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mommy of 1
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Location: traverse city michigan
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Why So Mean???
Posted: 08-04-05 20:18pm
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Ok I know some of the questions are silly
but why do some people have to be so
negative??? These girls come here for
advise because they have no where else to
turn, and people make fun of and make them
feel stupid. I dont get it, if you think
a question is stupid just dont
answer!!!!!!!
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mommy of 1
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Location: traverse city michigan
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mommy of 1
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Posted: 08-04-05 20:31pm
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Only mean thing I said was directed to you
because you get on everyones case if they
dont do things your way
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mommy of 1
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Location: traverse city michigan
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Blue-Eyed_Baby
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Re: Why So Mean???
Posted: 08-04-05 21:15pm
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| pcforme
wrote: | | do that go for you as
well? |
you aren't correct at everything...Grammar
lesson maybe?
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Alessandra1202
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Posted: 08-04-05 21:27pm
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I agree mommy I have no idea what pc's
problem is but I have seem some people get
pretty offended and especially to talk
like that to people in the teenage
forums....These girls are looking for
advice and help turning to people they may
be able to look up because they are
uneducated or scared and to hear some of
these comments coming from pc are just
terrible.......They dont deserve that and
personally either does anyone on these
boards. Every one that I have visited she
has been on there putting someone down.
Please be repectful these people depend
and count on our feedback and
answers....
Thank you mommy I appreciate someone else
coming forward as I see alot have!
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mommy of 1
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Posted: 08-04-05 22:02pm
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I know how it feels to be put down all of
the time, when I got preg I was 15, 16
when I had her that was 7 years ago,
anyways everyone was so nasty to me,
hardly anyone had real advise for me. I
wish I would have found a forum back then,
it is nice to know some people actually
care about others, so I dont like to see
other people laughed at and put down, it
bothers me
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Kate917881
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Hey
Posted: 08-04-05 22:09pm
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I have to commend mommy of 1 .. It's
about time someone said something about
the attitudes in here..It's like ..Sure
these girls should be more responsible
about there actions but by the time they
get here to the forum it's to late .. Now
what they need most is someone who is
going to be here to help them .. Offer
advice and all in all just be a good
listener.. These girls are scared..Sure
it's the result of their own actions but
maybe the scare will teach them, that if
their not pregnant now.. That they need
to start using protection or abstain from
sex.. But the only thing they will learn
here if we turn them away is that no one
cares what happens to them and they may
end up pregnant if they aren't already..
Well i've spoken my peace .. Thank you
mommy of 1.
And for those of you who have a negative
dispostion...We don't need you here..
Your not helping anyone, only putting them
down
:evil:
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mommy of 1
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 08-05-05 05:53am
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Pc likes starting ish. She does it on
the other forums as well, don;t pay her no
mind.
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seksiHily
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Posted: 08-05-05 08:32am
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Stick around for about a year and answer
questions daily when there are 4 other
posts asking the same thing and tell me u
think its being negative
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Kate917881
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Posted: 08-05-05 14:44pm
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I'm not saying to sugercoat it as you say
..What im saying is lay of the negative
attitude .. It's ridiculous.. It's not
doing anyone any good
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seksiHily
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Posted: 08-05-05 14:50pm
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I may sound like a health forum but, pay
attention in sex ed maybe if you dont know
what can get you pregnant you aren't ready
for sex.
I have no problem with hi I think I might
be pregnant im going to test.
But dont ask me if I think you are, take a
test.
Seriously I notice all of you that are
saying this is mean have been here for
like 2 mos tops
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Alessandra1202
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Posted: 08-05-05 15:50pm
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I have an idea how about if you dont want
to hear these girls stories or questions
you dont read them instead of being
rude!.....You obviously know by the topic
what will be in the forum so dont go there
why go and talk down to them?? It makes
no sense to me....And for your information
we have plenty of cities in the u.S. That
doesn't offer the best educational classes
I live right next a city with what has to
be the worst academic schools around and
with very high poverty rates and run down
schools these girls could really use some
advice and guidence and pushing them away
and making them feel stupid and alone will
not help!
Its not that hard to be respectful or not
to post...And its easy to tell it how it
is without being rude or calling names!
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seksiHily
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Posted: 08-05-05 16:03pm
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If I didnt want to hear their stories or
questions I wouldn't be here, but I think
sometimes if they look around a bit they
can find the answer quickly.
I dont think its rude to tell them how to
help themselves.
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Pocket Angel
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Posted: 08-05-05 16:15pm
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I think people need to concentrate on
helping these girls and their babies,
helping their future. I am sure they
came here for help, not to listening to
total strangers lecturing them on what
they did wrong in the past. If they are
pregnant, who cares how they get pregnant,
there isnt anything you can do about it.
Lets concentrate on helping these young
girls explore their options.
And as for sugarcoating? Being nice
isn't sugarcoating. I think we all need
to disregard these idiots who come here
just to post negative things. They will
get whats coming to them in the end.
Kudos to all who try to help and do it
tastefully!
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Alessandra1202
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Posted: 08-05-05 16:20pm
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Thank you pocket angel well said! I know
I am just as bad at times getting on these
people for being so negative I should stop
after I say one thing but I have been here
for only a little bit and every forum I go
to these young girls are being put down
and called names and that does no good!!!
I am just ashamed people would go to
teenage forums and treat them like that I
am sure they can go in their community and
get that if thats what they were looking
for but they come here for guidence and
support!
Thank you pocket :p
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seksiHily
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Posted: 08-05-05 16:39pm
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I dont think that showing someone how and
asking them to help themselves is
negative. I guess its a matter of
opinion.
How did this turn into having a problem
with teen moms? Lol
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Alessandra1202
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Posted: 08-05-05 17:13pm
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Oh I am sorry seksi...I was referring to
the others in the teenage forums because
they have been really cruel to these young
girls I guess I probably posted my
comments in the wrong forum because they
both sounded similar ...........But this
one actually started with 'pc" acting rude
I believe................Oh who cares I
was just trying to get everyone to be
nice!!! It's so much better when people
are nice and get along you can learn alot
from each other and even make new
friends.........But oh well guess everyone
isnt here to be nice.......Sorry
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seksiHily
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Posted: 08-05-05 17:17pm
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My advice, ignore pc its trying to piss
you off and lives to hear the responses.
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