard!

But with support it can happen!!

I might of opened my legs young, but I was responsible enough to use protection against pregnancy and std's the first year I was with my boyfriend. I'm not opening my legs and having a guy cum in me and then posting on a board saying, oh my help me, I was stupid and dont know if im pregnant or not.

I am young, and i'm telling the girl this because it happend to me, that 1% chance of me being "unlucky" has made a huge change in my life. And I was using protection! What's the chance of her being pregnant if she didn't?

Point is, if you dont want to get pregnant then simply use protection, it's not hard to get condoms, in my doctors office, they pass out bags for free!

You have to be physically and emotionally really to give up your virginity, let alone handle the situation afterwards. If she was so worried about getting pregnant, she would of used protection, it's that simple.

Me, the way I act towards people on a forum has nothing to do with the type of mother i'll be, nor does it have anything to do with the way i'll treat my child.

Wow, okay, let me address the big mouth first because I cant let that one slide- no one looking for help wants your (im sorry to say this but its true) ignorant opinion. Just because you are 16 and pregnant for the first time doesnt make you the authority on life with a child or pregnancy. I know this may shock you, but there are people out there that know more about the hardships of being a parent than you do (considering you arent even technically parenting anyone yet). And I hope that you will treat your child with more dignity and respect than you are treating the honest people that post on here. When your child asks a "stupid" question are they going to get a stupid answer? Please do us the favor of catching up with us in, say, 5 or 6 years to apologize to us about how naive you were when you were 16.
To everyone else that posted, you answered with intellect and patience. Well said :)
roxxy

One more thing to dalycia, you mentioned that you used protection but you got "stuff on". Thats a nice way to put it, write it down in your babys keepsake book. "this is the day I found out I got stuff on", im sure it will make your child feel good. Good attitude.

Now for the original topic: are you pregnant?
Maybe, maybe not. Honestly your body acts crazy if you are stressed, dehydrated, or have a deficiency (like anemia). Ive felt the way you do when I wasnt pregnant, so dont sit around and panic hoping this anxiety goes away.... Just take a test then you can find out for sure and go from there. If you are, its best to know... The more time you have to prepare the easier it can be. If youre not, count this scare as a blessing and never forget it.
Roxxy

Obviously, I was referring to being caca on as other people as putting it as. If you read, and looked you would know this.


I won't treat my child the way I treat people on here, because unlike people on here, my child will be raised to use its common sense, my child wont be a little prostitute that spreads her legs.

Like I said, if you dont want to become pregnant, use a condom. Its not hard, and if you're too immature to do so, then close your legs and don't have sex, it's simple.


You play you pay.

And to make things understandable, I just turned 17.

Retardedness

poof goes you.

To save you looking like an fool, read why I put I just turned 17, think before you post.

Your a b*tch off of the internet.

Ohh i'm so scared, come punch me through the monitor.


Grow the hell up.

First off, im 17 and 7 months pregnant and I have a g.E.D. And it wont get you far. Its not just as good as a diploma. The only good it did me was helping me get into community college. Jobs dont even like g.E.D.'s they want diplomas or college degrees. Also I know you said you have a job but your 16 so I know you dont make alot of money. Not enough to do it on your own anyways without outside help or other people to help you out. My and my fiance' have jobs and it take almost all that just to get everything we need before the baby is born. And we make a decent amount. I work for the state getting between 1000-2000 month and he makes 2,000 a month. Its not a cheap thing and it takes alot of work and a much better attitude than what you have. What kind of example is that going to set for you baby? And if you talk like that now that baby knows. I dunno how far along you are or anything but eventually that baby will be able to hear what your saying and they do say that what the baby hears before its born they can recognize after they are born. Oh and just remember you opened your legs too so you cant say anything about anyone else getting preggo


as for the girl who started this post, you never know you could be. I guess its just one of them things you'll just have to wait and see for. Like if you get your next period then your not (unless your one of those few people who get it while their pregnant.) but thats very doubtful. Good luck though!

I'm getting my high school diploma.

You don't know how much money I make.

Don't judge me, or i'll judge you back.

Judge me I dont care but im not judging im just going by what you've already said

First of all, you said you were going to get a g.E.D and now you are saying your getting a high school diploma. Can we say, lier? First of all g.E.D's are so pointless. If you can't make it through highschool why don't you just try homeschooling?

2nd of all, who gives a crap if your 17? It's just an age. What matters the most is when you turn 18.

3rd of all, your telling girls that they are idiots for spreading their legs. Yeah they spread their legs, just like you. Oh wow you had protection. Some girls who have post said they had protection. You know there was a chance of still getting pregnant, so why did you spread your legs? Like someone said, I don't remember who it was. You don't have morals unless you wait till marriage. You have no right saying that people are idiots for spreading their legs, just like you did. Your only 16, maybe 17? Your still a teenage girl. Your not an adult. Your a kid having a kid. Remember that phrase? I really don't care if you have money and blah blah blah. A baby needs loving from their parents, not an attitude like yours. Yeah it's important to have money, but that doesn't by the babies love.

Anyway. You could of just posted nicely instead of yelling at the girl. You going to use cus words around your child? Great..My nephew is three and all he does is cus. Your going to be such a terrific mother with your attitude. Your not going to be able to handle it.