I Need Your Help!! Me And My Girlfriend Are Freaking Out!!! Posted: 08-05-05 01:40am
We have had unprotected sex for a while
now, and I know its stupid. I haven't
ejaculated in her during intercourse.
Yet, we both got sperm on our hands about
two weeks ago. She washed her hands and
then after I went and changed my clothes
for work and washed my hands with water
because their wasn't any soap. Than
about 5-10 minutes later I finger-banged
her. For the last week and a half she
has had breast tenderness. Her period
should becoming on the ninth, but I am
still worried. She usualy experiences
breast tenderness for about a week before
she starts her period. But she will be
experiencing it for two weeks on the
ninth. One more thing, I have noticed
she is gaining some fat not just on her
stomach but also around her hips. Reply
as soon as possible!!
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christa33us
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Aug 2005 Posts: 104 Location: ohio
Posted: 08-05-05 22:14pm
Just to let you know you do not have to
ejaculate in her, she can get pregnant by
pre-ejaculation (leakage). It contains
just as much sperm. If she is not
pregnant then take this as a scary
learning experience. If your not ready to
be parents then don't play with fire and
if your going to, there is a ton of
birthcontrol methods to meet both your
needs.
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christa33us
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Aug 2005 Posts: 104 Location: ohio
Posted: 08-05-05 22:14pm
Just to let you know you do not have to
ejaculate in her, she can get pregnant by
pre-ejaculation (leakage). It contains
just as much sperm. If she is not
pregnant then take this as a scary
learning experience. If your not ready to
be parents then don't play with fire and
if your going to, there is a ton of
birthcontrol methods to meet both your
needs.
Good luck!!!
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juda
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Aug 2005 Posts: 5
Posted: 08-06-05 09:17am
I would say get ready to get a second job.
Cause baby cloths, supplies, crib,
stroller, carseat, maternaty
cloths,formula, pampers, can get very
expensive... Get used to never hanging
out with friends and your chick getting
very moody, and you better get some sleep
in between jobs cause when that baby comes
you out of luck buddy... J/k if that
scarred you then maybe you should wear
condoms or get her an iud
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seksiHily
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Apr 2005 Posts: 1015 Location: MN
Posted: 08-06-05 09:19am
I really doubt that the sperm survived the
water and 5-10 minutes.
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gurl_lee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005 Posts: 8 Location: Oakland
Posted: 08-07-05 02:45am
I got pregnant by unprotected sex...We
used the pull out method for 3 and 1/2
years...But in dec 2004...It didnt work.
Can you say pre-cum? He never
ejaculatied in me...If you are not ready
to be a parent...Use protection. It can
happen to you anytime regardless how many
times you done it in the past. Im just
happy that I have a man that loves me and
this baby and old enough to have one too.
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Pocket Angel
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2005 Posts: 241 Location: Thiells, New York
Posted: 08-07-05 07:35am
Pre-ejaculation is actually said to be
more potent with sperm than the full
ejaculation.
If she is pregnant, she would not have
gotten pregnant from your hands. She
would be pregnant from pre-ejaculation.
My sister got pregnant this way at 16, she
thought the pull out method worked... It
definitely doesnt!
