Joined: 05 Aug 2005 Posts: 33 Location: Galveston Tx
Hey Whats Up Everyone New Member. Posted: 08-05-05 04:13am
Hey evryone whats up iam 19 and I have a 3
year old daughter and just had a
miscarrage a month ago :( .It was hard for
me because I thought that something like
that would neve happen to me but I was
wrong it can happen to anybody.
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dexi
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2005 Posts: 40 Location: aberdeenshire
Posted: 09-05-05 11:12am
Hi there young mum, very sorry to hear
that you miscarried. Let life take its
course as everything happens for a reason,
I hope that doesnt sound too pompous? I
had a miscarraige of one of my twins when
I was 23 and had a 4 yo girl. I went on
to give birth to an amazing little girl
who is now 16. But everyday I think of my
little boy, and I am now 40!!! I quietly
'celebrate ' the 'birth' of my lost one
every year but im not sure if anyone would
understand my doing this. After I had my
girl and resumed periods I went thru hell
thinking every month that I was pregnant ,
followed by the inevitable blood and pain
of my period which in my head became like
reliving the miscarraige every single
month and I asked the doctor to sterilize
me. I know that it was a little extreme
but I knew in my heart that if there were
no eggs getting thru that there could be
no possibilities of getting pregnant and
therefore no possibility of miscarrying!!!
Of course I gave the doc a different
reason for the op. Now I am married again
and nothing would give me more pleasure
than to give birth to my hubbys babby but
its never going to happen!.. Sorry for
going on I guess I dont get to talk about
it very often.. As im sure you will
find.. I hope that you have the family
that you long for just give yourself time
it lessens the pain, but how can you
forget? You never should...Hugs
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First_time_mum
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Aug 2005 Posts: 93 Location: Dubai.... for now
Posted: 09-06-05 06:48am
Welcome my dear and sorry to hear 'bout
the loss of your baby. I also had a
miscarriage last dec and just like
you..... Never thought it will happen to
me. Young and active but.... It can
happen to anyone. Hope you will enjoy
this forum. Members here are nice and
helpful.
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ctrule
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Aug 2005 Posts: 60
Posted: 09-07-05 16:03pm
Sorry to hear about your loss. I
couldn't imagine that happening to me
either, so I know it was a shock for you.
Are you trying to conceive again?
Again, sorry to hear about your loss.
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imadaddy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2005 Posts: 9 Location: Indiana
Hi Posted: 10-03-05 13:23pm
Im so sorry my /f is xpecting thats a big
scer I dont thank I could servive if that
happend to us that is so bad (im sorry)
so are you okey know did you get some
kinda help keep in tuch
