Scared

Yeah, she always seem to be the topic of all the fights, I dont agree with her aproach

And I usually just ignore her, but it got to the point where I felt the need to defend some of the girls who either cant/or dont defend themselves. Like I said the I pray you get aids comment just did it to me.

That was the one that really pissed me off that is the most immature thing to say, not very motherly thing to say :( so sad to think that way

I agree

Wow did someone finally get her to back off......Thank you! These poor girls...Ill admit yes we have repeat questions and yes some are self explanitory, but thats what these forums are here for and boy was she just evil and ms. Know it all! And what a hypocrite!! She will learn sooner then later

Thats the point.

I opened my legs and I got pregnant, with protection. So whats the chances of these girls that are younger than me getting pregnant without using it?

I'm telling my experience and am telling it from my point of view and how I went through it. Lol that's what you guys seem to not get.

And sorry I don't reply "quickly" I do have a life, you know.

I'm 17!!

It doesnt make you better because you used protection you still got pregnant

It doesn't make me better than everyone else, it makes me different.

Most of the girls on this website got pregnant on purpose, not me.

I keep saying I got pregnant while using protection because, I was using protection, what's the percentage of these girls getting pregnant when they didn't use protection?

I think it's stupid when a girl comes on here asking for advice because she didn't use protection, that's her fault. And no i'm not being mean or blaming anyone. But she put that on herself, and if she was so scared of having a baby then she would of used protection.

And when I got pregnant, no! I didnt turn to anyone for help, because it was my problem. I had to make a choice, I did. Not my friends or family. And I chose to take the path that i'm on now.

I went on birth control knowing that it was affective, that's what it's for. That's why doctors prescribe it. You dont go on birth control saying "oh yeah this 1% chance is going to get me pregnant" you're thinking, "i'm glad i'm doing this because I don't have to worry about not using protection and thinking i'm pregnant"

i am clueless. I'm going to be a teen mom and that scares the f*ck out of me. So? I'm not telling people on here they're going to be a bad mom. No matter how old you are, or how your attitude is. That says nothing about what type of mother i, or anyone else will be.

Look love, like I keep saying, if you are so clueless and scared, you should have had an abortion.

Being clueless isn't gonna help you when your baby cries, nor will it help you pay the rent.

And you didn't turn to anybody for help?

You aint gonna get nowhere in life if you dont ask for help once in awhile, thats what friends and family are there for.

I used be exactly like you and try to work out my own problems, but it does not work, it just makes you frustrated and angry.

My ex boyfriend was 22 when I started going out with him at 16 and let me tell you, he used to always try and teach me that everybody needs help, and I finally learnt that, even though I ended up hating him in the end for making me see that.

Think a little more girls, or you aint gonna get nowhere.

I didn't have an abortion because my situation was meant to be. I don't feel the need to kill an innocent child with a beating heart. My child isn't able to speak for itself right now, it doesnt have the choice if it wants to be alive or not, so i'm doing what I feel is best.

I never said I don't ask anyone for help, we all have our issues, but me getting pregnant was on me, and it was no one's decision to tell me to get an abortion or not, it was my choice. A choice that I now feel is incredible.

Getting somewhere in life has nothing to do with me asking anybody for help, it has to do with what you want to make yourself out to be.

I'm a highschool student and am getting my highschool diploma in 7 months. I have my own car, and I have a job that i've held before I even got pregnant.

I'm not going to get anywhere in life? I'm doing better than most 20 year olds are.

Me helping my own problems doesn't make me angry. It's called self control, sounds like you need some anger management yourself.

I don't feel the need to drag other people into my issues when in the end, no ones opinion mattered but your own anyways.

You know you keep going on about how you have a job and a car and your in high school, but honestly I dont think thats what matters the most.

I never hear you say about how your going to be there for your kid and love him no matter what.

You sound like you really need to think about what you say.

You say that your allowed to have your opinion, well I have mine but no matter what I say you keep trying to defend yourself instead of letting me express what I think!!!

Haha grow up, you keep going on about how your 17, 17 aint caca,

your wishing your life away love.

No one knows how i'll treat my baby but me, and I think nothing else matters but what I think, when it has to do with my baby.

Having a job and such does matter, because unlike these 13 and 15 year old girls wanting to get pregnant, they arent even old enough for a job, nor old enough to have a license.

I'm glad to hear you have a strong opinion, and I like reading what others have to say, but I won't change my posts or my attitude, or how I give advice just because a few girls don't like it.

If you don't like it then please just don't read it. I'll try to make my comments more "nicer"

until then,bye "love"

I just read threw all these post. The poor girl didn't even say she had sex. Just that her boyfriend was messing around down there and then came in his hand. Dalicialynn, I understand your going to be a mom for the first time and you are way to young, and that you are scared. But damn. I'm glad you are graduating, I hope you go to college, you'll need it. Car is a good thing too. And i'm thrilled you take responsibility for your own actions. But take it from someone whos been there, and oh yeah I used protection too. High school diploma not good enough anymore. It was hard when I did it 13 years ago, and I just had a baby back in dec. I spend $50 a week on formula, $15 on diapers, $10 on baby food, $6 on wipes. And god only knows how much on laundry and clothes and medical expenses. And that is piled on top of rent, gas, groceries, ect ect. In all over $3000 goes out a month. If you actually make more then that more power to you. But you said you didn't want to leave the baby with a sitter, so what good is the job you have now then? If you want to prevent girls from ending up where you are, stop cussing at all of us. For one your point is not getting acrossed and honestly it does make you look ignorant, which i'm hoping is the wrong impression, and for most of these girls it's to late. You want to help talk to the girls who haven't had sex yet or are not pregnant. The ones who are or think they might be are scared and more likely then not have already learned their lesson.

I just don't understand how girls as young as 12 and 13 are even having sex, what is this world coming too now days..

And yes, I do know i'm going to be a young mom, and if I had the choice I would of honestly waited. I'm the type of person to wait until marriage to have a baby. It's confusing really, but I respect you're opinion.

I'm not coming off mean, that's just how I am. I find it quite silly and amusing that girls are doing this, it's insane, when I was 12 and 13 I was eating ice cream and playing hide and seek with my brothers and sisters. Boys were the last thing on my mind.

These girls can do as they please, i'm not forcing anything on them nor am I pressuring any of them to do anything. They make their own decisions, my opinion or not. And i'm fully aware of this.

I just find it quite.....Dumb? That on another post, this 13 year old girl wants to have a baby, she said she can afford one with her paper route job, and she knows she could give her baby a better life if she waits, but chooses not too. She says she'll wait, but what would you say if a whole bunch of girls were disagreeing with a post that you made? I'd say the same dang thing, honestly. Just for people to get off my back.

I'm going to go to college and make something out of myself. They have special programs here, it's a college where you can actually take your baby with you, which I am planning on doing.

I was a successful model until I became pregnant, i've been modeling since I was a child. I had a wonderful life ahead of me, and just because it got rocky at the moment, my head is still held up high.

I wish these girls tons of luck, and hope they make the right choices

Wow a model too hey?

:roll:

the caca just keeps coming out of your mouth,
why dont you just admit that your a snooty little cow and you think your better than everybody else, but guess what, your not.

You make yourself look like, well..... A stupid little snooty cow.

You are gonna crash and burn sooner or later because you make yourself out to know what you are doing, when really you dont.

Who's the one being immature now.

Hypocrite, *points finger*

yes, i'm such a nasty little cow.

My photo says it all.

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and yes, I was a model. Point being?

Meh your boring now.

Im over it